What would you have done and what do you think?

[Guest o*****a*****r]

Saw my regular SP tonight and was told upon arrival that her “ladies time” had just arrived. At first I thought maybe I should ask for another date but it was an in-call, so being a “nice guy”, and also being a regular, and with her looking so gorgeous I decided to stay. She did treat me to a really good time, but no “home run” which I go to see her for. So now I’m writing this feeling somewhat unsatisfied, and super horny, as I never did get to do what I like best, get laid. Before I left her place, in my horny state of mind I asked if I could see her next Friday. She mentioned that her “ladies time” might not be over… that’s seven days from now :confused:

 

So… what do you think I should have done and/or how I should perceive this?

 

 

Blue Balls

[Guest S**r***e]

Me personally....I think I would have re-scheduled. If you are a regular with her, I think she would have understood. I am surprised that she didn't call you to re-schedule. I wouldn't look too far into it. All womens "ladies time" is different. You were there, did you get a feeling she doesn't want to see you anymore. Only you can know this by the vibe. I personally don't think you should look too much into this.

[VedaSloan 119179]

To me that seems strange, but every lady is different. I'm on the pill, I know the exact day usually when I'm supposed to get it. I'd had moments where I'll schedule something and then remember that's when I'm supposed to be getting my period and I'll reschedule. But I've never had it randomly show up the minute before a client arrives.

[cat 262460]

I agree with Sixernine, don't read too much into it. Every woman cycles a little differently. I think it was stand up of you to stay and shows good character. Being understanding of someones situation is an admirable trait and the fact that she was honest with you about it shows that you have a really good communication stream with her. She also could have had a yeast issue or a uti and didn't want to disclose. Both of these are really common, really uncomfortable and full service makes them worse.

 

Quite often SPs are faced with financial situations that make it difficult to take a week off each month. We are not known for our $ management skills. It means we have to work an extra 10-15 hours the other three weeks to even out the loss of income and some of us don't have a reserve to cushion the loss. Consider it a good deed and go to bed knowing you contributed to her well being. You did the right thing.

 

Cat

[Guest S****tha Ott*wa]

Why did you leave unsatisfied if I can ask that? Did you not get any other service? I have asked this and I guess some sps take certain items off the menu during that week. or you did just your preference is penetration? I am sure she will want to see you again after her horrible week and she will make it up to you!

 

For me!!! Thank you god for modern medicine!!!

Got to love a Hysterectomy:-) day in and day out ready to go!

 

 

:bddog:

[Guest s******ecan****]

I think most guys would have done the same thing you did, not too many of us would reschedule and leave....it wasn't an appointment with your dentist after all. Having said that, once you agreed to the new situation you're more or less responsible for not getting your full experience and satisfaction. Just put it in the "shit happens" column. If she values you as a client she'll likely try to make it up to you next time.

[JoyfulC 132299]

Was it your idea or her idea not to "go for the home run"?

 

Having been married 27 years, I can assure you that a "lady's time" is no barrier to any activity, as long as neither partner minds. In fact, some vigorous rumpy-pumpy can really help with cramping.

 

I doubt if many ladies can take their full periods off every month, although the first day or so might be tough. I think most of us are careful not to see anyone new during such times (as we have no idea of their preferences and don't want to risk letting someone down) and only accept regulars who've either made it clear that they don't have an issue with it or who enjoy activities that won't be affected by it.

 

Viva la menopause! The victory lap of womanhood!! ;)

[buggernot 588]

I wouldn't perceive anything from it - it is possible that she's 'not finished' after a week, or maybe she has tentative plans for Friday and is giving herself options. If she didn't want your business, she'd probably stop taking your calls altogether.

 

As far as what you should do in the instance when told about the sudden attack of a period, my take would be to stress that it doesn't bother me to have sex at that time. But every girl is different and there will be some that personally think it's gross and won't want to.

 

BJ's and hand-jobs are great and all, but what I need is the physical act of intercourse...without it, I don't feel satiated. Completely different rush of endorphins. A blowjob gives me a lesser feeling not too far removed from wanking to porn at home. I have came from a bj and felt less gratified than not being able to finish while fucking. So I would politely try to see if FS was an option but if not, no doubt I would have done the same as yourself. Might have to see somebody else the next day but, when in Rome...

[Andee 220524]

I agree with many of the comments made here, but basically if FS was off the menu, she should have advised you before you came over that it was her "ladies time". If it came on suddenly and she didn't get that chance, you probably should have rebooked.

 

She might have begged you off from booking on the Friday because she has a long cycle or perhaps did not want to take the chance she'd still be on and wanted to avoid disappointing you again.

 

But my question is the same as Samantha's - was there not some other service she offerred that would have left you satisified or is FS the "home run" for you?

 

The bottom line is, it probably would have been better for you to re-book. Any reputable SP would uderstand it if you wanted to decline.

[capitalman 3861]

This is why God created more than one woman and CERB. :)

[Apex2006 1071]

I would like to think that the SP's would be kind enough to call and let us know prior to our little visit!

 

I see that a good romp can help with the cramps, but I am not into that sort of thing personaly. As for not being satisfied! I can say that I have done that once with an old GF and it just turned me off! Some guy can not be horny and still have a "hard on" and just not finish! I can do this just to make sure that the woman I am with can be happy! Then I king of run like the wind!

 

I would prefer a warrning!

[JoyfulC 132299]

Hey, the SPs would love to get notice too. Sometimes we are symptomatic for days before anything happens; other times, wham, it sneaks up on us. Sometimes it's a regular thing; other times, it's all over the calendar.

 

There was once a very beautiful and beloved escort in Ottawa who went by the name of Victoria. She told the story of how, one evening, while visiting a favourite friend, she lifted herself off him to find he had a big red smile. Poor girl was mortified! And what's worse, he didn't realize it and she had to tell him so they could clean him up. Poor him too!

[Loki318 1631]

On a first visit one time the BJ want doing it for me so we progressed to the main event and upon finnish we were both surprised to see the flag flying, The poor girl was mortified but I assured her that it was no problem for me and it really wasnt .... I was releived that I hadnt gone for the datty that is usual for me :) that was over 6 yrs ago and I still see her occassionally...

Another regular whom I have seen for a long time will not even take her cloths off if Auntie is around, usually will reschedule but occasionally we do a "social" visit during this time..

This is a very normal part of a womans life and I have no problem with the "the home run" as you put it, during this time but I suspect that I am in the minority as far as hobbiest go and probably not many of the lady's would willing do FS with "Aunite Flo" on the scene ??? hmmm maybe a poll?

 

Loki318

[canuckhooker 19202]

I think it all depends on the "comfort zone" of the two individuals involved. I have known many women who have no problem getting intimate during that time, with someone they know. A stranger would be a different case, with most people.

 

I think communicating up front, before the date is the best policy. It gives both people the chance to gracefully bow out, and re-schedule if either party has a problem.

 

No matter how open you are about it, an encounter when the "red flag" is flying is going to be different from a regular session. Both parties should decide if that kind of encounter is what they want.

[Kathryn Bardot 99339]

I'm on the pill, so I can choose to skip a monthly or not, and I'll know when my period is scheduled to show up, so I can book myself as unavailable. Some guys may be fine with it [and I certainly am!], but I choose not to take the chance and risk their discomfort. Besides, I view the times here and there as a chance to recharge the batteries and avoid burn out :)

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[Guest s******ecan****]

I had a GF that just loved to have sex during her period. I often obliged and she certainly notched the intensity up during those sessions. I was never completely comfortable with it though.

[SEXY_MISS_VIVIANNA 100]

there are many other ways that a man would not even know it was ladies time to still do the fs home run thing it would be a natural sea foam sponge and everything is good to goo

[sexnonstop724 1727]

Happened to me a couple of times when I was young with GFs. Their timing were off and what scenes they were when we saw the mess!!! And yes, the intensity goes up leading up to the arrival!!! You can feel the difference. But knowing its happening is a bit of a turn off, especially DATY!! Can anyone just imagine???!!!!

 

SNS724

[Seymour 3970]

I think by now the original poster and his friend have likely generated a few memories and then some... ;-)

 

While this has not happened to me, I recall a lady telling me a story of her time commencing and a client 'quite upset' about the hat being spotted on removal...(it was quite early)

 

Some things can't be controlled... anyways my lady friend and I had a laugh over it.

[roger dodger 2160]

Happened once long time ago, right in the middle in mish position. She sort of threw me off and ran to the washroom. She started while we were right into it. She was very embarrased, but i made her feal at ease and we just jumped in the shower and finished in there. No mess, no prob. lol. As far as daty is concerned, u just got to stay up high. lol. And gentlemen, in general, when you have intercourse with a woman on her period, 1- she is usualy very horny, which makes things better. Also, for us, when you are inside, the temperature is usually much warmer, which feels very nice. It's one thing if the lady knows and doens't say anything, but if it just happens, well i think you should just do other things as to not insult or embarass the sp. If she is a regular and you are on good terms, why possibly harm the relationship, you never know how she may react by your lack of understanding. Just a thought.

[kih 458]

Unplanned events are going to happen from time to time. Best way to handle it is to have compassion and understanding.

[Guest C*****tte]

It happened to me early on in my career. I had an orgasm and things got started earlier than expected. I was horrified and terrified. I had a friend whose client who got violent under this circumstance. My client was ok with me but clearly not happy.

 

My schedule is much more stable now and easier to work around.