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Hell, I know smoking is bad and it doesn't really do anything for me, but I still continue to do it. I keep trying to quit and maybe someday it'll happen. But if you told me today that DATY without a doubt, 100% definitely gives you cancer, maybe I'd have more incentive to quit smoking. Might give me a few more years of eating pussy, because that ain't being stopped ;)

This is a thread for both ladies and gentlemen. I would be curious to know what made you decide to get involved in the sex trade... I will do the honour and tell you my little story. As you might be aware of by now, French is my first language so please bare with me if my English is sometimes silly! I had always been pretty wild with my boyfriends but until I was about 30 years old, I had very few one night stands. I had been single for a while and started to ask myself why I would choose a sexless life simply because I was afraid of other people's judgments. Yes, you guessed, it, I come from a home where promiscuous women are frown upon. So I started to have multiple partners (that I chose carefully) and explore different form of erotism: light BDSM, threesomes, swingers clubs, exhibitionnism, voyeurism, small orgies, same sex partners, etc! Becoming more and more open-minded and curious to push some of my bounderies, I came upon internet ads (I was actually looking to adopt a kitten!! :-P) from escorts and ladies looking for a sugardaddy. It turned me on imagining me being one of those ladies. There was something kinky and forbidden about this world, a world completely unknown to me then. To make a long story short, I posted 2-3 ads and choked each time. I was getting arroused exchanging emails with those men and I fantasized about going through with it but I was at the same time very afraid of the consequences it could have on me. Then, one night that I was feeling particularly adventurous, I posted one more ad explaining honestly what the situation was (i.e. that I was simply looking to fulfill a fantasy of services against money contribution). One of the replies I received was very interesting and I told myself: ok, this is now or never! I went through with it even though I was still pretty scared. The excitment was exceeding the fear! :) Needless to say that my experience was very positive. After that, I didn't immediatly became an escort because I still had to stuggle with some preconceived notions imposed on me by society. Being a good and decent person is very important to me and I wanted to make sure I would not compromise my integrity. I thought long and hard about it before finally realizing that I didn't see anything morally wrong with escorting (as long as it is done respectfully to yourself and others) and decided to start offering my services. I have never regretted my choice since!

Hi Everyone, Here is an interesting article that some might want to read. http://blogs.usatoday.com/betterlife/2009/04/researchers-suspect-oral-sex-to-blame-for-rise-in-tonsil-cancer.html

As I said in Nikki's thread, this is very disturbing. Not sure what people like this expect to gain from acting this way. Hopefully this individual can be stopped soon! Sorry to hear about this Paige, this person clearly is very disturbed!

Cancer Prevention Tips Stop stress in its tracks. Stress is probably the number one cause of cancer in the human race. When your body is stressed your organs get stressed, chemicals produced by the brain and organs to control these (negative conditions) feelings are good for temporary relief, but prolonged stress on your mind and body sends your body out of whack. Eat healthy foods, foods that grandma cooked 50-60 yrs ago. Always use fresh ingredients and not processed foods. Smoking is up for debate, but if you can roll your own go for it, its not the tobacco thats killing you its the 2000 chemicals you're inhaling from the filter. Some WWI vets smoked 2 packs a day of unfiltered smokes, they ate healthy meals 50 yrs ago and lived at a slower pace then we do today.... Average death of a WWI vet is 89 anhd many of them died naturally. And last but not least have as much good sex as you possibly can ( SP promotion...LOL) The 2 natural body healling things to do in your lifetime is to have sex and laugh. Oh yes..... never trust your government or the pill popping industry. rub

At this point Paige, the "why" is not relevant anymore. Don't let him win by letting him manipulate you, scare you, control you, etc... Take matters into your own hands and fight back! Post #5 by Ariane, written by JAG on another board should help you a lot on how to deal with this particular situation. This and moral support from your close friends should help you get through this! Don't give up! Be strong! xox

Paige, I am SO sorry that you are going through this. I have been the victim of a stalker and it ultimately lead to me having a nervous breakdown. I strongly recommend that you seek out the help of the police. If you're still wary of taking that route, you can always try calling Stella http://www.chezstella.org/stella/?q=en/ here in Montreal. I know that you're in Ottawa but I'm sure that they can provide you with invaluable information and resources, nonetheless. You can also track his IP address, so that you know if he actually lives in town. Here is an IP tracker that you can use http://aruljohn.com/track.pl I'm glad that you publicly asked for help. This a great board with great people and I'm sure I speak for everyone else when I say that we're here for you. Be safe. *Hugs* Ava xoxo

Paige you need to call the police thats what their there for. They can help you. I had a guy once who threatened me,tried to blackmail me,stalked me...you name it he did it. I slept with a baseball bat beside me for weeks. Afraid to leave my apt. Eventually it got so bad i called the police. Believe me i was so afraid of calling them but more afraid of what this person would do. Turned out it was a guy from NYC...the police had tracked his ip address or something and i knew who he was. I had to give them a pic of him {which thankfully i found one on the Internet}..gave them his phone number and all info i had. I never heard from him again.... so be brave and call the police. kisses, Emma A

Paige, I am astounded. There is nothing that your fans can do except provide moral support (unless you want a gang of us to be your bodyguards) - and this makes me angrier. I have complete disgust for people who want to victimize others - particularly by bullying and anonymity. A threat *is* an attack! Why? He likely wants to control you and since he cannot, he wants to lash out at you. But I also urge you to consider speaking to the domestic violence unit who have recently helped a close friend of mine have her stalker jailed. e