New Need advice and suggestions

[fr33yay0 1172]

Hey All,

 

I am new to the site and somewhat do this lifestyle. To give you a bit of a background I have been in a long relationship up until a few months ago. I found out she was cheating on me and just like that.. legally separated. Although she is no longer with him, I don't really give a crap.

 

Brings me to this site, and others! :) I have been looking for a service provider for early afternoons, around the ottawa area. (Most specifically Walkley/Conroy/Hunt Club).

 

I am however a bit shy and honestly not sure I can go through with my initial visit. Money isn't an issue, I have a great career and it's def. NOT a problem. For the career, I need to be discreet. I did read over the newbie section and FAQ quite well... I understand a lot more thank this site. Any advice/suggestions you can give me would be welcome!!

 

Thanks,!

Eric.

[LisbethNova 5627]

Welcome and congrats on liberating yourself from the clutches of monogamy!

 

Here are a few things I look for when gents or couples arrange a meeting from me and hopefully they can give you an idea of what SPs look for.

 

1. I really appreciate gentlemen who write me in a respectful way, without demanding Greek or other more risky acts. Maybe it's a little overboard, but I really pay attention to how someone writes and having proper grammar and respectful language.

 

2. References from other providers or other proof of identification is a must. Providers should be 100% discreet with your information and it's for the protection and safety for everyone involved.

 

3. Guys who write too many emails can get really annoying and make the SP feel uneasy about meeting you. Once you have made the appointment, it isn't necessary to keep writing an SP over and over again.

 

4. It is never a good idea to barter a price with an SP, especially when it's an SP you have never met. Most likely a happy SP with a pleasant gent will always go the extra mile for her special clients... at lease I do anyways.

[Phaedrus 209521]

I am however a bit shy and honestly not sure I can go through with my initial visit. Money isn't an issue, I have a great career and it's def. NOT a problem. For the career, I need to be discreet. I did read over the newbie section and FAQ quite well... I understand a lot more thank this site. Any advice/suggestions you can give me would be welcome!!

 

On discretion: don't worry about it. Discretion is a large part of what you're paying for, and the providers absolutely understand that. They don't want attention drawn to them, either.

 

You should definitely make up your mind whether or not you want to go through with a visit before doing too much else. Bear in mind that the ladies get quite a lot of tire-kickers and time-wasters, and while they'll be sympathetic to nervous new clients, they'll have limited patience for endless questions and very little at all for anyone who books and then doesn't go through with the appointment.

[randyzak 3600]

You have simplified your search considerably by wanting to meet someone in south end. The choices are few and far between. I highly recommend SexxxyRebecca who is within a reasonable distance and has like a bazillion reco's on this board -- yeah, I've met her. If you want more details please PM me. I will also teach you how to book an escort in 3 succint text messages or less; some guys just never figure that out.

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[Oil Guy1 230]

Some excellent advice above from people in the know.

I'm new to this too; i've only seen 2 providers (one of the ladies 3 times and the other only once but excellent experiences.

If the time comes when you want to date, having already found a provider will be a major benefit. I find i'm way more relaxed when putting up with women who want to drag out things until you eventually (if ever) have sex.

But i've been single a lot longer than you, so enjoy the beautiful providers before jumping back in the dating pond !

PS Randy, can you send me those tips too ? Thanks

[fr33yay0 1172]

Thanks all! I am going to put my training to go use on Friday!

 

Cheers!

[Andee 220524]

Since the OP is asking about ladies in Ottawa south, I will suggest he look at recos for these providers:

 

Leigh Munroe

Raven Rain (sometimes available in south end)

Sexxxy Rebecca

Chanel Reign

Victoria Banks (when she advertises south end)

Sassie'sWorld (Manotick)

Trishthedish (Riverside south)

 

And finally any touring ladies who stipulate they are staying near the airport, e.g. Bianca Jaguar.

 

If you feel you really cannot go through with seeing someone, probably best not to book until you can commit. Most ladies are patient and understanding when it comes to first timers.

 

 

2. References from other providers or other proof of identification is a must.

 

I don't mean to jump on you, but I suppose since the OP has expressed that he is new and a bit nervous that you are trying to be helpful. I think you need to be mindful that it is important you make it clear that what you are suggesting comes from the way you conduct your business, and not a representation of all SPs. Each lady has her own set of screening requirements and it's best for the client to consult the lady to find out what is needed to see her.

 

For example, not all ladies require references but those that do many will ask for other verifying information. But to say that proof of identification is a must is misleading. I am not even sure what you mean by that. But I know it is not a generally accepted practice for most SPs to do this. The ones that do, will make that clear on their ads/web-sites or when contacted.

 

I am just pointing this out because the OP has expressed he is nervous. Probably best to suggest links to topics for newbies where various members from the community have contributed so that he gets a balanced approach.

[FunValerie 8573]

I will also teach you how to book an escort in 3 succint text messages or less; some guys just never figure that out.

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Please, post this for everyone. In fact, I think you should start a thread with this information. Too many potential clients send too many emails/texts which are completely irrelevant and/or contain illegal content and/or are inappropriate.

 

Please, post your three email or text messages for everyone to see.

 

Thank you. You have no idea how valuable this information really is.

 

The endless emailing and texting in this industry borders on the unbelievable.

[HOLLY613 100]

I live in the Bank and Huntclub area hun...if you wanna set something up lemme know...

[LisbethNova 5627]

I don't mean to jump on you, but I suppose since the OP has expressed that he is new and a bit nervous that you are trying to be helpful. I think you need to be mindful that it is important you make it clear that what you are suggesting comes from the way you conduct your business, and not a representation of all SPs. Each lady has her own set of screening requirements and it's best for the client to consult the lady to find out what is needed to see her.

 

For example, not all ladies require references but those that do many will ask for other verifying information. But to say that proof of identification is a must is misleading. I am not even sure what you mean by that. But I know it is not a generally accepted practice for most SPs to do this. The ones that do, will make that clear on their ads/web-sites or when contacted.

 

I am just pointing this out because the OP has expressed he is nervous. Probably best to suggest links to topics for newbies where various members from the community have contributed so that he gets a balanced approach.[/Quote]Fair enough... I don't expect all providers check references or require any information at all.. to each your own.. but I protect myself first and foremost and have a certain vision of the kind of clientele I want to see. Of course I have met clients who could not give me much information, but I try to be as reasonable as possible and use my best judgement. If a gent is nervous, which often happens, I try to come to an agreement that is best for both of us and read into how he writes and decide from there.

[LookingForFun666 230]

Be polite and respectful. That will go a long way in every experience of life!

[fr33yay0 1172]

Thanks everyone, I did go ahead with my first appointment on Friday and had a good time. It takes quite the leap to get over that initial shock... :)

[LisbethNova 5627]

Great! I hope you had a great time and enjoy the hobby!

[LeastOrigionalName 227]

I think you need to be OK with asking for advice and what to expect.

I have been lurking here for awhile now, very interested but alas, I'm still married but our sex life is beyond stale, and has been for 6 years despite all my efforts. As much as I love my wife, I have a high sex drive and she has none(we even tried a therapist).

 

I haven't used a provider yet, but I have been in communication with several here and I can say that the ones I have talked to are very understanding of my anxieties and concerns.

I'm just honest when I talk to them. If you have questions go ahead and ask them. This forum has been excellent for information.

 

My lurker experience would say sexxxy Rebecca as she has amazing reviews and is well known to be great with first timers. She is who I'm calling once I get up the nerve.