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This post goes out to the lovely ladies of Ottawa.

 

Are there any ladies whom really like giving hand jobs, are there any that believe they bring the HJ to whole new level?

 

I know, I know HJ seem pretty mundane, but for me, it more about forfeiting control, toying with me, and if you do it right, you got me begging for release is where I find myself seduced.

 

For me the ideal HJ session would involve 2 HJs. The first, just quick and dirty...to let me relax, to put the nerve a rest. Followed by deep therapeutic massage, where "he" would get some attention, but not "too" much, eventually the session would end long teasing multiple edging HJ.

Followed by a little power nap! lol

 

I guess I'm looking for cross of therapeutic, eroticism, maybe even a little bondage, cum denial, all delivered by a cute petite brunette.

 

To be TOTALLY honest, the perfect way to end would be to use the 2nd HJ to get me nice a stiff, then climb me, ride me and make me "happy". I know this last comment it probably "out of bounds" for this section, but I was simply describing an ideal scenario. Not implying anything else.

 

Petite, brunette, feisty but polite and can soft spoken as she could dirty when the time is right.

 

I used to see Jude. She gave an amazing massage, HJ was good, but was missing a dash sensuality, of sultriness.

 

I'd like to point out, i need a girl who can deliver a deep massage.

 

Incall and preferably an indy. I've never been to spa, but for the right girl...what wouldn't a man do!

 

Suggestions anyone?

 

Thank you to all

 

 

One that comes to mind is MAYA from ALO, has anyone had the pleasure of visiting her? Her pics too look tempting.

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Hear-hear, I love your description of a perfect handjob, and I must agree. Many these days just head off directly into the world of BJ's without bothering to tease first with the HJ. To tell you the truth, I've been missing a good HJ for a long time too, and have been wondering the same thing, who gives the best teasing HJ's? To an extent, it's partially my fault, I've had some wonderful HJ's in the past, but I've always finished off with a BJ, so many of my regulars go straight to the BJ.

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Melodie @ CMJ...'nuff said. I expect to be added to your xmas card list for this one ;)

 

Petite, brunette, feisty but polite and can soft spoken as she could dirty when the time is right.

 

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If you willing to give up the petite aspect of your wish list, I believe that Dark Tantra with Btpage/Didi/Bella Fontaine ticks all your boxes quite well.

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If you willing to give up the petite aspect of your wish list, I believe that Dark Tantra with Btpage/Didi/Bella Fontaine ticks all your boxes quite well.

 

I was going to suggest her as well. She even included lessons on it to me during our tantric touch training sessions. She is awesome!

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Perhaps its because I've never had a "good" BJ before, but blow job just don't cut for me. I've only had one BJ where I came, but i'd 75% of the effort was manual.

 

For me...BJ are good to get me stiff. Most of the time, girls get tired, complain about jaw pains etc and when I don't cum from the BJ then I have to explain the proverbial "it's not you Sweety, it's me".

 

I'll look into Didi, personality does go a long way, and I won't lie, I'm a sucker for the petite.

 

In truth, I could even argue that good HJ would include a couple of moments of special "kissing" as the sensation is nice. But to make me pop...perhaps one day i'll find Mistress of the Fellatio.

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I've never been with ALO's Maya but I've seen her while visiting another at their Carling location and she definitely looked awesome, body-wise and facially.

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This IS an art form, and not meaning to toot my own - now retired - horn, but Jasmin the MA, was very very good at it - many told me it was more satisfactory and intense then sex... mmmm Im getting wet just thinking about the old days :)

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Often times I will offer the HJ in the beginning, especially if I see your not able to lie face down comfortably at first hahhaha....

 

Yes, sometimes it is best to just let one pop off so that you can fully relax first, then after your body has melted in my hands with a deep and penetrating massage, some things can get stirred back up , hehe...then this is the time I really try to let you absorb every stroke, every little squeeze and defiantly lots of moisture. Placing your hard and engorged cock in between my breasts, mmmmm..I better stop now, lol

 

It is refreshing to see someone really relish a good HJ, so many reply to my ads with " that much just for a HJ?" Well I suppose they miss the whole point of a good body treatment and a skilled HJ?

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I'm a huge hj amateur and yes it is an art that not everyone can masterise.

 

Unfortunatlt I offended some women when while we were exchanging email to make a rendez-vous and i told them i only wanted to receive a hj some were insulted by that, and no i wasnt trying to lower the amount they were asking for there time i was fully aware of it and ok with it or i wouldnt of contactes them.

 

There is a classic hj video on almost every porn site where this lady is in between this guys legs and give an amazing hj alot of teasing and eye contact if i could find that around Ottawa I'd be very happy :)

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From my regular clients perspective they quite enjoy my happy endings ! There is something about my touch is often a statement made as well as my body language that I do involve during the massage session. i believe its all about a genuine touch and a sort of sensual, seductive and erotic, non-rushed ending that fulfills the brain & body ;)

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From my regular clients perspective they quite enjoy my happy endings ! There is something about my touch is often a statement made as well as my body language that I do involve during the massage session. i believe its all about a genuine touch and a sort of sensual, seductive and erotic, non-rushed ending that fulfills the brain & body ;)

 

 

Oil those hands Taylor, I'll be right over!!! ;-) ... spoken like an artist!

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Too bad you're not looking for a red head or I would be interested!

 

I second the recommendation for Melodie at CMJ... she is gorgeous and very talented!

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It's funny that this is cumming up lately. In my last 2 weeks of touring west of GTA I've had one 2 hr HJ appt and one 1 hr.. and I don't recall ever really having this before.. and I've commented on it a lot that I've never had this request before because of the handjob videos I've done that are so popular.

 

I couldn't understand why the videos which are such a fetish (and I only was asked to do these after returning from LA in 2008).. but no appts were ever requested.

I now realize this is because it's an MA event typically.. duh.

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I have to whole heartedly agree with you folks that a good HJ rocks. Perhaps not the type where a uninterested individual quickly tugs away with one hand, tissue in the other hand while looking out the window...that was the worst...lol

But a really good one. They can be sooooo slow and teasing and the whole edging part can be so incredible. Then there is the "ruined" orgasm i believe they call it. You are stroked and teased right till you start to finish then they let go and watch you in agony...the cruelest, meanest most awesome feeling ever especial when backed up with another hj and a real finish. Mix that all in with some dirty talk (insert favorite topic or fetish) and in my books there is nothing better....

 

Anyone???? lol

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Then there is the "ruined" orgasm i believe they call it. You are stroked and teased right till you start to finish then they let go and watch you in agony...the cruelest, meanest most awesome feeling ever especial when backed up with another hj and a real finish.

I think that's also known as a Tantric finish.

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