Seymour 3970 Report post Posted March 21, 2009 Earlier this week in another non CERB conversation, the topic of priorities and age came up. So based on other thoughts I had following that conversation, I thought I'd ask a question here. As we mature, our priorities change. Specifically for the long time hobbyists is it possible that what you seek in a great date today varies a little, considerably or vastly from when you started? I know we've had threads about providers and their feelings on their clients age and vice versa. I could not find one specific to this context above. I didn't want to do a poll (even though I kinda worded the lead in like a poll) as the poll would likely generate feedback about the poll itself rather than foster a discussion on the topic. This way everyone can participate and share their experiences and thoughts. With the diverse membership here, I hope we can get some insight on this. Thanks in advance for your input. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
E.D. man 691 Report post Posted March 21, 2009 i would say the electricity of a kiss counts and cuddling after sex is important, without these, I would not repeat. if you rish me out the door, don't expect me to repeat.:smile:8-) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rickoshadows 937 Report post Posted March 21, 2009 When I was younger, actually much younger, MSOG was my highest priority, and I would pay extra. My first shot was just something to get over with to get to the second and third which tended to be more intense for me. Even a few years ago, twice within an hour was the norm for me. Now, it is much more about connection. The willingness to remain engaged for the majority of the time leading to orgasm and then staying physically in contact afterwards unitil the session is over. I know it is an illusion, isn't that is what we are paying for after all? And if you can get me to go for two rounds, I'll repeat!:mrgreen: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BigBlueMachine 112 Report post Posted March 21, 2009 (edited) When I first started hobbying, it was all about being with a young hottie and the end result of being satisfied. Now as I've matured and have a bit more disposable income it more about the overall experience. GFE is more about the fantasy that you are actually with your girl friend. The interactions, chit-chatting, playing around, cuddling, dfk, daty etc all lends itself to being truly GFE. Obviously, a physical attraction to the lady is important but this is secondary now and usually taken care of before hand as you normally have a pretty good idea of who you are meeting. I generally look for ladies who prefer quality of service over quantity (ie very limited bookings per day). Edited March 21, 2009 by BigBlueMachine typo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest i***k*** Report post Posted March 21, 2009 Personally I've always had better dates with mature, intelligent and beautiful women... and when you connect with the right one... WOW! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
YoungStud 468 Report post Posted March 21, 2009 Age is not really a prime determining factor for me. Maturity is. I've had wonderful connections with 24 year olds who are smart and mature and bad connections with 38 year olds who behave like spoiled children. The key for me, even beyond my favourite physical attributes, is a love for and enjoyment of all aspects of sex and sensuality - the whole act from beginning to end. Nice to cum at least once per encounter of course, but how you get there is just as important as the arrival. As for GFE and PSE, for me they describe a range of services, not a reality. A very pleasant range of services to be sure. But she's not my girlfriend and I'm not a porno star, no matter how well she may perform those services, nor no matter how much I may enjoy and participate in the performance. From a personal perspective, I usually have at least one girlfriend (lol) and am content that I will never be a porno star (lol), so that probably colours my viewpoint. But then, everyone has their own reality and needs. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Seymour 3970 Report post Posted March 23, 2009 Stud I would have thought from your handle you were/are in fact a porno star. :-) Just kidding and I'm just having a bit of fun. I'm not a porno star,I will never be a porno star (lol), so that probably colours my viewpoint. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Seymour 3970 Report post Posted March 23, 2009 It seems the common theme is quality over quantity. It is one thing at a certain age to get in, get it on (enjoyable as that might be) and leave versus getting in and taking the time to enjoy the time. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gabriella Laurence 301887 Report post Posted March 23, 2009 The key for me, even beyond my favourite physical attributes, is a love for and enjoyment of all aspects of sex and sensuality - the whole act from beginning to end. Nice to cum at least once per encounter of course, but how you get there is just as important as the arrival. I couldn't agree more! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123366 Report post Posted March 23, 2009 Personally I've always had better dates with mature, intelligent and beautiful women... and when you connect with the right one... WOW! or ones....lmao...kisses Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest gagagaga Report post Posted March 23, 2009 I find that I tend to enjoy sp's over 30 the best. Just a generalisation as I have been with some young'uns that rocked me. I just find that the chemistry is often better with someone closer to my own age. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shaved 3174 Report post Posted March 23, 2009 I prefer to be with ladies 30 and over. They are more experienced and mature. They know how to please and they too liked to be pleased. You can have a great conversation with a more mature lady, they tend to have more in common. They are not in a rush they enjoy what they do and love being pleased. It's not Wham Bang thank you man. I tend to go with Indy's 100 % don't like agencies. :lol: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
medallione 100 Report post Posted March 26, 2009 I prefer to be with ladies 30 and over. They are more experienced and mature. They know how to please and they too liked to be pleased. You can have a great conversation with a more mature lady, they tend to have more in common. They are not in a rush they enjoy what they do and love being pleased. It's not Wham Bang thank you man. I tend to go with Indy's 100 % don't like agencies. :lol: I agree. I have not had much luck in the area of emotional chemistry with under thirties.....conversations tend to be brief and shallow, encounters are mechanical or, best, dour. It mostly seem I am being rushed. I am sure that there are many SPs under 30 that do not fit the above, just have not come across one yet. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tastytreat 100 Report post Posted March 26, 2009 then you should really try the mature women from abracadabra! amazing! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
YoungStud 468 Report post Posted March 26, 2009 I agree. I have not had much luck in the area of emotional chemistry with under thirties.....conversations tend to be brief and shallow, encounters are mechanical or, best, dour. It mostly seem I am being rushed. I am sure that there are many SPs under 30 that do not fit the above, just have not come across one yet. My all-time (and current) fav SP is just 24. But she has the maturity, experience and attitude of a 35 year old. Best of both worlds - hot young tireless slim fit body and the skills, mind and approach of a warm, friendly, long-time professional. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NotchJohnson 214069 Report post Posted March 27, 2009 I like my sp to be mature, blond, 5'3",Emma, fun to be with, laughs at my jokes, and loves to kiss and cuddle. I will not mention any name here but I'm sure there are not that many like her.:bowdown: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123366 Report post Posted March 27, 2009 I like my sp to be mature' date=' blond, 5'3",Emma, fun to be with, laughs at my jokes, and loves to kiss and cuddle. I will not mention any name here but I'm sure there are not that many like her.:bowdown:[/quote'] your adorable T....and nothing better then kissing and cuddling....shows people how you feel about them... kisses, Emma A Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Capital Hunter 18263 Report post Posted March 27, 2009 I am going to be honest about this and say that age is important to me for the strong physical attraction to be there. In my case also I can relate better to ladies under 25 which could be as a result of strong physical attraction that I hit it off so well with those youngest. This is particularly true for all those ladies that I have met over years in the SCs. I usually opt for SPs between 19 to 22 and that is the age range that I have the strongest physical attraction (which means I also have physical attraction to ladies over 25 or even over 30, but likely not as strong). I anticipate that it will become more and more difficult as I will age myself in 10 or 20 years to find SPs or dancers in that age range who will also have mutual attraction to me and this worries me to some extend. Hopefully I will change too as I age in regard to age preference. The other important factor for a great date for me is the GFE factor and in a separate thread I have explained what I mean by GFE. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
muff rancher 122 Report post Posted March 27, 2009 Everyone's tastes are different. For what it's worth, I prefer women who are closer to my age. It's not just a comfort issue for being intimate with a woman under the age of 25 (an arbitrary number here...more of a guideline than a cut-off for me). Talent, stamina and a taste for quality over quantity...all these things improve with age. ;) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Capital Hunter 18263 Report post Posted March 27, 2009 Actually this thread can be very interesting for our beloved SPs. Most respondents have posted that they would prefer more mature lady which makes the thread interesting. Most of the SPs that I have had so far, they somewhat understate their age by anything between a couple of years to a couple of decades and if they knew that the majority or so (so far of responses here) woud prefer mature ladies in particular those over 30, they may stop doing that or even go for other direction:smile:. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kih 458 Report post Posted March 27, 2009 As been mentioned already -- To me, Quality of the experience is paramount above all else. Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
