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Lot of guys are calling me, asking me how I work, if there's somthing they should do before coming to my place, how to be at ease toghetter... Here's my Top 10 of things I appreciate... They are not always available (the guy having a relationship, or in a rush), but others are VERY appreciate from most of escorts, I think... 1. I feel more confident when the client places the money in a way I can see it and count it as soon as he enters my room... 2. I preffer when he uses my stuff instead of his... If I am using a certain brand instead of another, it's because I feel more cormftable with it, and I know this stuff is safe. Also, some SPs may be allergic to yours, and eventhough you lost your time, but hers also... 3. I love when we get to know each others a bit before the session. I'm not the kind of bang-bang, ciao... I'm about to give you the best service I can... Help me by telling me what you like and what you don't... 4. I feel a little nervous about cops... I preffer he undresses before I have to ask... I am an SP, your not the first guy I saw naked... And don't worry, NOBODY has a perfect body, so don't be shy, I've seen worst! 5. I feel more at ease when he's asking for a quick shower before the session... In most of incall places, there's shower and towells available... Use it! 6. There's a line between rough and violent... Please, respect your SP... 7. Alchool and drugs can create issues or behaviors that will make both uncormftable... 8. If you are not an expert (and there's no experts in sex) take the SPs advice... We are doing this for a living... If there's something she feels wrong about, either she will teach you how to do it properly, or asking you not to do it... Everybody has something to learn... 9. Rough beard can causes a lot of dammage to an SP... Either in kissing or DATY... Also, it's not fun to suck on an hairy dick and sack... Please think of us... Sanded nails are also always appreciated... 10. TO RESPECT EACH OTHER'S LIMITS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING FOR YOU AND HER... Again, showing up to your wife with a shaved sack, when you never did it in 20 years is a bit suspicious... Not all of lines of conducts are possible, and we, as girls, can understand that... But please understand that due to different factors your mileage may vary(YMMV) according to how many efforts we both put into are meeting... AFTER ALL, AN SP IS SOMEBODY YOU WILL NEVER EXPECT TO GET A DATE WITH, BUT IS THERE TO GIVE YOU THE BEST MOMENT OF YOUR LIFE!!!

Fairly new here but I felt I needed to vent about something. I have had the opportunity to enjoy the company of several escorts and have had mostly positive experiences. I also try and keep to one or two SPs on a regular basis and have found that they are respectful, courteous and polite when treated with respect. however, they all have several horror stories about some men not treating them with respect. This is inexcusable. These ladies are doing their customers a favour and their company is a privilege. And until what they do is recognized by the law, they are quite often taking chances. I could write an entire novel on this and I realize I'm probably preaching to the converted on this site but i felt I had to vent. Thanks.:-x

throughout my life an career i have known men from all walks of life. Men who fought against rommel in north africa....young men fearful facing their first time.... i have also known men who are trauma and abuse survivors. to begin with we always cry out "save the women and children" but at what point is a child magically transformed into a man and no longer in need of support? at what point do they change from child in need of protection into a man who we all blame for everything? i remember a friend of mine who was a slight man, spending days on my couch because he was afraid to go home.his girlfriend was a big girl and used to terrorize him. i remember one instance when we went to pick him up for band practice and she went crazy!!!she put on a pair f army boots and started kicking him...in front of us!clearly she was doing worse when we weren't there. another man whose wife denied him sex for 17 years. he was shaking and began to cry when i took my clothes off. we lay on the bed and held each other and he wept while he told me his story. he was so devastated he couldn't take his clothes off....a shell of the man he was... another , manipulated by a woman he believed was on birth control into having sex which resulted in pregnancy. being a man of honor he did the right thing and married her. she quickly became controling and abusive both physically and emotionally. he was a big man and so who would believe he was abused? she made false abuse accusations, embezelled money from his mother, lied about him to his children saying he was a drug addict so much so one of his daughters began voluteering in vancouver's downtown east side in an effort to find and save her father, and defaming his character so far and wide he eventually lost his business, became homeless and ended up in jail. once in prison she made false accusations of threatening letters which complicated his time in jail by casting him as a violent offender, less privelges and freedom inside. as sex workers we see men at their most vulnerable and over my 23 years in the industry i feel i have developed a heightened awareness of mens emotions in particular when they are feeling sad or vulnerable. this is an enormous power to hold over men and there are those workers/women who exploit this power. ethical people comfort those in need, criminals exploit them. the man in this case was vulnerable. i another letter from his wife she described the situation to me.his business was failing, he was worried about providing for his family and was suffering from a physical symptom of stress in the form of ED. he was vulnerable and the worker sensed it. she sensed it and moved in for the kill.she did it consciously, with malice and intent to cause harm. it's an assault. if a woman gets "wet" durng a sexual assault - is it no lnger a sexual assault? whether a man gets "hard" or not should not be a determining factor as to assault....imho....but conditions surrounding the case could be used to deterine specific intent to cause harm and thus assault. what say you all? love susie ps. how could he consent, he wasn't given all the facts- in order to form free and informed cosent a person must be given all facts and information related to the decision to consent, she never said " i am a crazy woman who will extort you". one can not consent under duress and with out all info related to decisions.

Before I write my recommendation, I just want to make sure everyone is clear to the fact that the MA at the end of Michelle's name I believe stands for for Massage Attendant. Michelle is independant and therfore doesn't work in any parlours. She is not an SP and therefore doesn't provide FS or any other services except for massage, body slide and a manual release. My first meeting with Michelle was just outstanding. We had good chemistry from the start and evrything went better than I had anticipated. I arrived at the appointed time and went up to her place. I decided to put my glasses away as i was nearing the door and before I could knock, the door opened. I thought this was really nice of her. She kind of stood behing the door so she would not be seen from others who may be in the hallway. When I saw her my jaw dropped. She looked even better than her pics and what a great smile that she had on the entire time I was with her. We talked a little to get acquinted, then we both got undress so we could proceed to the shower. That wonderful BUM pic in her album his definitively hers, what a view. She also has nice little breasts with gorgeous nipples that are very responsive to stimulation. From that point on it was amazing as she knows how to keep you erotically stimulated. Great shower, followed by a most relaxing massage. What was also great about Michelle is that she constantly ensures you are well taken care of and that you enjoy every minute and even ask you if there are particular areas that you want her to pay more attention to. No not that area I am not there yet, wait for it. Great conversation all that time and lest just say a well placed mirror provides for excellent views. After massage, it was time for body slides. Wow that was great, first on my back and then of course I turn around and she did the slides over my stomach and over Mr Happy who was getting even happier with every slide. Then it was time for the manual release. She was taking her time which help build up quite a bit of pressure. When I finally let go, I was amazed at how far I sprayed my load. It is a good thing this was an evening appointment and I was a littel tired from a full days work. Had it been morning, I think the walls would have needed some cleaning. We Talked some more after, had a shower, got dress and smiled all the way home. It was really fantastic. The best way to describe my meeting with Michelle is to say I had a GFE massage. If every girlfriend would give such massage, marriage would be on the rise. The entire experience was unbelievable and unrushed. Michelle sure is a very classy lady. Repeat Oh yes many times. Just thinking about it is exciting. I better stop this here and go have a cold shower.

I have met a real gentleman this afternoon... He called me this morning, asking me for an appointment at 5... Ok, I said... Pretty normal so far, regular client, I thought... Called me back at 3.30 to ask me to move our appointment at 4... I hate when they do that! Like if fucking and awnsering my phone was the only thing I was doing! I was out, chatting with some (mmm!)boys, chilling... Anyways, I said yes and ran back home... Met this little guy... About 5'5", 5'6", little belly and greyish hair... Ouch! So sexy! And I'm not talking about the attitude! Friendly, nice... He took off his clothes right away, wich I appreciate (makes me feel safer), and dropped the donation on the desk, in a way I can count it... No need to touch it... After 20-30 minutes, he asked me to extend, wich I was very uncormftable with... I give all I have in the first hour, and it's easy, but afterwards, I have to deal with empty time... He dealed with it, and very good... Starting gently licking my clit, not touching my pussy, wich is very important to me, he did'nt try to make me cum... He was so gentle and into it, I've cum, anyways... Then touching me, took me softly and then more and more rough, and ended in fireworks for both of us... Who said there can't be fireworks if it's raining?!? Then, we cuddled... It was so good... I felt like a woman, like a girlfriend... The connection was really there... And then we started over... Ouf! My pussy still sored! But again, PLEASE! Anyways, if emb3750 is contacting you, girls, I wish you a very nice time with this truly gent!

I was debating whether to post this, but because it happened to me, I feel justified in doing so. I would like to inform any hobbysts who may work for the Federal Government (at least in the Ottawa area) the embarrassment that my sister’s boyfriend went through recently when he was hauled up on the carpet by his superiors and questioned as to why he was calling “escort agencies”. You see he has a cell phone issued to him for work and “reasonable” personal use. I wouldn't have normally called him, but my sister didn't have her phone with her that day and we all arranging to meet. I made 3, very quick phone calls in a half hour period. All were “incoming” to his phone. Apparently my cell phone number was “flagged” as belonging to an “escort agency” as his boss put it, although he thought it was ridiculous that the higher ups would think he was trying to acquire the services of an escort with 3, 20 second incoming calls. Also, not sure how they verified my name to my cell phone number through Bell Mobility. I didn't think they could disclose that information, but apparently they did. Flagged, yes, flagged. Apparently a journalist exercising his right to freedom of information, questioned this particular government department on how much of tax-payers money was being spent per month on cell phone usage for members using their phones for sex-related services (escorts, sex chat lines). From what I was told, some do-gooder who worked there (who apparently has “No life”) took it upon himself to scour the different web-sites, print ads, yellow pages, and etc. for phone numbers, plugged them into a database and when cell phone bills were arriving, did an electronic check. If any numbers cross-referenced, bingo! Luckily, these family members knows what I do and are cool with it. He told them that it was my phone (his sister-in-law) and he had no idea what kind of business if any I was involved with related to that number. In other words, none-of-your-friggin business. My sister just happens to work in the dept. as him so not believing him at first, they held him in this room until they brought her up and were hoping they were going to catch some cheating guy in the act.. They showed her my number and she verified belonged to me. Then I find out later, that they also verified through Bell Mobility that the phone belonged to me, and not “some escort agency” as they put it and issued an apology to both of them and removed my number from this database. So, SPs of Ottawa, your number is probably in there too. If you have any clients who work for the government who have work-issued cell phones, encourage them “not” to call you from them.

If my husband had been CHEATING ON ME, with a HOOKER, that infected with AIDS, UNCOVERED, especially WORKING IN THE LAW DOMAIN, I would go in TRIAL right away... Either you're lying in a goal to have attention, or you want to kill the buisness on CL (you would'nt be the first one...) or YOU BADLY NEED HELP!!! Also, in the Canadian Law (and as working in advocacy), you should know that you can poursuie this young lady in criminal court as ATTEMPT OF MURDER or go to civil court for a HUGE amount for attempt of reputation, attempt of murder and interest... Yep, Susie, GO GET SOME HELP...

Well I did have the chance to meet you sweety and you were such a gentleman! I have to say that its not everyday men like you walk through my door and its so nice to have a relaxing time with someone who actually wants to please us not the other way around...You were very sweet and thoughtful and I enjoyed every minute of you! Hope you take care and keep in touch with us! kisses...