I think it's valid only to a point. How we set our prices is a whole other discussion, and there are lots of threads about it. I don't think that my returning clients come back because of the amenities. They want to be with me. I work hard to attract a particular demographic: men who are 50-75 years old and who want a mature companion of comparable life experience and education. There are very few women my age in this profession in the Vancouver area. My clients feel that I understand them and that we have things in common. They can also afford me.
I'd like to get past the continual focus on bad dates, danger and nasty, evil, violent clients. I think it's w-a-y overplayed when the escorts are independent and working indoors. That's the key factor. Women who work outside, on the street, face very different challenges and higher risks. They're more likely to be preyed upon, robbed, beaten, raped, abducted and killed because the kinds of men who do such things can find them easily and they think they can get away with what they do to those women.
I screen clients. That alone makes me different from women who work outside. I can take the time to screen and choose from among the men who contact me. I turn down over half of those who contact me for all kinds of reasons. It could be that they've tried to haggle over my fee, that they ask questions I don't feel are appropriate, that they argue with my restrictions, or that they clearly haven't read my website at all. It could also be that they're looking for things I don't do and am not interested in doing. Not everyone that I see returns. I don't expect that they will. But I've never had to ask anyone to leave nor have I felt that I needed to go, myself, because the client has done something threatening or dangerous.
The simple fact is that the men who want the experiences I and most others here provide are basically good guys who want some personal care and attention. They don't want to cause any trouble for anyone and they don't want to find themselves in the midst of trouble, either. No one who crosses my doorstep would imagine that he could hurt me and get away with it.
The men I entertain are teachers, doctors, lawyers, social workers, police officers, construction workers, engineers, computer technicians and programmers, clergy, accountants, stock brokers, salesmen, writers, artists. They're only as dangerous as you are.