Maybe I'm overly sensitive, but I have to tell you that I do cringe when I see posts asking if members if someone has "used" a particular SP..
"Using" an SP seems to me to be contrary to the principles of CERB and it tends to objectify the ladies, a principle that all the members otherwise (pre)tend to disavow.
Personally, I don't believe in "using' anyone.
I would be interested in what the SPs in particular say about this.
If some gents want to save face, now's the time.