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I have always found the fun of the overnighter to be in the lack of structure, unlike shorter dates where everyone is somewhat painfully aware of the plans and timeline. Most extended dates that I've been on don't end up following the initial plans and that is where I find most enjoyment. Over the course of the evening you may plan on going for dinner, theatre, etc. but then when you get together you'l find that time just seems to slip away from you and plans fall by the wayside as you get lost in all the little pleasures your date can offer. Waking up and seeing the sunlight shining on a bare leg stretched across your bed, seeing her in your dress shirt as she touches up her makeup (which you messed up a few min. before in your bed) just before you head out for a nice meal, seeing those beautiful blue eyes stare across the table at you knowing that in a few hours those same eyes will be looking down at you as you taste what is now hidden under her fitted black pencil skirt. At least for me that is what the extended date offers that others cannot, the tease, the mental attraction, the opportunity to relax and enjoy the real person, something that isn't always possible when you meet for only a couple of hours and something that can't be planned. It's spontaneous and fun, exploring the natural chemistry that is between you.

Tiger Woods and Jesse James have gotten a lot of tiresome press over their extra-marital indulgences. It looks like both will end-up in divorce court. That bites for everyone, but, does it have to be that way? Here's the rub, I accept that I have my wondering ways too. To deny my nature is, well, unrealistic. I've been giving some serious thought to having a regular, undercover relationship. A FWB or something close. I don't want to piss-off my SO and have to do something ridiculous like go to sex rehab (sorry Tiger). I know there are some who could offer helpful opinions on morality or openness and truthfulness. Believe me, I would understand those concepts. I'm just asking for some "what if" thinking here. Has anyone here been successful in having a LT affair? Is it worth trying? How would you start one? I'm addressing both sides of the table here - ladies, if you have experience, I would value your opinions.

A new book came out about a month ago called the Book of Awesome. It is the natural extension of a blogger's project to list 1000 awesome things... not stuff like the Sistine Chapel ceiling (which I must admit is awesome) or the Grand Canyon (also awesome.) He started the blog and book when things were going downhill in his life and needed to see simple things that made him smile. This list has stuff like "popping bubble wrap," "the cold side of the pillow," "the smell of air in a bakery." Simple stuff that makes you smile... sooooo... let's try this out.... Here goes: 1. The feel of twirling soft hair between my fingers 2. A seductive whisper 3. A kiss with a sweet aftertaste. 4. A unexpected smile from a stranger. 5. Something so funny it makes you pee (just a little bit) 6. A steak cooked to perfection. 7. A great hair day 8. The first time she says, "I love you." (that was sappy but how can you argue with it?) 9. An ice cold beer on a hot day 10. An obscure song that just takes you back to that perfect day. your turn!!!!

In response to Etasman's comment. You are correct the fee is well within the hourly rate , but you have to remember you are paying while someone sleeps. (I'm kind of use to having some employees do that so it doesn't bother me too much)

a friend of mine is a nurse and she refuses to go with an uncut man , according to her it doesnt matter what walk-of-life the guy may come from , far to many uncut men do not know how to clean themselves properly .

To me, it makes no difference. When the foreskin is pulled back, they all look the same (mostly!) anyway. Parents who decided to leave their sons' foreskin intact, apparently did them a favour. From the research I've found, those with their foreskin intact have more feelings and stronger sensations than those without their foreskin. For many though, I realize it's just a matter of aesthetics. I find I'm more concerned with a successful session than whether they have extra skin around their penis. Just me.