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I read it this morning and was disappointed by 1. that it was a typical copy of every other news story ever written on sex workers and contained the same superficial conclusions and 2. that it contributes to the stereotype of sex work being horrible for women by saying that it is horrible for women. I really wanted to see the other side of the story, ie. my side of the story: sex work can be fun, safe and empowering for women. I have only gained from being in this industry, never lost. I have become more confident, I have singlehandedly built a professional and successful business, and I have never been assaulted, threatened, raped, or tempted to do drugs. I use this job to fund healthy activities in my life like school and travel. I think that story, which is meant to be an expose, only shames women into thinking sex work can only be bad. Granted, there is a huge difference between the way I conduct business and the way street-walkers conduct business but they should be telling both sides of the story. So instead of being shamed, I am indignant about this story and I hope no one else on this board feels shamed either. I always have fun on cerb and I count some very good friends among cerb members. So: fuck the story, we're good people and I love my job. xoxox Amelia :-)

I wanted to take the opportunity to see Emma before she left Ottawa for a special evening. We had discussed doing some MILD Domination for a while and we both agreed to give it a try. Now while Emma has been exposed to this scene before, it was quite new for me. I looked around on the net to see if we could find a dungeon with equipment to rent. I finally found one in the Kingston area and made a reservation. I picked up Emma in Ottawa and we headed out for the 2 hour drive to the location. When we arrived we were greeted by our hosts who made us feel at ease immediately. They gave us a tour of the facilities and detailed instructions on how to use all the equipment. The dungeon is equipped with a St. Andrews Cross, spanking bench, a suspension area with winch, spreader bars, whipping post, bondage chair, love swing, one-of-a-kind bondage massage table. Our hosts also provided various whips and paddles for our use as per our request. There is a whole host of equipment available. After Emma and I had agreed on a safe word Mistress Alexandra quickly got into the zone. We are both not into pain so it was more about the tease and bondage in very vulnerable positions. The safe words were in place in the event one would freak out being strapped in. Mistress Alexandra dressed for the part in a black dress that exposed those wonderful breasts of hers, chained collar, and her shapely legs came complete with black stiletto heels. The dress opened in the front exposing her very clean plate that she quite skillfully tantalized me with while I was strapped into the spanking bench. I won't go into detail about what happened as this was a very private moment and will remain so between Mistress Alexandra and myself. I will say say that we both woke up the following morning with huge smiles on our faces as our hosts served up a delicious breakfast before we departed back to Ottawa. If you would like to PM me about the the website address I would be happy to provide you with the link. Please don't ask about specifics on what we did. I look forward to serving Mistress Alexandra again for our next Dom session. ATH

Depending on the client, I would rather they see me more often, with less time, but it's really up to them, not me. I am grateful for any client who repeats. I am even more grateful to clients who are grateful. I have a client who has been with me from 1998 when I used to charge him $150. for an outcall (back then in-calls were not common). Now he comes to me for in-calls. Even though I dropped my in-call rate over the years down to $120 (which he is fully aware of), he still gives me $150 because he says I'm the only expense he has that hasn't gone up for him in 10 years. I am not impressed with the greedy types. I've had other guys say, instead of $120, can you do $100? Right now I have dropped my in-call rate to $100 (summer special), so yes, I will make them aware of it. Then they ask, well for me, can you make it $80, then? Do you see where this is going? It doesn't matter if you lower your rate, some guys are ungrateful enough to thing they're so special, I should lower it further. C'mon give me a break. I am sure there are ladies who have certain arrangements with special clients, but we are not going to go around advertising that because then other guys will snivel and want it to. I know an SP who used to (she still may) give a free session to clients on their birthday if they were regulars of hers (at least once a month, I believe). :sm185:

Since no one answered my previous post on how to establish a conversational connection with an SP or MPA, I checked for information on some of the other escort review boards, and found answers to a similar question on one of the other sites. The information was related to starting a conversation with an SP, but probably applies as well with an MPA. Therefore, in order to make this post more complete I have summarized and paraphrased the information from the other site. The question asked on the other site was: Q. When you first meet an SP, how do you start things off? What do you say first? What do you talk about in the beginning? The answers provided were the following: Introduce yourself. Smile. Compliment her on her looks, but make the effort to notice something unique about her and compliment her on that - it could be her clothing, jewelry, the way she wears her hair, or even a tattoo, rather than just telling her that she is beautiful, which she has probably heard 10,000 times. Ask her how her day was. Ask her where she's from. How long has she been doing this? What did she do before? Tell her about yourself, what you do for a living, a recent vacation, your hobbies and interests. Tell her if you feel a little shy. She will probably notice anyway.