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A new book came out about a month ago called the Book of Awesome. It is the natural extension of a blogger's project to list 1000 awesome things... not stuff like the Sistine Chapel ceiling (which I must admit is awesome) or the Grand Canyon (also awesome.) He started the blog and book when things were going downhill in his life and needed to see simple things that made him smile. This list has stuff like "popping bubble wrap," "the cold side of the pillow," "the smell of air in a bakery." Simple stuff that makes you smile... sooooo... let's try this out.... Here goes: 1. The feel of twirling soft hair between my fingers 2. A seductive whisper 3. A kiss with a sweet aftertaste. 4. A unexpected smile from a stranger. 5. Something so funny it makes you pee (just a little bit) 6. A steak cooked to perfection. 7. A great hair day 8. The first time she says, "I love you." (that was sappy but how can you argue with it?) 9. An ice cold beer on a hot day 10. An obscure song that just takes you back to that perfect day. your turn!!!!

Enjoy the talent.

Whenever I meet with an SP/MP, whether it be for the first time or as a repeat appointment, I find it only courteous to commence with an interesting dialogue with the person. This breaks the ice, sets the mood and allows the two of us (or more!) to become a little better acquainted. I cannot simply step into a room, discretely deposit the gift and then disrobe to make out. Chatting, while engaging one's partner with eye contact and accompanied by light feathery caresses along the arms , legs or neck, is only a precursor of things to come. Conversation I find is a means of relaxing and starting to relate with your partner(s). It can be mundane, spicy, or sensually erotic with innuendos and double-entendres. We each experience life in totally different manners as compared to others. Having a dialogue allows a comparison of experiences, it sets at times a common ground for enjoyment and also helps to explain what it is we wish to experience during our time together. Mind reading is not yet an every day occurrence. We must talk!

I have done many over nights...i find it's not about how many times you can get off but more of the being able to relax,feel comfortable and taking things slow...falling asleep together,being able to cuddle and feel close to someone..that's been my experience..it's not always a marathon..lol

I always prefer to break the ice by chatting at the beginning of the rendezvous. I'm often kind of shy at first (even though I'm good at hiding it :)) so it gives me time to get comfortable with my partner. I also appreciate the fact that it feels more like a date when we get to know each other a little bit. But as much as I like that part of the rendezvous, I try to make sure it doesn't last too long because I want to be certain we will have plenty of time to get intimate and enjoy each other. We can always continue our conversation afterwards anyway!

that's gotta be worth at least 2 spots

I had the pleasure yesterday of meeting Mademoiselle Bordeaux. Her album on cerb does capture her hot spinner physique but makes her look somewhat hard. In person, she?s a real sweetie. Belle is also articulate, attentive and nuanced. I did feel a bit overwhelmed by her eye contact. I should live to see the day when a girlfriend ever looks at me like that. Our session started with a very friendly conversation. Although I admit being distracted by her high heels and stockings. Beneath her silk robe was lingerie that he looked so appealing, it seemed a shame for it to come off. I glad it did as I could have spent our whole session attending to her responsive nipples. Again, I was almost overwhelmed by the deepest cbj ever. On a repeat visit I'd definitely like to finish this way. She climbed on top and again brought me to the edge. I only kept it together by a need to get behind her. It?s hard to think how her tight butt could be any sexier. The location was safe and inviting. Fresh towels and a shower were provided. Belle made me think of the Love & Rockets song, appropriately titled ?So Alive?: Don't know what colour your eyes are, baby But your hair is long and brown Your legs are strong, and you're so, so long And you don't come from this town I look forward to seeing her again on my next trip to Ottawa. This can?t come too soon.

This may sound stupid to the casual reader, but those of us on CERB I'm sure will understand. I have always wanted to do something to help people, make a difference etc and when I got into sex work, I really felt like I had found my place. Most people won't understand that, because they don't understand that not everyone has regular access to sex. But I've always thought that everyone should be able to get laid regardless of ability, social skills, etc. Truthfully, if everyone was getting laid and we didn't have such strange taboos and stigmas surrounding sex, we'd all be much happier.

I can't wait to wake up in the morning and get myself peanut butter toast. I know I won't be getting sex but its the next best thing. LOL