Ashyguy -- Welcome and you have nothing whatsoever to apologize for! I'm getting in a bit late to the discussion here. This forum contains all sort of interesting discussions, but its difficult to argue that one of its primary purposes certainly has something to do with sharing information about escorts, right? (smile) I did a lot of research on here and on the other boards before contacting anyone, and I also made some contributions to the boards before asking a lot of questions to help gain a good reputation for being helpful.
The unique thing about cerb, as compared to other boards, is how wonderfully polite and helpful everyone is. And, you have been lucky enough to get some responses from the ladies as well. The usual advice, which is correct, is to do your research and then maybe ask some more pointed questions. However, your situation is a bit unique (given your v-card reference), so I do think that your question is perfectly appropriate. After all, there aren't probably a lot of references in the reviews to expertise in "v-card removal" (smile). And I dont doubt for a minute that should you have contacted some of cerb's ladies (like Annessa and Meg) directly that some would have responded. Where I disagree a bit is that ... given that you have very few posts and are new to the forum ... you may not have gotten as high of a response rate as you would hope. Soooo, I think a strategy of doing "all of the above" (research, starting this thread and some PMs) will get you to the result you are looking for.
Best wishes and good luck.