I haven't cum in 2 weeks....help

[Guest gagagaga]

I have this problem. Sometimes, I get turned on very quickly. When this happens, I find I get to the point of no return and then have to hold back for a second so I don't cum. I have never actually had premature ejaculation, I am able to control it.

 

The problem is, that sometimes after doing this I find I can't cum. I stay hard, can fuck as long as my body can keep moving, but the orgasm "goes away".

 

It has been 2 weeks since my last orgasm. I have been to sp's, mp's...my god I even did it with my wife!!! Nothing!!!

 

I am starting to feel a little "pent up". I feel sorry for anyone who cuts me off in traffic until I blast this "energy" out.

 

Any suggestions?? Any other guys have this problem??

 

Any sp's encounter this with their clients??

 

thanks in advance for any replies

[antlerman 17064]

Hi...my name is antlerman and I have a problem..............but I masterbate to solve it:shock:

[Gabriella Laurence 301887]

I have this problem. Sometimes, I get turned on very quickly. When this happens, I find I get to the point of no return and then have to hold back for a second so I don't cum. I have never actually had premature ejaculation, I am able to control it.

 

The problem is, that sometimes after doing this I find I can't cum. I stay hard, can fuck as long as my body can keep moving, but the orgasm "goes away".

 

It has been 2 weeks since my last orgasm. I have been to sp's, mp's...my god I even did it with my wife!!! Nothing!!!

 

 

Maybe to resolve your immediate problem, next time you get together with a MP/SP/EP or even your wife (as you put it lol), when you're at the point of no return, relax, go with the flow and let it happen! Don't hold back!

 

You may want to do that a few times too... A few quickies here and there never hurt anyone! It can actually be fun from time to time!... Especially in the morning!

;)

Good luck and have fun!

 

xox

[P. Sherman 213]

I once gave up drinking, smoking and sex. It was the worst 15 minutes of my life! :roll:

[drg23 124]

I agree with Miss Cloe, Although I love prolonged pleasure as much as the next man, sometimes a passionate quickie is an even more satisfying experience.

[Annalise Lane 662]

I have a few gentleman that when they first came to me were just like you. They too, where very frustrated and at odds with sex. Thinking to themselves: what is the point of sex if you dont get a release ?

 

This is what I do: We have sex til I'm completely satisfied, than take a break. After the break, he can cum without hast easily.

 

Try taking a break between.

[whatsup 11893]

Joe, just let it Blow. :wink:

[Seymour 3970]

I am starting to feel a little "pent up". I feel sorry for anyone who cuts me off in traffic until I blast this "energy" out.

 

I don't cut people off in traffic but man you'd better take matters into your own hands before you implode. :mrgreen:

 

I need the streets to be safe so I could go visit my gals.:smile:

[slurp 7020]

I've had this happen now and then .... it's feeling so good you don't want it to end. So you delay and then you can't pop. If there is enough time and the girl isn't impatient I can sometimes get there. Thinking of one of my ATF's most intense sessions can get me there. Failng that, I go see one of my ATF .... that almost always works!

 

Let 'er rip Joe!

[Athos 108589]

Gotta agree with the sentiments expressed ... go with the flow and let it happen. And don't hesitate to talk with the lady about the situation. The second shot will be even more intense!

 

Porthos

[a******s.m*****e 187]

 

I am starting to feel a little "pent up". I feel sorry for anyone who cuts me off in traffic until I blast this "energy" out.

 

Can you imagine how angry the pope is? ;)

[rickoshadows 937]

Can you imagine how angry the pope is? ;)

 

That would explain some of his latest edicts. "If I'm gonna be miserable, all of you are going to be miserable! Mein Gott!"

[YoungStud 468]

Dame Edna Everage refers to His Holiness as "Pope Rottweiler". Lol

[slurp 7020]

Can you imagine how angry the pope is? ;)

 

Don't quote me but I don't think wanking yourself off breaks the vow of celibacy, if you get my drift ..... :-D

[Athos 108589]

Don't quote me but I don't think wanking yourself off breaks the vow of celibacy, if you get my drift ..... :-D

 

Would it depend on what you're thinking about?

 

[capitalman 3861]

Joe blow, I understand. It's happened to me too! Then you start thinking maybe you're getting old and/or impotent and worry you'll never come again! A good wacking off usually fixes the problem.

 

Sometimes I can't orgasm unless my nipples are played with, and I'm finding when that happens I just have to ask my girl to please play with them or do it myself.

[YoungStud 468]

It's happened from time to time to most people, both men and women, at various stages of their sexual careers. It's not just an aging thing. And yes, holding off and trying to sustain things as long as possible is usually why I can't quite make it in the end. Doesn't happen too often, but that's usually the reason for it. Trying to pack too many activities (sometimes with more than one partner) into too short a period of time would be the other reason. Second time around doesn't always work if it's too soon. Lol.

 

I'm pretty philosophical about it, particularly when it happens at the end of a very sensual and sexual experience.

 

It would have been the (vanilla) icing on the cake to cum, so to speak, but it's not the end of the world. You've already had yourself a really good time (several pieces of cake) in a number of positions doing a variety of things with a beautiful, sexy woman. And there's always next time.

 

Just another reason, BTW, to go with the high-end experienced escorts, rather than the low-end mechanical quickies, where cumming is about the only pleasure you'll have out of the date.

[SamanthaEvans 166766]

It happens. But don't worry: nothing is broken. If you don't have an orgasm with a partner fairly soon, you'll probably have an old-fashioned wet dream some night instead.

 

The best thing is just to relax and let things happen. It's about the journey, not the destination, anyway!

[nerdnerd 449]

yeah, I have the same problem.

I haven't solved it yet either, but I agree that taking a break is the right direction.

I think I need to take a break to the point of getting dressed again.

[espitzer 1135]

Try using mind control. I can make myself cum at will through pure mental focus. I'm serious. It's an amazing ability and very handy.

 

I suppose I'm like a Jedi. Call me Yoda. Or maybe Choda is a better name.

[Guest gagagaga]

thanks for all the great advice everyone...it happened to me again yesterday with Shy. I am not upset, I just think that stuff should get out of me once in a while.

[antlerman 17064]

vacuum....last resort!

[a******s.m*****e 187]

thanks for all the great advice everyone...it happened to me again yesterday with Shy. I am not upset, I just think that stuff should get out of me once in a while.

 

Then why don't you just do what the monkey does in your avatar? :)

[Guest gagagaga]

what monkey??? That's me and I don't swallow

[MandalayBay 575]

Joe, just let it Blow. :wink:

 

This made me roll on the floor laughing. Thanks Whatsup!