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Folks, Just had to share this experience with you good people on this site?..especially if you are having one of those days??..( i know a few who are.....) A little over a year ago, a good friend of mine became quite ill and was told he needed a kidney transplant?..and it was urgent that this be done??. Unfortunately, he had a difficult time finding a compatible donor, the search was onerous and fruitless?..and just when it seemed that his fate was sealed??a donor was found????. The other day, as I was ripping my hair out, annoyed that I didn?t get to fly the route I bid, annoyed that the damn lawn care guy didn?t weed my lawn properly, and that my son had ONCE again forgotten to take the garbage out?..the phone rang??.. It was my friend??he called to ask me, if I saw how absolutely wonderful the sun was this morning and how truly magnificent it looked as it rose into the sky??..a sight HE THOUGHT a few weeks ago HE MAY NEVER SEE AGAIN??..those comments stopped me dead in my tracks?? I am by no means a religious man, nor someone who is overly sensitive or very emotional??.but his words rang true in my ear??? Regardless of what MINOR stress I was dealing with that day, and God knows we all have stress?..it was NOTHING compared to what this guy went thru??yet he had the most positive outlook on life??.he was simply glad to be alive??.. So, while I am not discounting our daily stress and how difficult it may seem to us??look up in the sky, and all around you?? it sure is great to be alive ! Especially, with all the wonderful ladies we get to meet on CERB?? Enjoy your day??.

The problem with this is you can't paint all people the same. Firstly, I take GREAT offense that us under 25 are taken are less intelligent, less adept in good conversation (both of which are common themes).. or even less into or serious about our jobs... The fact that we're more likely to be pimped is not only the most stupid of things I've ever read, but a huge insult as well.. I know plenty of people over 40 who are absolute morons.. age has NOTHING to do with it... Secondly, frequently canceling meaning psychological distress?? How about people have lives?? I've had plenty of clients that had to cancel (some more than once), if I painted them all as nuts I wouldn't be seeing any clients. I'm not saying if she cancels all the time she's great.. but psychological distress?? Honestly? Lastly, I believe most of us do enjoy our jobs.. at least until we put up with stupid people, countless questions and have to constantly defend ourselves, our actions and our choices to others. If you want to make sure she is loving her job, how about not dissecting her life, smile and way she works and just treating her like a lady... show her a good time and enjoy yourself.. if she wasn't loving her job the moment before, she will when you make her job easy by being a good client and treating her with the respect she deserves. Sorry if this seemed rant like.. I just think it's really lame when I see "Oh and this one actually enjoys her work" .. We can't all love all our jobs all time now can we? It just seems so dehumanizing that we wouldn't be like everyone else..

Hi everyone, It took me a long time to even consider posting this but I think it must be brought to everyone?s attention. It may have been posted before but I think it needs to be brought up again if it already hasn?t. This is not a rant, just some friendly advice. I understand that work and personal life issues come up; they do for me, other SP?s and Hobbyist. For me as an SP?s and others hopefully agree it takes a lot of time with emails and booking appointments and it is greatly appreciated to notify an SP as soon as possible if you are unable to keep your appointment, usually an hour to two in advance even 24hrs is appreciated by some. This gives us the opportunity and the time to book another appointment. I know and understand that you may have to cancel closer to the appointment time because you never know what the day will bring. I have had to do so myself. The real big issue is ?no shows?, I find this very disrespectful to the SP who has taken the time to book the appointments and to get ready and prepare. It only takes a simple phone call, email or text instead of not just showing up. Not showing up does not inspire trust and I or another SP may never book another appointment with someone who is a ?no show?. I understand that you may be nervous or a first timer but to just not show up and have an SP waiting is truly inconsiderate. Just notify us ASAP. I never get upset and I am very understanding but a ?no show? is a no no.

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Try not to worry to much Selena, most all people will just disregard the other email addresses. If someone really had to hide who they are (Politicians), they should use an alternative email for hobbying. It looks like Googlemail is in your future, and some of ours aswell. Don't feel so bad, mistakes happen. I'm sure most, if not everyone is understanding. Best wishes, Accel Lebers idea to ask them to "discard the previous e-mail" is a good one.

As I do agree that recommendations are a fantastic resource for those who are starting out as a hobbyiest, looking for a specific type of escort or just curious about a lady, the hobbyiest should never feel pressured into writing a recommendation. I write them because I have enjoyed my time with the lady I have spent time with, and because they deserve positive feedback for others to see. I did have a lady once in Montreal, who at the end of my visit wanted me to write a recommendation on her. At that time I didn't write recommendations as I was new to Canada and didn't know if that was an appropriate thing to do or not. When I told her no and explained why I didn't write recommendations, she absolutely lost her marbles on me! What a way to ruin an otherwise wonderful time!!! Needless to say I did not see her again. I think if you have had a amazing time with a lady, she deserves to have you write something up on her, but don't feel pressured. Just my two pence!

MP i think you are using too broad a brush stroke in your analysis....and while some of your comments may have some validity, it comes down to the individual SP, and how she perceives herself and her situation...... It has very little to do with age, or being an independant vs agency, and so on... it all boils down to the level of maturity an SP has, how comfortable she is in her surroundings, why she is in her chosen profession and so on........a healthy mind and attitude of an SP determine how she views her situation and carries herself publicly and with her clients..... if you survey our ladies on CERB, you sill see a mixture of age, race, affiliation and so on.......the only thing they will have in common is their healthy attitude and desire to be in this hobby.......... All this shows up in spades when you visit an SP, who has a great head on her shoulders, is confident about herself and why she is in the business...... SNK

Eventhough I do agree about your statement, I do not agree with your list... Indies may do it also for drugs, a pimp, or in last resort... Those are reasons for agencies not to hire a girl... I know SPs that are 19-20 years old, with a true pornstar mentality, and some 30-35 that still say they would never do this for the rest of their life... SPs that are offering a GENUINE GFE are more sensitive regarding feelings and emotions, wich could be a desavantage... Being late means that we are not staying at our incall location (to be read trapped in) for the whole day. BODY LANGUAGE NEVER LIES... Well known agencies (I just hate what I'm about to write...) are very selective on their girls. They have a reputation to keep, such as well known SPs, so they will select somebody who is enjoying it... Their goal is to maintain a regular staff to have as much repeat as they can... First sign of SP burn-out (when she dos not enjoy) is an SP who start to party or drink... It happens once in a while... Not everyday... Regarding the age, I suggest you go more in what the girl offers, then how old she is... Is she able to maintain some sort of limit? Or to give you th service she told she were? Or was it just a trap to get you at her place? Be careful about the GFE thing... Sometimes, girls are not able to deal with others personnal life... I know, it has happened to me... I took a 4 month vacations to be able to get rid of my clients problems... And yes, it happens that I'm late... If I have to go to the bank, there might be a huge line up, or I can get caught in traffic just as you. I don't spend my whole life at my incall... It's easy to have judgements. Lot of us are offering our time to go to the coffee shop, or have dinner, for a rate that is lower then usual, just for you to get to know us... I think if you really want the true one, you should PM some ladies in here that would be more then happy to join you for a coffee!!!