Brad 49548 Report post Posted July 31, 2014 Il Re's recent thread on massage porn (and the rather titillating responses!) got me wondering: if you had to choose do you prefer to give a massage or receive one? And either way what do you most enjoy about it? Now I'm sure we all like both, but I'm curious how many people can pick one or the other; which has the edge? For me, it's close but I think I prefer being the person giving the massage. I can't even say it's entirely selfless; I just really enjoy slowly touching and exploring a lady, especially when it's clearly relaxing or exciting her (funny how it can be either!). It can also be a good way to begin to find some out of the way spots on a particular woman which are particularly sensitive. Note: Pole results are public; figured it wouldn't hurt to know someone's preference! :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest **cely***r***ne Report post Posted July 31, 2014 That was a tough decision. I rather like giving a massage and then having the favor returned! But in no way would I ever deny being the one getting oiled up and rubbed in all the right sensitive places. Aaah. Could use a nice massage right about now actually. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Katherine of Halifax 113932 Report post Posted July 31, 2014 Well you now your best friend and lover is always her for you . Hmm. hope this is not a hijack. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
piano8950 32577 Report post Posted July 31, 2014 If it's the simple, normal massage, I love giving one, but I think I love receiving one more. If it's the sort that Il Re mention in his Massage Porn thread bondassage...Light bondage combined with erotic massage. Imagine being blindfolded and secured to the table. A person is massaging you and using various techniques (feathers, paddles, crops, ice, toys, etc) to tease and edge play you till you explode. I get requests for it from time to time...it's pretty fun. It would really depend on my mood. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Jessica Lee 43328 Report post Posted July 31, 2014 I've been told I give a pretty good massage.... but I'm going to be selfish and say I'd rather receive. I drive on tour and my back gets tight and tense ... when I was in Calgary last year I had a gent provide me with the most wonderfully relaxing, sensual massage. I'd been driving that day for about 7 hours and it was simply heavenly. Driving east in the fall. Just sayin' ;) 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shaved 3174 Report post Posted July 31, 2014 I love giving first, then receiving. Both I always give the Lady her massage first :icon_lol:, then me next.. :icon_smile: I always like to please the Lady first !! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meaghan McLeod 179664 Report post Posted July 31, 2014 I prefer giving. However there have been a few that have given me a nice massage. As long as they are not rough. Nothing worse then pain when you should feel pleasure. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brad 49548 Report post Posted July 31, 2014 Interestingly, the poll has stayed pretty even so far. Although I guess that actually works out quite well for everyone! :) 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Triple HHH 12345 Report post Posted August 1, 2014 So far I have being greedy and have enjoyed receiving except in one situation where I gave the massage. I do hope to get some very close up lessons in the near future when a special lady helps me give another special lady a massage that she deserves very much for visiting here on the Island. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LadyMichelle 730 Report post Posted August 1, 2014 I would rather give, but I do enjoy reviving as well. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Jessica Lee 43328 Report post Posted August 1, 2014 Interestingly, the poll has stayed pretty even so far. Although I guess that actually works out quite well for everyone! :) picture this .... only nekid!! :bddog: 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kmwq 5477 Report post Posted August 1, 2014 I love to give massages but it never last too long because I get side tracked easily and there are so many points of distractions. I love rubbing the lady's feet and then I have to kiss it and suck on the toes, the inner thighs are great to caress but that leads you to the kitty and then DIGITS and DATY has to happen, while doing that, I gotta squeeze and play with the butt and then the cute dimples just above the butt needs to be kissed while you hold on to the waist which leads to doggy and then flipping over so I can suck and play with the tits. I like caressing the underside of the lady's chins which leads to licking and light kisses behind the jaw bone and up to the ear. Yah, I like to give massages. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest *l**e Report post Posted August 1, 2014 Well, if i wasnt a fanatic about giving, my career choice wouldnt be very good, would it...lol I love having my hands on skin, making someone feel pampered, spoiled and relaxed while slowly building sensuality over time. I guess ots my fetish. Ill never say no to receiving, though!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Luckyme 41401 Report post Posted August 3, 2014 I love giving massage and I have been told by the ladies that I am pretty good at it! :grin: They are probably just being nice! ;) The feeling of my hands and fingers touching the skin of the lovely ladies is undescribable. The added bonus is that the sensual massage always seems to get the ladies in mood. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
