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[Meaghan McLeod 179664]

A movie is being made based on your life. What actress would you get to play you?

 

Julia Roberts -very Sexy and quirky.

[EmilyRushton 253346]

A movie is being made based on your life. What actress would you get to play you?

Emma Stone or Isla Fisher

[Bianca Jaguar 39183]

I have noticed that many providers prefer and enjoy longer dates. In fact, some ladies have a two hour minimum and are willing to go even longer. I find that being an unattached widower who is able to come and go as he pleases and as someone who is now interested in resuming travel a longer session might include a weekend getaway or even a vacation for a week or so to a resort or a cruise. That said, each provider is different as to her availability for extended encounters, weekend getaways or foreign/domestic travel. I am thinking of this in terms of a GFE experience based upon previous encounters, chemistry and availability, yet it is something I would like to do as I would enjoy doing together. My late wife and I traveled frequently over the years and I prefer companionship rather than going solo depending on where I go and what I will be doing. Some ladies won't be too keen on going horseback riding or zip-lining over a tree canopy in Costa Rica or cycling in France or Spain. So I guess I am simply throwing this one out for discussion and if anyone has done something of this nature. Or should I simply be satisfied with seeing a companion locally or when I travel to a destination and leave it at that? Are logistics an issue as well as real names are needed for reservations and boarding? Any thoughts would be most appreciated. Thanks in advance.

 

Peachy gave good advice,

 

I have had one extended vacation with a gentleman, one week together and I had not met him previously (wont do that again). We exchanged emails and lots of phone call to arrange that getaway.

Although we connected really good on the phone, there were a few ackward moments during my stay...the gentleman didnt communicate very well lol...quiet type i would say but if things are not said it creates tension and drama...no one wants that on a vacation...

 

Anyhow...yes it's doable with someone you connect really good. So like many have mentionned..the secret is good planning and communication :)

 

Bianca

[LeeRichards 177238]

I knew things were going to be bad when she yelled at me for leaving the toilet seat up.

 

Ha !!!!! WTF were you thinking Cinelli ?? !! hehe You on the bad date list now ? ;)

[Bianca Jaguar 39183]

Julia Roberts -very Sexy and quirky.

 

That was my first choice too :) Second choice would be the beautiful Sharon Stone!

 

BJ

[Guest Na****a***mers (RETIRED)]

I've never done it nor would I ever Natasha and I sincerely hope it hasn't happened to you but it may have if I understand your comment correctly. Such a shame, a mood changer and a source of embarrassment to say the least. Not cool at all. Right up there with a debit/credit card machine!! By the way your website is by far one of the best I have ever seen in all respects. Pertinent facts, well explained, and stunning, professional photos of a clearly beautiful young lady. Very classy!! Loved it.

 

You know how to make a lady blush! Thank you kindly :)

 

Yes unfortunately I'm speaking from experience and hope that this whole thread is read by many and a few mental notes are made! (Fingers crossed)

[roamingguy 300291]

I took a girl to Banff for a week. We had always got along for 2 hours at a time but by the end of the first day it was a disaster. I knew things were going to be bad when she yelled at me for leaving the toilet seat up.

 

That wasn't just the Wife Experience, it was the Marriage Experience LOL

 

RG

[Tempted Monk 5057]

Returned to this thread because it happened to me recently and question popped up again.

Simple situation: I am your client and I ran into you in public place or just on the street. We definitely recognized each other. What would be the best for me to do: pretend I don't know you, just smile, say "hi"?

I understand you don't want probably to be recognized in public place. But on the other hand, ignoring the person I know (and, actually, glad to meet) looks very impolite and I feel bad about it.

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

Returned to this thread because it happened to me recently and question popped up again.

Simple situation: I am your client and I ran into you in public place or just on the street. We definitely recognized each other. What would be the best for me to do: pretend I don't know you, just smile, say "hi"?

I understand you don't want probably to be recognized in public place. But on the other hand, ignoring the person I know (and, actually, glad to meet) looks very impolite and I feel bad about it.

 

Every now and then I see clients around in my area when I'm out and about and I prefer just to pretend we don't know each other especially if I'm with someone. Most I see with their wives and I act like I don't know them or go in another direction. I would never go up and talk to anyone ever.

 

I give clients discretion and expect it in return. I do know a few clients who are for sure not attached and it's no big deal but I have known these people for a while and they are regulars. I will just wave or say "Hi" but only when I'm alone. One saw me in Ikea one day with a family member and we just smiled from afar at each other.

 

It's funny because I did see one client and I was dressed down and they didn't recognize me. lol. Another saw me from afar at Starbucks and said I looked great wearing actual clothes other than what he was used to seeing me in which was lingerie. :)

[roamingguy 300291]

Returned to this thread because it happened to me recently and question popped up again.

Simple situation: I am your client and I ran into you in public place or just on the street. We definitely recognized each other. What would be the best for me to do: pretend I don't know you, just smile, say "hi"?

I understand you don't want probably to be recognized in public place. But on the other hand, ignoring the person I know (and, actually, glad to meet) looks very impolite and I feel bad about it.

 

Always, always, if you see a companion outside of an encounter in public, don't acknowledge her. Actually acknowledging her in public is impolite.

She may have a family that doesn't know what she does. Or a daytime job and those co-workers don't know she is also a professional companion. The lady you see may genuinely like you. You may genuinely like her. But any acknowledgement that you know and like one another is done discreetly within the confines of an encounter or in otherwise private circumstances (ie email)

The lady expects you to be discrete the same as she would be discrete if she saw you in public. If concerned about being impolite, you can always text/email the lady after seeing her, and say you saw her but didn't acknowledge her because you were being discrete...she will understand and appreciate it...and consider you polite for not acknowledging her publically

A rambling

 

RG

[Guest Cr**gCa***ng]

Always, always, if you see a companion outside of an encounter in public, don't acknowledge her. Actually acknowledging her in public is impolite.

She may have a family that doesn't know what she does. Or a daytime job and those co-workers don't know she is also a professional companion. The lady you see may genuinely like you. You may genuinely like her. But any acknowledgement that you know and like one another is done discreetly within the confines of an encounter or in otherwise private circumstances (ie email)

The lady expects you to be discrete the same as she would be discrete if she saw you in public. If concerned about being impolite, you can always text/email the lady after seeing her, and say you saw her but didn't acknowledge her because you were being discrete...she will understand and appreciate it...and consider you polite for not acknowledging her publically

A rambling

 

RG

 

My thoughts exactly on this matter. Best to ignore one another in public as a general rule. Discretion first and foremost. We are being considerate, not rude.

[Guest Na****a***mers (RETIRED)]

I was out with friends (mind you, surrounded by friends) and a client I met once or twice through an agency blatantly looked at me and started asking questions. I was so shocked and taken aback that I simply smiled and walked away.

 

So if anything, you are doing a lady a favor by ignoring her presence and I'm sure she will thank you later :)

[fadi1716 247]

1- Does your job affect the way you view relationships and trust "men"?

2- What goes through your mind/emotions when you get ready for a 1st time client?

3- How much can you make in 1 year? lol

[Honey Man 12759]

I apologize in advance if these questions are already answered and sure would greatly appreciate knowing the proper guidelines.

 

If I book a time to see a lady at say 7pm what time is the proper time to arrive there and txt her to let her know I am there?

 

If you then txt what is the amount of time a fellow who is on time should have to wait with no response before he gives up waiting? (Having waited almost an hour I sure would like to know what is the norm or expected) My assumption would be if I booked for 7pm and was delayed I should make every effort to contact the person waiting and in turn I would expect the same courtesy.

 

thank you

[Guest S****r]

If the time was booked for 7:00, I would expect a call between 6:55 and 6:59 saying "I am in the parking lot," at which point I would give him (or remind him of) the ring code, so I could buzz him in and he could walk in the door at 7:00. I wouldn't expect to leave the client waiting at all. I am usually the one sitting there waiting for the call to let him in.

 

I apologize in advance if these questions are already answered and sure would greatly appreciate knowing the proper guidelines.

 

If I book a time to see a lady at say 7pm what time is the proper time to arrive there and txt her to let her know I am there?

 

If you then txt what is the amount of time a fellow who is on time should have to wait with no response before he gives up waiting? (Having waited almost an hour I sure would like to know what is the norm or expected) My assumption would be if I booked for 7pm and was delayed I should make every effort to contact the person waiting and in turn I would expect the same courtesy.

 

thank you

[Bianca Jaguar 39183]

1- Does your job affect the way you view relationships and trust "men"?

2- What goes through your mind/emotions when you get ready for a 1st time client?

3- How much can you make in 1 year? lol

 

1- No not at all...

 

2- anticipation...excitement and sometimes a bit nervous...just a bit ;)

 

3- That my dear I will never tell...

I apologize in advance if these questions are already answered and sure would greatly appreciate knowing the proper guidelines.

 

If I book a time to see a lady at say 7pm what time is the proper time to arrive there and txt her to let her know I am there?

 

If you then txt what is the amount of time a fellow who is on time should have to wait with no response before he gives up waiting? (Having waited almost an hour I sure would like to know what is the norm or expected) My assumption would be if I booked for 7pm and was delayed I should make every effort to contact the person waiting and in turn I would expect the same courtesy.

 

thank you

 

I will speak for me...I'm very ponctual and I try to be ready at least 10min before...If you arrive 10min before, I will likely be ready and invite you to join me. I'd rather you arrives a bit early then a bit late...

 

As for waiting for a response...omg...evrytime I hear thatit's like (facepalm)...A lady should never make a client wait!!! Unless you are more then 10 min early then that's different but if you show up on time whithin 5min...In my book it's an automatic reply...whithin seconds! I never make my guest wait. I'm always on time and expect the same in return!

 

BJ

[Ice4fun 78396]

1- No not at all...

 

2- anticipation...excitement and sometimes a bit nervous...just a bit ;)

 

3- That my dear I will never tell...

 

 

I will speak for me...I'm very ponctual and I try to be ready at least 10min before...If you arrive 10min before, I will likely be ready and invite you to join me. I'd rather you arrives a bit early then a bit late...

 

As for waiting for a response...omg...evrytime I hear thatit's like (facepalm)...A lady should never make a client wait!!! Unless you are more then 10 min early then that's different but if you show up on time whithin 5min...In my book it's an automatic reply...whithin seconds! I never make my guest wait. I'm always on time and expect the same in return!

 

BJ

 

Shit... i think i have been late every time we met.... note to self... i must do better

[DarksideHobbyist 1883]

see, I try to show up 5-10 mins early too but the ladies aren't ready to see me yet, lol. That's cool, I'm just saying not everyone is ok with that

[whatsup 11893]

I like to text my companion that I have made an arrangement with about a hour and a half before our actual meet up time. I believe it adds legitimacy factor. It takes me around an hour to get into the city, then may have to find parking. I will then text about 5 mins early but not before that, that I am in the vicinity for our scheduled rendevous. This has worked well for me.

[Honey Man 12759]

I had two bad experiences waiting. the first I got the text 5 minutes to the hour asking for 5 more minutes and then nothing for 45 minutes. After 2 txt messages and no response back I gave a final txt to say I was leaving and left and then got a frantic txt asking me to turn around.

 

the second incident. I had set the time to meet a week in advance. Confirmed the day before and the morning off. Then got there 5 minutes before and asked to wait for 15 minutes, then got the txt could I wait another 15 minutes. then a txt saying to wait a half hour only to get there to find the very special SP I had planned at length to see and had I thought established a re-pore with was not there and I was offered some stranger. I politely declined and left.

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

I apologize in advance if these questions are already answered and sure would greatly appreciate knowing the proper guidelines.

 

If I book a time to see a lady at say 7pm what time is the proper time to arrive there and txt her to let her know I am there?

 

If you then txt what is the amount of time a fellow who is on time should have to wait with no response before he gives up waiting? (Having waited almost an hour I sure would like to know what is the norm or expected) My assumption would be if I booked for 7pm and was delayed I should make every effort to contact the person waiting and in turn I would expect the same courtesy.

 

thank you

 

If she asks you text at a certain time, text her at the exact time she asks you. I ask clients to call me 10 minutes before our appt to get logisitics and tell them if they are delayed and not at the location where I ask them to call me to let me know they are delayed.

 

I do not like when someone texts me even if it's 5 mins earlier than I expect. Most of the time I'm trying to get ready and this makes me stressed out. There are many last minute things we have to tend to in order to set the right mood. This includes not looking stressed out. Show up at the time she asks you. Not before and not after. Call if you're delayed. It's always appreciated.

 

As for giving up waiting for a confirmation, if I were the client, I'd wait 20 minutes max. Maybe try to follow up with her the next day asking her what happened. It could be a legitimate reason. If she doesn't get back to you, then it's probably best to move on.

 

I've had a few run ins like getting ready and my cell phone fell into the sink where it got damaged with a lot of water or having a crappy phone charger that for some reason wouldn't charge my phone when I really needed it to charge. In this case I wasn't able to contact the client but made it up to one of them by giving them a discount. I've had a few disasters over the years including have a cell phone fall into the toilet.

 

I'm sure in the case of the guy who I was supposed to meet and my cell phone fell into water, I'm sure he was pissed. I don't blame him but had no way of contacting him because his number was on there.

[Guest Na****a***mers (RETIRED)]

Have burning questions on your mind? Want an input from an independent companion? Ask me any questions related to the industry, really! Don't be sassy and keep it classy!

 

P.S. Ladies, feel free to join the discussion and add your own input to the questions asked by gents :)

[LadiesFirst 848]

Nice post.

 

I have a question on email etiquette.

 

I would imagine most companions get an incredible amount of email it must be extremely daunting at times. Realizing a companion is only compensated for there time and company and not corresponding where does that leave email? What is appropriate?

 

From a Client perspective, it is oh so easy to take a shine to you lovely ladies, and naturally we want to know more but not at the expense of irritating you. Myself, if I email, it is because I want to see you again and I want to know that it is a little bit reciprocated before booking again.

 

Now putting on the companions shoes, I don't get paid to email. If I email someone not booking what do I get out of it?

Yes, I need to respond for repeat business but so and so is trying to book now.....

 

So again I ask what is appropriate/acceptable?

I know it is a case by case thing but just as a rule of thumb?

How much of a companions day is email? Do good clients email monthly? Quarterly? Do bad clients email weekly? Daily?

 

 

I just find it a gray area...

[CristyCurves 169032]

I'd appreciate another companions advise/ answer to the remark I'm often given when in a conversation concerning this occupation. I've had many conversations with educated "straight"( by that I mean those not affiliated with the business) people, most often women, that become arguments. They become arguments because they insist their opinions are right, when going against the profession, and my opinion, that it is a decent profession, is wrong. They will insist that being a companion isn't acceptable, nor right, that it is degrading to women and one should want better for themselves.

How would you respond?

[Emma Alexandra 123366]

Nice post.

 

I have a question on email etiquette.

 

I would imagine most companions get an incredible amount of email it must be extremely daunting at times. Realizing a companion is only compensated for there time and company and not corresponding where does that leave email? What is appropriate?

 

From a Client perspective, it is oh so easy to take a shine to you lovely ladies, and naturally we want to know more but not at the expense of irritating you. Myself, if I email, it is because I want to see you again and I want to know that it is a little bit reciprocated before booking again.

 

Now putting on the companions shoes, I don't get paid to email. If I email someone not booking what do I get out of it?

Yes, I need to respond for repeat business but so and so is trying to book now.....

 

So again I ask what is appropriate/acceptable?

I know it is a case by case thing but just as a rule of thumb?

How much of a companions day is email? Do good clients email monthly? Quarterly? Do bad clients email weekly? Daily?

 

 

I just find it a gray area...

 

It's always nice to receive emails from clients that would like to see us again but keep it short and to the point...save the curiosity for the appointment. I know I would feel more comfortable in person then endless emails.

 

Additional Comments:

I'd appreciate another companions advise/ answer to the remark I'm often given when in a conversation concerning this occupation. I've had many conversations with educated "straight"( by that I mean those not affiliated with the business) people, most often women, that become arguments. They become arguments because they insist their opinions are right, when going against the profession, and my opinion, that it is a decent profession, is wrong. They will insist that being a companion isn't acceptable, nor right, that it is degrading to women and one should want better for themselves.

How would you respond?

 

I wouldn't bother with those"strait" people anymore. Some people just don't get it.