My whole point was that when you ask the sorts of questions you have listed here, everyone (honest or dishonest) is going to give you the same answer. That makes your questions, as you have posted them which is all I have to judge you by, useless. If you are now saying that you do have other sorts of questions that can be a little more diplomatic, in order to get the information that you are looking for, by all means share.
I don't think you understand that if someone is lying in their ad, they will also lie when you ask them, on the phone or email, whether or not they are lying in their ad. If you ask a reputable sp, who has taken the time to present herself professionally and honestly, these same questions in the way you have presented them, chances are she will not reply. And guess what, your opportunity to actually book an appointment with someone who is true to their ad just flew out the window, making it much more likely that you are going to continue to have bad experiences over and over and over again, until you finally figure out that it is you, not them, who is doing this to you.
Clearly you are someone who is only going to be happy with escorts who provide full 3d images, several reliable reviews, and so on. Which is fine, but if you stray from choosing them this way then you might limit your choices seriously.