First hobbying Experience

[azureskies1523 100]

Hey guys,

 

First time hobbyier here, just wanted to get your input on how your first experience was when you finally took the plunge and booked a visit with a service provider. Was it nerve wracking, exciting, rushed? I'm a newbie so I just wanted a few clues as to what to expect on the first visit. If this is the wrong board then I apologize, like I said I'm kind of new here so still getting my bearings.

[Guest b**g**_1*]

My heart was beating like crazy. Even when I was sitting beside her, I was nervous as heck. But I still got two shots off in under an hour.

[The General 11309]

Hey, it is a first time experience, you should expect to be nervous. I would suggest finding someone a bit experienced and let her know and she will guide you. Many good ones to choose from on CERB.

[spud271 47779]

I came to Canada for 3 weeks before I started in the Royal Navy. Went to Montreal for a few days just to check out the club scene and the women of course. The one evening before I was going to hit the clubs, for whatever reason I was flipping through the yellow pages and found the Escort section. So I called a couple of agencies, asked who was working and thought about it for a bit. Finally made the decision and called back to see if they could send over a young lady named Marie. I got a bit nervous because she was 24, but I had been with older women before so I think it was more the idea of seeing an Escort that got me excited. When she arrived I was stunned at how beautiful she was. Long blonde hair and very blue eyes, it was an amazing two hours that I'll never forget, and I've been hobbying ever since!

[PistolPete 61421]

I started differently, I graduated from the massage scene to the SP's. The first time with a SP was not really nerve wrecking, as I selected a proven experienced lady, man it was ALL good.

 

Years later, I'm still enjoy ladies, and have experienced different types of sexual pleasures, light domination,MFM,MMFF it is all really great.

 

I'm sure you will thoroughly enjoy your first time, but I would treat your first experience with a lady that is well recommended.

[spud271 47779]

Hey guys,

 

First time hobbyier here, just wanted to get your input on how your first experience was when you finally took the plunge and booked a visit with a service provider. Was it nerve wracking, exciting, rushed? I'm a newbie so I just wanted a few clues as to what to expect on the first visit. If this is the wrong board then I apologize, like I said I'm kind of new here so still getting my bearings.

 

I would follow Pete's advice. Pick a lady who is well reviewed. I got lucky the first time, of course 20 years ago the newspaper and yellow pages were the only ways to find an escort. Now there is loads of info out there. Good luck with your first time!

[roamingguy 300292]

Frankly my first time a major disapointment, I've had more fun with the palm sisters. Haven't had a second time yet.

Won't go into details in public, but one thing for sure, stay away from CL

RG

[The General 11309]

First time you should stick with someone recommended and experienced here on CERB.

 

You should not be afraid to take a second plunge with one on here though.

 

 

 

Frankly my first time a major disapointment, I've had more fun with the palm sisters. Haven't had a second time yet.

Won't go into details in public, but one thing for sure, stay away from CL

RG

[roamingguy 300292]

Don't worry, I'm going to take the plunge again

But I'm sticking to the sp's on CERB. That was my first and last time using CL

RG

[Carrie Moon 68826]

I've had a lot of first timers over the years and hell ya you're going to be nervous.. sometimes I can feel the heart almost pounding out of their chests when I hug them at the door.. but it's worth it.. and in fact it's part of it.

 

Feeling like a teenager in most cases all over again. Have fun.. and enjoy the nervous feeling. Just like jumping out of a plane skydiving.. it's a rush you'll always remember.

[The General 11309]

Don't worry, I'm going to take the plunge again

But I'm sticking to the sp's on CERB. That was my first and last time using CL

RG

 

Good choice and probably the sooner the better, get that first experience out of your mind.

[antlerman 17064]

my first time was with a visiting lady who has made a return to the capital from time to time..........it was such a thrill........

I was nervous as hell and it took a few minutes to get to performance status....then only a few more minutes to finish....but the cuddle time got me hooked.....

 

Now I still get the same feelings...but I can last just a couple of more minutes....heheheheeh......

[Guest w**lb**l]

I had dabbled a few times, but then I made arrangements to me "Cat" Catherine and it was all downhill, or uphill depending how you look at it, from there.

[lookingforfunxxx 615]

Well my first time and really the first while that I did this hobby was more on the low end of the spectrum. My first time was a "beach walker" in the Caribean on vacation and was rather rushed, but exciting in that it was a forbidden pleasure. After that I did the streetwalker thing and that was fun for a while until the police cracked down on it and the girls disapeared. Finally I discovered more upscale ladies and everything changed. Suddenly I found that I could take my time and actually do some of the things that were new and exciting to me.

 

So my thoughts here are: save up your money and hire quality talent. Buy at least an hour of time and be prepared to spend more than the minimum rate for someone who will listen to your desires and then act on them. An SP is not a girl friend and your first encounter is not a first date, therefore you should not be shy to tell her what it is that you want to do early-on in the encounter (habit and instinct may hold you back and that would not give the SP any indication of what you want). My early experiences in this have made me wish I had hired better girls from the start. I hope you have a great time.

[whocares 111]

I don't think I stopped being nervous until my 4th or 5th time around.

[Ice-T 157]

It goes awhile back to 1997. Back then there were no websites to do research and I just called a number from a local paper and prayed. When the girl showed up, I was disapointed because she wasn't the same as described to me over the phone but I still went thru it. She was nice enough but physically she didn't do for me. Now with these sites and websites, you can do some research and have a great time.

[Guest b**g**_1*]

Frankly my first time a major disapointment, I've had more fun with the palm sisters. Haven't had a second time yet.

Won't go into details in public, but one thing for sure, stay away from CL

RG

 

I found mine through CL. But I agree, stay away.

You could take your chances, but chances are you won't luck out.

[pipercub 795]

I must admit that my first time was a bust, having travelled from Kingston to Ottawa only to come to a locked door. I must say It took some time but I did venture out for a second time and and have met some beautiful gifted ladies. My advice is to do your research on cerb find a lady that excites you, comes highly recommended then go for it. Enjoy.:)

[bucken 1479]

My first time was with an agency in Ottawa. It was a last minute, spur of the moment thing. Thankfully, the lovely lady I met made it very fun, and I actually saw her a second time months later.

 

And yes, heart was pounding, nervous, almost couldn't talk. In short, it was exhilerating.

[Capital Hunter 18263]

My first hobbying experience has an interesting story attached to it (though I was cruising strip bars for years before my first call for an escort as well as having private dancers at home for years as guests)!!!.

 

I saw the picture of a girl who was a close looker like of another young blonde girl whom I was in love with, many years ago (not looking for escorts but accidently came across an ad by PlayGirls in 2005 or 2006 not sure). Her name was Lexus and I kept on thinking about her every day. She reminded me very much of my past and lost love (later I found out Lexus too was from Halifax). I was tempted to call for her and was totally unaware of the legality of outcalls at the time. So, many times I used to log on to PlayGirl's web site just to look at this girl's picture and later printed it in color too.

 

It took me several months until eventually I found the courage to call for Lexus but to be honest, I was quite nervous when she arrived (not nervous because of my date with her but rather the law which I wrongfully thought at the time that I was breaking). It worked out to be a very fun enjoyable encounter with lots of kissing and hugging but no FS (my choice as I was unsure of its legality at the time). She was very friendly, a true GFE and totally reminded me of my past love. She looked even more like my past love in person and from the same city too!!!. It took me another 2 or 3 years until I started calling escorts on a regular basis (after joining cerb I learned that outcalls are legal and almost completely switched to escorts from dancers. More fun lol).

[Guest W***ledi*Time]

I'm always nervous when I see any lady for the first time. I hope that I never get to the point of not being nervous ... that would be a very sad day for me indeed.

[jughead 45]

My first experience with an sp of sorts was....a street walker, yes i know i was young, stupid and thinking with the wrong head. I was nervious and it did not go as well as i would have liked it to go. After that i found that ......spot on montreal rd, now have moved on to escorts, better service and better choices.

 

Me i am extremly nervous for the first minutes just before meeting the sp, after that it just fades away..................

 

 

access to the internet, boards like this one and EC help in finding quality sp that are worth the risk in seeing.

 

I am sure i am not the only one who has went out to a SC draged there kicking a screaming be his fiends (yes the r is missing) the whole way LOL. Spending a tons of money and still end up wanting, and afterwards thinking with the wrong head and walking in for a quickie to........well we all know about that spot.

 

It all about choices and access to the net and this board broadens your choices greatly.

[whiteman 14028]

Does anyone remember the old Charlie's Angels agency?

[Origin 268]

Going back.

 

I dabbled in the massage aspect of the hobby first. My first time there was exhilarating that being the thrill and anxiety of the unknown and the excitement of the whole thing.

 

I remember making the transition to seeing SP. Thanks to cerb. And many thanks to Pretty Paige my first. I was very nervous but she was remarkable and took care of that and everything else. It as great. All the ladies are great.

 

You never forget your first.

 

..and hope you never have a last. :)

[YoungStud 468]

One reason I don't spend as much time as I used to on this board is that many of the threads and comments seem very similar to past threads and comments. Only natural when you have a constant influx of new members, I suppose. But still, not that interesting after awhile.

 

Seems to me that

 

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=7579&highlight=first+interaction

 

kind of covered the same ground.

 

Anyway, as posted in the thread just noted, still fondly remember my first time, some 30 years ago, as an actual 20-something "Young Stud" Lol!

 

"It was in Toronto a long time ago. lol With a buxom 20-something in a tight halter top and even tighter jeans. She was no-nonsense right-down-to-business SW who was very enthusiatic about giving value for payment. I will always remember her remark after I had cum in her mouth and she had spat it out the passenger-side window into the alley. "Jesus, you sure had a big load on you! When was the last time you came?". Okay, so it wasn't that romantic, but it was my first paid BBBJ [and my first "escort" (lol!) experience] and I really enjoyed it. lol"