Jabba 18389 Report post Posted February 4, 2013 I'm a little reluctant to start this thread 'cuz I know there are certain realities when performing oral on a member. Lubrication is key. I have limitations, but that's just me. Maybe it's just my old slug-fartness shining through (more than likely!). I've had experiences where the lady needs extra lube and the convenient lube of choice is a good amount of spit on the old Johnston. So, said lady holds said Johnston firmly in hand, takes aim, gobbles up a fair amount of goober ....and...PTTOOIEEEE!. Makes me jump out of my skin. I for one REALLY don't like this. No No No! Disgusted! Remember the movie: The Fly? It's like when Jeff Goldblum dissolves a box of doughnuts with vomit and slurps 'em up. Mmmmm. Yummy, eh? Digestive juices! Imagine you as an SP - and a guy doing some fine DATY. Things down South start to dry a little, so said buster starts snorting & blowing all sorts of crap at the taco stand. From a female perspective, would you stand for that? I know oral technique is a unique experience and you should expect some saliva exchange. How can I delicately approach the provider to share my phobia?:icon_eek: Anyone else in the same boat? 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fredsmith 5240 Report post Posted February 4, 2013 I think this practice was something started in porn, big surprise! The first time it happened to me I thought it was kinda funny and went with the flow but it's not something I like now. It doesn't gross me out, just one of those things I could do without. Personally I don't like excessive amounts of saliva when receiving oral, to each their own. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest S**a*Q Report post Posted February 4, 2013 When performing oral, I'm a fan of the uber slippy spit that comes from the back of the throat. HOWEVER, this being said, I don't hock a loogie on the guy's johnson. :( There are better ways to approach saliva application. Use of hands for lubricating the shaft and being quiet about the whole thing are good places to start. In your case, I would just be honest and tell her, "You know what hun, that kinda turns me off." Or maybe keep some flavoured lube nearby so you can offer her something else instead of her spit. Hope this helps. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NotchJohnson 214069 Report post Posted February 4, 2013 I'm a big fan of the sloppy bj and had some amazing ladies spit on my johnson and it just made me harder mind you they did go and get the stuff in the back of their throat but no "loogie" like Sara said so well. A thank you to Sara for teaching me a new word that I will use in my everyday vocabulary.:icon_lol: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ukdiamond 640 Report post Posted February 4, 2013 not a big fan of the spitting... either during, or after... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ralp 120 Report post Posted February 4, 2013 So we've established ....... it depends! Have fun and be safe Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest s******ecan**** Report post Posted February 4, 2013 Personally I like it, to each his own eh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andee 220524 Report post Posted February 4, 2013 I prefer Sara's take on things, but if someone wants me to up the PSE factor, I will employ spit if they want it. Speaking of spitting, and not to hijack the thread, the converse is true with us ladies. Gents, do not spit on our vajayjays without asking first. In my case, that would be a deal breaker for me on the rest of session going down (no pun intended). Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Phaedrus 209521 Report post Posted February 5, 2013 It does seem to be a PSE thing. I can't say I like it myself. Lots of spit is great, but I don't see that it needs to become airborne at any point in proceedings... 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
poolasaurus 5877 Report post Posted February 5, 2013 I never spit on the vertical smile, but her doing to Mr Happy is a turn on. :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Serena Blake 14066 Report post Posted February 5, 2013 ewwww gross Jabba you paint a VERY graphic picture lol But I know what you mean spitting is really gross and very unladylike. If you need lube get a damn drink, yuck lol. but then again I've been requested to spit by hobbyists before but I truly can't lol I couldn't hack a loogie if my live depended on it. it comes out in seriously pathetic little white spittles. lol Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fredsmith 5240 Report post Posted February 5, 2013 For the record, when I think of a woman spitting on a guy's dick it's just spitting some saliva on it. It's not "hacking a loogie" as has been mentioned here a couple of times. 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
thedriver 6179 Report post Posted February 5, 2013 I do not mind it at all! In fact I have been known to dribble my saliva onto a dry situation mid stroke when my hands were full. Some women were turned on by it but it did freak out a few others! I tend to be more discrete when I do it now. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ben71 100 Report post Posted February 5, 2013 For the record, when I think of a woman spitting on a guy's dick it's just spitting some saliva on it. It's not "hacking a loogie" as has been mentioned here a couple of times. I agree, it doesn't have to be a disgusting spit or anything. That said, if you don't like then you don't like it I guess. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
