Etiquette Question re SP texting 15+ mintues during session

[JustJack 4689]

I understand, for safety reasons, an SP texting or phoning once at the beginning and\or perhaps near the end of a session, and maybe even during a break in the action. I am also a proponent of texting in general and text much more than any form of communication. If an SP's phone is continually ringing\vibrating during a session, I've even encouraged them to attend to the phone if they'd like.

 

But, if I'm 30 minutes into a 1 hour session, is it "acceptable" for an SP to continually text for 15+ minutes? I can't fathom it, especially since I had provided a $ 50ish tip at the beginning of the session; last time I'll do that.

 

I didn't know how to react, so I just politely left.

 

On another appointment, not nearly as offensive, but while I'm dressing and getting ready to leave, she texts until I'm leaving and stays on the bed while I show myself out, however, she did pry one hand off the phone to "wave" goodbye to me from across the room; without any verbalization.

 

I guess my question is, to what extent, is texting acceptable during a session? I'm at the point of wondering, if, when booking an appointment with an SP, if I should ask how many of the 60 minutes will they be spending texting? However, I wonder if asking that question would be appropriate.

[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

It is never acceptable other than at the start to say you've arrived and after to say you've left. My phone stays on silent and I expect the same from my guest. Hmmm kinda links in with the respect thread!

[roamingguy 300291]

Really and it's my opinion only, but that is bad manners. Fortunately one I've rarely encountered. When you go to see a lady, or she comes to see you at your hotel, that time is for you and her...not some prospective client texting

As for the tip, leave the tip at the end, that way if absolutely a poor encounter, don't tip

A rambling

RG

[Guest realnicehat]

I'm at the point of wondering, if, when booking an appointment with an SP, if I should ask how many of the 60 minutes will they be spending texting? However, I wonder if asking that question would be appropriate.

 

Constantly texting during an appointment is very bad form but I feel that asking the above question would be equally as bad.

 

I have had a textathon happen to me only once, and it was with a lady that I booked spur of the moment from a certain "page". It has never happened with any of the ladies I have met on Cerb.

 

I'm guessing, and I could be wrong (there's a thousand and first time for everything), that perhaps you haven't been booking the most reputable ladies? If that is the case, do a little research here and see if you find someone to your liking.

 

I would caution you again about asking "how much of the time they will spend texting". While I do see the sarcasm of it I think it is sure to get you off on the wrong foot.

 

Hope things are more enjoyable on your next adventure.

 

RNH

[Gabriella Laurence 301887]

As for the tip, leave the tip at the end, that way if absolutely a poor encounter, don't tip

RG is correct!

Here's a thread that might give you some ideas: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=142222

 

As for asking the lady how much time will be spent texting? That shouldn't even be a question to ask before an encounter lol but I guess if you have to, it would depend on who you decide to contact...

 

As others have said, texting during an intimate encounter is not acceptable and it clearly shows a lack of professionalism and respect towards the gentleman.

[McGuinessDraft 2240]

Ill have to agree with Meg, aside from maybe quickly at the beginning, any other phone usage during the encounter to me is inappropriate, shows a lack of courtesy. I equate with getting ink done, if your tattoo artist is spending the whole time texting or on the phone what are you paying for?

 

Additional Comments:

And as I think we all agree upon here, compensation is paid for time spent together, not the act!

[Guest *l**e]

My phone is on silent all the time while I am massaging. Recently I accidentally left it on vibrate, and there was no music on, so I could actually hear it vibrating; it got on my nerves so much, I will never make that mistake again.

 

To actually send a text during a session, in my opinion is ridiculous.

[Cleo Catra 178382]

It is never acceptable other than at the start to say you've arrived and after to say you've left. My phone stays on silent and I expect the same from my guest. Hmmm kinda links in with the respect thread!

 

Agreed. I keep my phone in another room actually, on silent. so I wouldn't even know if it was going off.

[roamingguy 300291]

Now as a client, my phone is turned off during an encounter, and in the case of an incall, I just leave it in the truck and don't take it with me

With voicemail, text messages and emails, you don't need to answer a call right away whether as client or SP

 

RG

[Sweet Emily J 172062]

 

I guess my question is, to what extent, is texting acceptable during a session? I'm at the point of wondering, if, when booking an appointment with an SP, if I should ask how many of the 60 minutes will they be spending texting? However, I wonder if asking that question would be appropriate.

 

I understand your frustration, and what you described sounds like a total turn off, but if someone asked me this question when booking, I would decline the date without a second thought, as it's questioning my professional standards.

 

I am in agreement with the ladies here. Professional women who are entertaining a guest, will give him her full attention and the phone will be on silent for the entire duration, and better yet as Cleo mentioned, in the other room.

 

In general, I refuse to be a slave to my phone. Anytime I am in the company of another person, client or other, I always have my phone off. Face to face interaction trumps everything else.

 

As for a client using his phone, I do not mind this because I mostly entertain during daytime working hours, and often these men are actually on the clock, so I understand sometimes situations need attention. Fortunately, nearly all of my guests also turn their phone off and would rather focus on us for our short time together. :)

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

Texting or using the phone during an encounter ( unless it was a real emergency) is not acceptable. I don't blame the OP for leaving. I've accidentally left my phone off in the past but I've immediately shut it off. Usually it's left in another room on silent.

 

Turning the phone off whether it's an SP or client is just common courtesy. I've had clients leave their phone on and while though they don't answer, it's still annoying.

 

Shutting the phone off is one of the basic escorting 101 rules.

[JustJack 4689]

Thanks for the replies everyone, I appreciate it.

[Brad 49548]

I think the main question has been well addressed, so let me just add a few scenarios where I wouldn't mind an SP pulling out her phone mid-encounter:

 

1) Your cat has knocked over the lovely candles you've scattered around the room and the curtains have just caught fire.

 

2) The session is just so wonderful you want to make a complimentary video for me to remember it by.

 

3) Your go-to toy has run out of batteries but you have an app that makes your phone vibrate.

 

4) You're feeling greedy about how much fun you're having and think it would be nice to invite a girlfriend or two over to join in.

 

5) You've downloaded Angry Birds. Because hey, who doesn't enjoy a round of naked Angry Birds?

[Wanderer2013 100]

My phone is always off or muted while i am with a sp, if i am in a mp it goes that way before i go in. I expect the same from the lady i am with, in tge case of a sp, txt or call when they or i arrive is fine, but to be constantly txting ? No, that session would end early, in a polite way on my part of course.