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I was greeted earlier this week at a South end motel by another terrific find for Ottawa. Brooke is a friend of Amy and everybit as friendly, sweet, playful and easy to chat with. She provides a true GFE experience with everything you would expect - great kisser and very passionate. Her pics are accurate as she is young, tanned, in shape and comes with a very large well defined package up top. I wouldn't describe her as a spinner but she is tiny with curves in all the right places. She is new to the whole scene but proved to be a quick learner. Overall a great session and a definite repeat. I think an even better choice would be for a duo with Amy as I believe they are really good friends (going to Cuba together).

I have to admit that my jaw hit the floor when you said this. I can't imagine saying that to anyone. And I'm floored that quite a few fellows relate the same or similar experience. I tend to lose track of time (good for my clients, heh!) especially when I'm having fun, which is pretty much most of the time. I also religiously turn off my ringer when I'm with a client. I did have a one time when I completely forgot & just before we got started, it rang. I've got a unique ring that sounds like cackling monkeys, so needless to say, we both started laughing & I apologized profusely as it had completely slipped my mind. That hasn't happened since. I find I can't book more than 2 clients in a day, otherwise I get a little frazzled. I want to be in a calm un-rushed frame of mind when I'm with my clients so we both can enjoy our time together.

I fit the description close enough....I wonder how long it will take her to figure out about the vasectomy??? ;-)

Hello all, I'm not a big fan of replying threads but this time I felt I had to. Yes, all the things mentioned above are right, you as clients deserve all the respect & attention from the sp you see. I cannot imagine (and don't think there's many here) sp's who do not do their best to make a client happy and show him she cares about making him feel comfortable. Anyway, on the other hand although I agree with jazzitup about how tasteless is to rush a client, if we are talking about ten minutes or 15 tops then you are right but there is also the type of men who take advantage of being with a classy sp who does not rush them, take their time (a lot more than 10 minutes) and when they are finally ready to go, they don't even try to compensate the sp for that extra time. Again, a classy sp will never ask for it but then I consider this unfair as in the end, she worked that extra time. My point here is, is hard for us sp's to know how to act in a situation like that without being tasteless so, as clients I hope you understand that part and help to make it easier either not exceeding more than 15 minutes or, being fair and compensating the sp for that extra time and especially for the great attitude of not making the big mistake of saying 'time is over' and show you the way to the door :smile:

I'm pleased you're in support of change...it is important to note that as sex workers and activists, legalization is not what most of us are looking for...the following is from ChezStella - a Montreal organization for sex workers created bi sex workers: Legalization vs. Decriminalization It’s essential to know one from the other so we can make demands in all solidarity when we speak to the media, to politicians and fellow citizens. Legalization: In countries where sex work has been legalized, the State regulates sex work. For example, sex workers may have to pay special taxes, work exclusively in brothels or certain designated zones, or get a permit (these restrictions can cost a lot for a person who only wants to work part time or when a worker isn’t getting a lot of work). It can also mean that sex workers are obliged to register and pass physical exams that can lead to the workers being quarantined. (Or worse, knowing about the compulsory exams could lead clients to believe that bareback sex is risk-free, which would lead to more clients asking for this dangerous practice and to more pressure on workers.) Legalizing sex work means that certain forms of the work that used to be illegal become regulated in a specific way, which does not provide sex work with the same status as any other form of work. Decriminalization: Decriminalization means removing the sections that make our work criminal in the eyes of the law from the law itself: Section 210: keeping or being found in a common bawdy-house. Section 211: taking or offering to take someone to a common bawdyhouse (a chauffeur or a lift from a friend or partner) Section 212: procuring someone into becoming a prostitute or living wholly or in part on the avails of prostitution. Section 213: communicating or attempting to communicate with any person in a public place or in any place open to public view for the purpose of engaging in prostitution (solicitation). This would mean we could no longer be arrested because of the work we do, or because of how we market what we have on offer. Basically, what that means, is that anyone doing any type of sex work would be considered in the same way as any other self-employed worker. She would have the same rights and responsibilities as any other self-employed worker from any other field! We would be protected by the same laws as those regulating and protecting other workers. It would mean sex work and other fields are equal and would help remove stigma from our work. Many sex worker groups are asking for decriminalization, as it leaves more room for the diversity inherent to sex work; it also means each of us can manage our work the way we see fit. Now...with regard to you being sorry about ladies and gentlemen who work in the industry paying taxes...I must say, I find it fascinating how many people, particularly men who partake of this hobby, consistently make comments like yours... Over the past three years I have had the great pleasure of meeting many SPs from all over the country and the US...I can, without a doubt, say that most (upwards of 75%) pay our income tax...why wouldn't we?? We file as self employed and as of 2008, CRA had these (and other) options available when identifying the type of work we do: Escort, Adult Entertainer and Performance Artist... Most of us ascribe to the theory of "If you play you pay"...meaning, we want our roads fixed as well...we also want to be able to qualify for mortgages, buy cars, use our healthcare system, go to school and/or send our kids to school...we utilize the infrastructure and like the idea of having paramedics, firefighters and yes, even the police around when we need them...we like knowing they are there even if we don't....well, maybe not the police so much :) Seriously though, the police enforce the laws as they are now...they are doing their jobs...jobs that we, as taxpayers pay them to do...and expect them to do...LE in particular, as of late, face much more risk on the job than we, as non-street SPs do...they have chosen that line of work just as most of us have...while yes, there are those who abuse their power and intimidate but there are more who don't... So, darlin...while I'm so happy you're rootin' for the cause, I take issue with the offhanded remark about us paying income tax...we all know the story of how Al Capone finally lost his freedom...it wasn't for bootlegging, murder or racketeering...it was for tax evasion...CRA is waaaaaaay more frightening than LE...thank goodness I'm so neurotic about receipts!! I actually got a little refund last year!! Now that you know most of us pay taxes and why we look to decrim vs. legalization, you're ready to don a red umbrella and help us fight the good fight! Oh, and if you're not quite ready for that, we will happily invite you to participate in the opportunity to very quietly show your support...you are more than welcome to contact me directly with regard to making a financial contribution to WeSWEAR...we cannot issue a tax receipt but we will provide you with a definitive, tangible way to put your money where your mouth is...so to speak...and very graciously say thank you for helping our cause :bowdown: A fight this big is very expensive and while SP might be the first two letters in the word SPeaker, believe me when I say the income level isn't even close...:razz: