A Friendly Reminder About Deleting Texting History With an SP and Asking for Address

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

It has happened.. today I received a text from a guy's wife. I do not know who this person is.. she didn't tell me and I didn't ask. I don't know if I actually saw him and all I know is they was a texting history between us. Obviously she found it and saw the texts. I NEVER put the address in a text message. Never!

 

I know I am probably preaching to the choir here but I will say it anyways. After you have seen an SP, PLEASE delete the texting history from your phone.

 

I do not need these kinds of problems and its one of the BIGGEST reasons why I keep a separate incall location apart from my own residence and do not give out my incall address by text. I have to tell each and every client this when they ask why I will not text the address which seems so convenient for them. Then it actually clicks. If this sensitive information gets into the wrong hands like it did today, it could have caused a lot of problems.

 

When a client coming to see me and asks for the address via text, I do not know the person who is texting me and like the situation above, if it were to get into the wrong hands, it wouldn't be pretty.

 

Secondly, a random texter is a stranger to me and I am aware of all the tricks someone will try to play if they want to remain a secret agent type. I am onto all of it. I am paranoid when it comes to my safety and have turned down many appts because I got a bad vibe or they didn't follow my protocol when following up on meeting in person.

 

Needless to say I am very annoyed with this unknown person at the moment and their lack of discretion which has ruined my day.

 

I do not need this b.s. or some angry wife telling me I have ruined someone's marriage. She got an earful from me and I told her that the fact that her husband is contacting ladies is something she should talk to him about.

 

Trying to put the onus on the SP is just a way to blame someone and I'm not having any of it. Someone else's marriage is none of my business and it is not my concern. We are offering a service. I don't judge clients in regards to their marital status but people should be discrete about in their own actions.

 

She did back down after I became snarky with her and I think she realized she shouldn't push it with me. I will not back down. I don't care if it's someone's wife attempting to harass me because it's not my problem. Even if I knew who this person was, I wouldn't admit it. I would never give up a client because I am discrete to a fault. Unfortunately this individual didn't do the same for me.

 

It is the client's responsibility to get rid of any info or dealings he has had with an SP. The SP should not have to suffer as a result because a person was careless. I am very upset about this. Now I have to ramp up my protocol even more.

 

I am experienced in dealing with these situations but they are few and far between. Thank-you to the gentlemen who do take the time to delete any contact with an SP and cover their tracks.

 

Please delete texting and browsing history off computer or cell phone to avoid getting burnt! Also, think twice about asking for the address by text. Lastly, delete it off your GPS. It will save us all a lot of trouble in the end.

[Cleo Catra 178382]

Yep, I only ever give my address verbally. Even today, a four -year reg texted asking for an address reminder and I had him call me. You never, ever know who is seeing the texts .

 

I delete my text history every few days,for client discretion . They should do the same .

[roamingguy 300291]

Bad that a man who spent intimate time with a companion would cause her problems by carelessly leaving contact information for his wife to see. The SP didn't sign on for that needless drama

And, (not judging any marriage/relationship, only two people know their own relationship) why subject your SO to knowing you see companions. Your reasons for seeing a companion can be very valid, and again, I'm not judging anyone's relationship, but why put your SO in the position of knowing you see other women. That must hurt her

So be discrete, delete all history, be it on your phone and computer. The only person who should know you are seeing a professional companion is the companion herself. She wouldn't leave any text or other history for others to find out about you, you should do the same

A long winded rambling from a single guy, nothing to risk by being discovered, but gets it

 

RG

[VictoriaJolie 64127]

Sadly the same thing happened to me this summer

[waterat 20911]

I always clear all texts/contact info from my hobby phone immediately. This week I made a different mistake that could have caused problems for a lady and was thoughtlessly indiscreet:

When Cleo opened the door to welcome me I eagerly said "Hello Cleo" before she had had a chance to close the door.... she graciously, and with a smile, cautioned me to NEVER DO THIS!

I should have known better (and I'm not sure that I had ever thought of this before) but regardless my enthusiasm for seeing her took over.

 

Discretion is a two way street and you ladies are truly professional about ensuring it. You all deserve the same.

 

Cleo: thanks for the reminder.

Nicolette: I'm sorry this happened to you and thank you for posting about it.

[Guest **cely***r***ne]

Great reminders! Thank you Nicolette!

I have recently learned, if you share an incall location, make sure the other individual has the same protocol as you.. a gentleman I have never ever met in my life knocked on my door yesterday..not looking for me.

I dont even share this incall location anymore. :/ Very scary and rude imo.

[cinelli 22184]

Phones should always be password-protected, and anything related to this actity should be deleted immediately!

 

Some spouses cannot resist snooping. We have locked work phones. Occasionally a wife will call and demand the password because they say they have a right to see who their husbands are talking to. Seriously.

[fable 953]

I always keep my phone locked with a password and delete anything of a personal nature. Wouldnt want to get myself or any of the lovely ladies in trouble

[allanrand13 403]

My hometown SP has me use CoverMe, an app for Android and iOS. It's not a huge city, she is known around town with her regular day job, and she keeps a small clientele base...so she puts extra effort into maintaining her privacy.

 

With CoverMe you can basically send texts with options to auto-delete after they have been read. There are other functions (data vault, private calling, ...) and I'm sure there are plenty of alternative apps available.

 

Do other SP's use this, or is that just too much hassle and paranoia in a city big enough to provide a little anonymity already?