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I normally do not make comments like I am about to, but this statement makes me very, very unhappy. If you had a great relationship with your father, that is wonderful, and I do agree that loving relationships are essential to personal well-being. However, Saying women who are loved by their dad are much nicer is such a broad statement and feels like a slap in the face to women, like me, who did NOT have such a relationship. I'm quite happy in the fact that I don't have a father - but by your statement, this means I'm not as nice as someone who did? Give me a break. I will assume your sentiment in this statement is again, 'loving relationships make nicer people', which is how I live my life. The loving relationships i've developed with my friends, my animals, my lovers, are all what make me the nice person I am - father not included! Now back to the original topic please...

Chanel! I agree with you! Confidence comes from many places one of them it is been loved by our parents and families but mostly from going to school and doing my home work I am refering to the fact that after i went to the all Women's college at Concordia University in Montreal. I became more confident about public speaking, or stand out for myself. I dont have difficult entertaning a converssation with anyone. Women who have been loved by their dad, are much much nicer and if you have been loved by both even better! Unfortunately most fathers have been emotionally abscent, in fact too many!

Hello Everyone, Just getting caught up on things here on cerb after being out West for awhile. Lots of interesting discussion, as always. The news from Tess, however, really caught my attention and apparently those of many many others, with well over a thousand having viewed her announcement about enrolling in rehab. A courageous and bold move, not unlike the persona she has built here on cerb. No sooner had I viewed her threads when, just like that, I received a request from her wanting me to visit. I was flabbergasted and flattered -- of course, I said, "Yes." I just returned from visiting "Tess" where she is undergoing rehab. She is very aware, and grateful, that the cerb community has her back, and asked that I post an update about her as I see fit. Tess is safe, but she is struggling. She is tired. Since enrolling, everyday has presented her a new challenge. She has had not good and really not good days. I reminded her that it is early days still, that this awful addiction has an 8-year head start on her. However, Tess spoke to me in a manner so that there can be no mistaking; she is very determined to beat this thing, to learn as many of the coping and other life skills she will need in order to deal with her demons once her time in formalized rehab ends just over two weeks time. Many of us have read about her courage. This afternoon, I was given the privilege of seeing it, up close, and it is no act, our Tess is for real. So, let's all let her know (again) we're still here, and that we've still got her back.

I've also wondered about these destinations. There must be a better way to ensure the SP's are first class....hmmmmmm.....I've got it...let's pool our resources lads, rent a large house overlooking the ocean in some far off tropical paradise.....and invite the ladies from Cerb to join us( all expenses paid of course...including their time). Just imagine the fun....beach volleyball, sing a longs around the beach campfire, fun in the pool and hotub, Canasta, lawn darts, treasure hunts.... As for cooking and drinks...we can all take turns making our favorite dishes/cocktails for the whole group. and....we will have the most beautiful , classy, passionate, sexy ladies in the whole world with us....

I highly doubt anyone here would let a customer see the SP ONLY Area - if they did they are just risking every other ladies safety and the lady would loose her account if the other ladies ever found out who did this. Anyone who is paranoid about what the ladies write in the bad date logs probably has a REASON to be concerned. Probably someone the ladies will want to stay away from as well. Trying to convince people that the lists are not accurate is silly and trying to discredit such a list only makes the person doing the convincing look suspicious! It would come back to haunt the ladies if they started posting stuff that was not true. When someone posts something about a guy and other ladies have had positive experiences with the same guy they discuss it and the ladies make sure to mention that they had a good experience with the same person and defend him (This RARELY HAPPENS but has happened a few times over the years but usually when someone post something BAD the other ladies comment saying they too had the same problem and reinforce the listing to warn others to stay clear of him). The ladies know that if someone posted false info that the other ladies would jump in and voice an opinion (and probably raise a fuss as it would be easy to spot someone trying to post fake data). To this date I have not had anyone tell me that any of the ladies have posted bad info... the ladies look out for one another and they know that in order to protect each others safety they must check any differences they have at the door and work together to keep each other as safe as they can. If someone is on that list 99% of the time they did something to deserve it and 1% of the time maybe they had an off day (no show or something they could not avoid) and even then they should have called - even a trip to the washroom to send a quick sorry message (If they did not even attempt to cancel the date they do deserve the mention in the list) ... and the guys need to know that these lists exist and if they are not gentleman and respectful they will also be added to the lists to warn others.

Hi everyone, First thank you for reading my thread! It's long and more of a rant, but I just wanted to share and see what kind of response I got I'm just wondering, and would like feedback on this topic. It's a situation I've been having lately, specially with 21 years old. Not that they are the only ones but they seem to be the most common. They start their conversations with: "Hi I'm 21 years old, good looking, how about you cut me a deal and I treat you like a lady, you might like it!" When you give them your rate, they keep taking your time asking personal questions, then they say they don't want to book they want to be friends, get to know you and see where it goes from there. When you explain to them that you post because you want to make money, and this is your work. You are not friends, but clients, either don't believe you or ignore it and they keep persisting. I'm just curious if, and I'm sure the answer will be yes, other SPs get this type of client and if they do, what do they say to get them to either book or rid of them? I've used a lot of different techniques and none seem to work. I've even told 1 guy who said:(note: this conversation happened after he told me he was shy and needed to talk to SPs 1st before booking) "I would like to get to be your friend, go out for drinks nothing sexual, just friends and see if we click" I replied: "Great you want to be my friend, then I will meet you for drink but, I will be accompanied by my fiancee is that OK?" (I figured that would get him to give up) He replies: "why would he come?" ME: "Well see, we have an agreement, when we go out with friends we always go out together. Most times that is the only time we spend together, therefore if you want to be my friend then I guess you have to live with him being around!" I then get the obvious response: "Well I was hoping to be friends and see where it goes from there!" Note for all you hobbyist reading this: (And I'm sure most of you probably know this, so please do not think that I am being condescending to you. I'm just ranting and hoping that this will help people who don't look at life this way, to have at least a different perspective) In my humble opinion, if you see someone posting on any erotic board or boards dedicated to SPs odds are we are not looking for dates. Most of us already have relationships outside of our work. Please do not waste our time by trying to entertain a relationship right from the start. (If you are looking for a relationship, there are tons of dating sites full of women waiting to chat and do the dating thing!) Book our time, spend some time with us (for a fee), then you never know we may just like you and want a relationship! :razz: And for those of you who have this theory "I would never pay for sex!" Ask yourself this: Have you ever picked up a girl at a bar and bought her drinks, supper, movie, clothes, jewelry, etc... slept with her but didn't have a relationship her? If your answer is YES then you've paid for sex.It's not because she was in a bar that you didn't exchange something for the sex you got. This said, the only difference between that girl in the bar and an SP is; you don't have to spend 4 hours trying to pick us up by making an impression all you need to do is call and show up. With her you're not even guaranteed to get any action, no matter the amount of drinks you buy her. With us you are, if you pay of course. So if you want a relationship, pay our time instead of drinks, use the time to flirt and try and gain our attention you never know it just might work! See . Different setting.same result!

I think it's a matter that on CERB scam artists and the like are immediately discovered and removed, weeding out the bad apples. CERB probably has a reputation as the last place that people looking to rob and cheat would want to try. I'd also hazard a guess that a community is the last place most of the hobbyiests who use CL would want to go. I agree with Mister C, CL just isn't trustworthy (no disprespect to the CERB ladies who also use it).

You know what Amanda! you are right, we don't speak the same language. By the way,I'm not your sweety,thanks:rolleyes: Amelia had asked you earlier to "stop hijacking threads in order to berate clients" I will quote you again, and you state "The ladies in the industry are not interested in having sexual fun" (it is right below quote 2). All I know, is that the ladies that I spend time with, are very interested in sexual fun. Could you stop making comments that generalize other people, and move on to the topic at hand which was,:confused::confused: oh ya, Breasts. Now in your opening thread you already stated (quote 1) the below quote.....so can we move on! Im so happy about this thread! 1) In my female body! Breasts are a wonderful source of pleasure, but only if you care to find out how i would like you to touch mine. If you grab it hurts, please dont! If you jump into suking my nipple it hurts like hell dont do that either. Just ask the lady, how would you like me to eroticise your body? We usually want to have a good time with you. At least i do! Been an attentive caring lover can lead us to have multiple orgasms with you! Whereas been rough with our delicate parts leads us to think of you as repulsive and annoying. Thank you for this thread awesome idea! 2)Angela i respect your constructive criticism thus thank you for taking the time to teach me. Although i dont understand why is it wrong to say. I dislike mechanic sex under the cathegory of 'service', i wish someone would explain it. I hear clients tell me very often ''the ladies in the industry are not interested in having sexual fun''. But if if i have a chance i would why not? I think sex it is luxury and luxuries should be enjoyed! But for sure when i notice that a gentleman does not have my best erotic interest in mind i just make sure to give him the service for i understand that he is not in love with me thus he does not have the obligation to please me. And like you said I am getting paid! But i wish erotic sensual generosity was also in their agenda, in Brazil we love to party and have fun!

Gotta be careful... these were the girls at my last place....