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Please, whatever you do don't contact other members looking for the street address,phone number,rates for an SP. Do that on your own, simply send a pm to the lady you are inquiring about, (don't worry lads... the ladies don't come out of the computer screen and bite you). I get numerous requests from(newer) hobbiest requesting info on the ladies,that she does not even put in her advertisement. Why would I answer that for you? What makes you think I would know? Did you read the recommendation section? I have protected the SP'S I've seen by sending a pm to them, "that so and so contacted me looking for your address, and phone number " those ladies have thanked me for not giving out that info if it was not posted in their ad. Remember YMMV... and the please, just ask yourself, you will not get that info from me.

I'm with Spike. They are all beautiful in their own way.

Hello everyone! It's about 6pm and I'm going to work soon. I wanted to share something with everyone, something that some people might be aware of (more than some, I hope). I have been talking to some SP's (older than myself - and wiser to some extent) and I found that their knowledge of STDs was not very comprehensive. I want to talk about these misconceptions about STDs to further protect all individuals involved in escorting - whether they're the hobbyist or the escort. Now I'm sure a lot of you know MORE than me, so I'd like everyone to share. The more a group or collective discuss a problem, the easier it is to eradicate said problem. OK. Let's get to the point. 1. You can get herpes if they are no sores present! "Remember: you can pass the virus to your partners even when you do not have symptoms" http://www.health.state.ny.us/diseases/communicable/std/herpes.htm 2. You can pass HIV through oral sex, they are microscopic abraisions present in the mouth, where the virus can pass through (!). Vaginal fluid and semen (including pre-come) contain the virus of an HIV+ person. 3. HIV can be 100% asymptomatic. Most people don't even know they have it (I wish I remembered where I read this.) So my point is, BE CAREFUL:!:

i completely agree. and really everyone its a day out of your month to and get tested. to me thats nothing compared to the time it takes to trace back your sexual history and the anguish of having to admit to someone you may have given them an STD. I talk openly about going to get tested and all my non hobbiest/SP friends all have the most ridiculous excuses not to go... "I always have to wait all day at that clinic...I cant book that kinda time off work" "That penile swab/cold instrument opening my canal hurts...I hate getting it done" "last time I went I bumped into someone I knew, it was so embarrassing" and so on... seriously its one day out of your life and the above excuses always seem pretty dumb when compared to the phrase" so you'd rather potentially have an STD?"

Regarding your post friends4fun......some food for thought although it seems you are playing safe..good for you! I've heard "rumors" of SP's offering BBFS, but in my opinion IF a girl offers you BBFS...RUN DON'T WALK OUTTA THERE! BBFS is something that should be reserved for people in relationships that do not stray.....One way to think about BBFS, is that by engaging in this high risk activity you are basically sleeping with everyone the girl in question has....scary huh? As far as you enjoying BBBJ but preffering CBJ, that is the great thing about this hobby..YOU choose what you want to participate in....Even if aa SP you want to see normally offers BBBJ, just ask her to put a cap on....bring her some yummy chocolate flavoured ones..you'll have to pry her off your cock :razz:

never tried this agency, but never heard anything bad about them. they have sone nice looking ladies.

Well just read the whole thread and all I have to say is quite simple. The people who dislike the idea of poly parties with their fave SP participating it ruins the fantasy that they created for themselves. They delude themselves that she is somehow their mistress/damsel in distress. In life my judgements on many sexual activities has fluctuated over the years, and now I judge not, lest I be judged. And beyond that who am I to interfere between consenting adults! I have had my reservations about the poly party but I am also titilated as well. I have more to say on this subject so more to come! Posted via Mobile Device

It's not the semantics but more the connotations. A GB as seen in the prono's is a woman being "taken" and yes some women want that, it is not the definition of most of the events we have had. All SP's are polyamourus as in they all have multiple partners, however a "Poly" party means many participants. We made the name up to avoid the negative connotations with Gang Bangs, as we invented the name we get to create it's definition, look on Urban Dictionary and Wikipedia, I will add it over the weekend :) and we will have a more official term :D Search "Poly Party" these things have to be screened by editors so the definitions may not hit the web until Monday or Teusday :) For the record; "Poly Party A liberal gathering of multiple partners for group sex, more organic and consensual than a gang bang, and more organized than a flat out orgy. Poly Party group sex outlines boundaries and limits respected by the participants and agreed to in advance. Ted, Jane, Allen and Don had a Poly Party, Jane did not want any lips below the hips with out protection and the guys all agreed that it would be only straight sex. Jane did request all hole filled and gentlemen were able to oblige. by Dummpy on Sep 11, 2009 tags: gang bang, orgy, dp, sex, kinky"

There are many things that are wrong in this world and the first step towards change is to talk openly about them. That's how I see it anyway. If everybody keeps quiet about what's unfair, how can we hope to evolve as a society?

theres some some confusion here as to the topics addressed. I see what you mean Angela, that this thread was created and advertised by some members of the group, but behind the scenes many ladies have been judged for having multiple partners in a single session. its interesting because as dumpy and others said, our business of what we do as working ladies should not define us. everyone on here has different fantasies....some clients want to be flogged while being screamed at humiliating phrases......some are into bondage....some straight men want to have it taken up the rear by an SP in a strap-on....some men want to be with more than one women in the same hour......and many have and have advertised looking for it. has any judgment been passed? no however...when a lady agrees to be with multiple men at the same time or seeks out multiple men for a single session its not accepted or deemed demeaning?...even if shes in control of the situation and selective of those she allows in her event? perhaps some may agree to disagree but this will always be the double standard....the only plus is, as SPs, we can control who we see and thus weed out those who think we need to be "saved" from a "misguided life" of what we choose to do. My opinion is that if a client feels its his right to control what you do outside of your's and his time together....he is not a client worth keeping....not because of the business you might loose, but because of the self esteem potentially lost having someone thinking you can't make decisions for yourself. I kinda steer clear of the term "GB"...poly suits it way better. GBs tend to resonate with acts of many men taking over a sole lady or ladies in a demeaning non-willing manner. Group-sex on the clock is not the same. picture it as going on a call...sipping wine with a few gents around a table at a private call and getting to know each other...and then having everyone respect your restrictions, everyone else's pace, and other's spaceand time. yes bit of a rant but as a word of advice, any Hobbiest who claims he knows whats best for his SP and voices so without her asking for an opinion from them will most likely loose his hard-earned favoritism. When someone tries to steer me from what I want to do based on what they think I'm "good enough" for, it makes me wonder if they think they are preying on the weak...or appreciating someone's love for their art. and I would always hope for the latter....but there are those odd few who want to hear that you've come from a broken home, were abused as a child and turned to sex-work in an act of monetary desperation. hopefully some of the knights in shining armor will realize that none of those apply to some and will start realizing the gifts they have in front of them...not for the victims they feel they need to "save" but for the strong women that they are....capable of making whatever choices they want.....even if they, the client, cant relate

Sadly, I think it's human nature to rate oneself in comparison to others - by labelling the poly-partakers as degenerate, they are making themselves feel better about their own deviance. Either that, or they're just incredibly jealous. Some of the more outspoken gay bashers are in the closet, themselves.

Hear, hear Dummpy! While I am not quite ready to move into a GB myself (haven't even experienced a duo yet, have to ease into things as they say;)) I have absolutely no judgment on others who do so. In fact the reason I am in the group is because the writeups and events sound like a blast (literally) and I may venture over there some day. Is anyone here naive enough to think that the person they see as a favorite does nothing else with others? Is she not allowed to spend her time in any way she chooses? When she sees you solo the next time is she any different because she engaged in something you don't want to try? To reinforce what dummpy said about some on CERB frowning on different types of recreation that others on CERB enjoy: 'people who live in glass houses should not throw stones' No one in the poly group forces anyone to read the threads, to attend an event or pass judgment on those who choose not to try, the group is there to try and facilitate new experiences...isn't that why people come to CERB...for experiences, whether they are simply or complex. At the end of all this the message should be that it's none of your business unless you want to attend, otherwise move on and leave others well enough alone.

Quite honestly, if their oral hygiene is non-existant, then other areas are just as bad, or worse.. Which will quickly earn them a "thanks, but no thanks"! Posted via Mobile Device