How To Book A Companion In This New Era

[Guest S****r]

Booking A Companion 101

 

These are my recommendations to gentlemen and ladies when seeking companionship.

 

The Hunt

 

In order to not mistakenly book with LE,

 

1. Unless someone can give you a personal recommendation, only book first dates with someone with some history--look for online reviews and/or recommendations, a history of ads, an established website, etc.

 

2. For hotel visits especially, I would only visit the well-established touring ladies, not any unknown fly-by-nights passing through town. A hotel sting is just too easy for LE to resist setting up. So again, look for the same kind of history.

 

Making Initial Contact

 

1, Start with an email or PM. State where you saw the ad and introduce yourself, such as age group, cerb handle, whether you are local or from out of town,. Do not ask about any specific illegal activities which the word censor here will not allow me to type. (that which may not be named) This is the crux of the matter. Let the companion know when you are available to meet and for how long.

 

Although I did suggest something like the following to a friend who was planning an intitial contact with another lady and wondering what to say: Back in the day before Bill ...., I used to ask a lady if she provides A, B or C, but now that the law has changed, I have changed my ways and no longer ask such questions.[ But perhaps you should run that by a lawyer first and see what he recommends.

At this point, as a companion, I tell people that I would now like to state what I do NOT provide during a date, if you are comfortable with that. I then pause and give you an opportunity to decline this information. But remember, I am legally free to say whatever I want. Only you are not. And I am not telling you what I will do, but rather what I won't do. These are my restrictions, my limits. You then know whether I am of further interest to you or not.

 

Upon Arrival

 

1, Start the date with a gift, i.e. the compensation, for the lady. Some put the compensation in an envelope with or without a card. Some put it in a gift bag. Some arrive with a bottle of wine with the compensation in the wine bag This would be a good time to ask to freshen up in her washroom, then she can check the gift if need be, and then whisk it out of sight.

 

2. i think at that point you are both ready to begin a delightful companionship!

 

After the Date

 

Authentication may be more important now than ever. Not only do you want to avoid risk of disappointment, but something bigger is at stake--avoiding any undercover LE. If you post a review or recommendation, validate that the person is genuinely a companion, that she is the girl in her photos, and she is the way she portrays herself in her ads. But for everyone's safety now, I advise making no reference to "that which can not be named."

 

Those, of course, are just my recommedations. Others, please feel free to add, if you wish. I realize I am not the only one here with such advice. But let's try to keep this thread to "how to book" only. Let's not rehash the bill again here. We have far more than enough discussion threads on that.

 

With a little caution and common sense, we should all be able to still operate safely.

 

Thank you!

[FunValerie 8573]

"Back in the day before Bill ...., I used to ask a lady if she provides A, B or C, but now that the law has changed, I have changed my ways and no longer ask such questions.(But perhaps you should run that by a lawyer first and see what he recommends)"

 

I ran this by a lawyer back when the old law was in effect and he bluntly told me not to do it and also not to mention what I was NOT willing to do for compensation because that implies that are some things that I am willing to do for money.

 

The best and safest thing to do is not to mention anything to do with anything even remotely related to what that bill is about. There is no way I can say anything more without using censored words.

 

"I look forward to sharing coffee with your in your hotel room at 08:00 PM." Enough said.

[roamingguy 300292]

Well this draconian law doesn't change anything for me

I contact the lady using her preferred method of contact usually, well always has been thus far email

I introduce myself (that's name, phone, email, well full verification information) to the lady and that I'd like to meet her

I don't ask anything about ......... All communications are about setting up a date...yes a date meaning time and companionship, nothing else

What happens during that date is between two consenting adults and unfolds naturally

I learned the best dates are the unplanned dates...no scripts no nothing expected, and judging from the recommendations I've written, seems to be working. My dates have been for the most part positive experiences in my life, and (I hope) mutually beneficial

A rambling

 

RG

[mrgreen760 37785]

Thanks, and for me this is sort of parallel to when air travel became more hassle and less fun I became much less interested and reduced my air travel significantly.

 

Peace

MG

[peacectryguy 12532]

I have honestly never asked for or about specifics in my communications even long before this nonsense started so that really doesn't change for me. Now, part of that was because most ads and websites were fairly detailed so there was no need to ask. That is one thing that will change. For me, it isn't that important and as long as our communication has no explicit illegal tone to it, all will be fine. After all, we can "talk" all the livelong day as long as we don't mention money or you know what. Most of this really goes back to proper etiquette and stuff we have discussed before as well.

[cinelli 22184]

Clients can tell what is available by looking at older reviews or ads.

 

If someone offers x,y,z on December 5 it will probably be on offer on December 7. There is no need to ask the same questions over and over.

 

As for booking, I would go through a pm on here. That seems safest, as long as you choose your words carefully.

[fortunateone 156618]

Clients can tell what is available by looking at older reviews or ads.

 

If someone offers x,y,z on December 5 it will probably be on offer on December 7. There is no need to ask the same questions over and over.

 

As for booking, I would go through a pm on here. That seems safest, as long as you choose your words carefully.

 

 

 

This is far too logical and makes too much sense.

 

And i would add that the chances today, compared to 5 to 10 years ago, and beyond, of finding someone who does not do a range of activities is very slim. there are some who do not do uncovered mouth action (i am trying to write this without getting censored lol and it did not work, no idea what the word was), but other than that, i think most can be reassured that most activities are available with most escorts. it is not like before when the vast majority did the basics and nothing else, or at least rarely anything else, and if it was OK, it would be extra 50s for each one.

 

and as for covered or uncovered , why should that be a deal breaker if the escort is a fine companion otherwise. there is an opportunity here for escorts to start protecting their own health, it is possible they see not advertising certain things as a way to take back control over their personal risk. In that case, like 5 to 10 years ago and beyond, clients will simply have to deal with it.