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Disclaimer: I realize that the majority of you are paying for a sexual service and that your needs should be met within the boundaries of the escort in question. That is the service I am providing. However, that being said, I would like to call attention to what I like to refer to as "jack-hammering." This is basically extended penetrative sex and nothing else. You may be convinced that good sex requires only penetration and stamina--as well all know, women want a man who can last (I hope you can sense the sarcasm there), or perhaps it is purely selfish on your part, you do want to get your money's worth after all. So you pound your paid sex partner, over and over, squeezing in every possible available second. In which case, I am not a blow-up doll. I am not an object solely for your use. Keep in mind, I do not think it is a problem, for example, if you would like to simply pay to receive a blowjob, provided you realize the skill and time involved in administering a good blowjob. And I do not think penetrative sex itself is bad. But if you are interested in engaging in a full range of sexual behaviour, please realize that "sex" does not simply equal penetration for as long as humanly possible. After awhile it is painful, un-stimulating and rather boring. If a woman is not turned on, she doesn't create those delicious lubricating fluids that can make penetrative sex so wonderful. So take the time to pay attention to things like kissing and groping and licking and nibbling and so on. If the first thing you're going for is penetration, you have skipped so many amazing, naughty fun things to do to one another. While we are providing a very intimate service, aimed at generating your pleasure and satisfaction, we have emotions, and physical limits. So keep that in mind the next time you're with your favourite lady. Happy pooning!

I've been reflecting what I've learned being in the sex industry for 3 years now. I thought it would be interesting to share my insight, and encourage others to do the same, both from the provider and hobbiest point of views. -Men do not expect women to be perfect like an airbrushed magazine model. Men love real women. -Despite what the media tells us, men do are not looking for stick-thin women with huge breasts. Men, as a whole, love larger women and love women with small breasts. -Touch is a basic human need, almost as basic as the need to eat and breathe. -It's not true that all men just want to fuck and then leave/fall asleep. Men also love to cuddle, converse, and be intimate. -Confidence is sexy!

I am so happy beautiful Berlin is discussing this issue! I wish some of you knew this: The female body it is made for multiple orgasmic experiences thus if you care to make us come and have an eletric session with you. All you have to do is ask us: How do you prefer? Where and how can i pleasure your body, breasts, thights? How can i perform date on you, to arouse you? We are in the age of the Godess, thus most sexually confident female knows what she likes and dislikes in bed. Some of you even get mad at me when i try to give you tips on my sexual likes and dislikes. And some of you are all about been generous and sensual according to my personal sexual preferences in order to make the best of our encounter and the result it is hot sex mmmmmmmmmmmmmm! Some guy even told me it is "natural to penetrate a lady hard". I would say the word natural it is a dangerous word to use in sexuality and aesthetics. It is natural to allow gas to flow freely, should i fart on your face during sex because it is natural? No right? I prefer gentle and slow sex, but once i am more warm up i will ask for more action. I think desire and lust should lead in bed, not the strength of your male hips. I would prefer that you touch my arms, my legs and my back and my waist and my back before you touch any sexual part of my body, and please be gentle and please warm up your hands before touching us. The beauty is: Some of you already aim to please, but you are rare and you know who you are;). When you penetrate us hard without any care to increase our pleasure we just want to make you come asap, because it hurts.

What a great topic Berlin, I believe one of the misconceptions about how a woman wants to be pleased by a man comes from some of the porn industry. I think most lads have seen those films where the guy pounds as hard and long as he can on a sex Goddess for 30 to 60 minutes or more( and maybe that's a reality for some men and women) but I'm assuming there is a great deal of editing or the guy has used some type of injection to numb his johnson. ....convincing myself this is fact is what makes me feel better as a strong breeze on my trouser trout will make me cum in a nano second...:razz:..anyway....as far back as I can remember, I've always made pleasing a woman my number one priority. I may not have always succeeded, and definitely made some stupid errors in judgment after getting too over confident that I had found the magic key to sexually satisfying every female on the planet, but I have learned that asking what turns her on, can never be a bad thing. I've also learned that a woman's "sexual regions".....( sorry for the goofy description)... are not the only part of her body that gives her sexual pleasure....a few of my favorite places to concentrate on are the back of her neck, her hands and forearms, her inner thighs, gently kissing and nibbling on her neck and ears.....umm...I'll be right back:jackoff:....sorry....just thinking of being with a woman is always too much for me...the best part of being a man, is making love to a woman...or two...or three...or.....Women are the most beautiful creation on this planet and should be adored and cherished by men....a tad melodramatic perhaps...but that's the passion in my heart and is exactly how I feel. The guys that do the "slam bam" thing just to satisfy the urge to release are missing 99% of what sexual pleasure is all about( in my opinion). Taking your time to show the lady that you are willing to open your heart and show true appreciation of her beauty, will potentially take her to a level of excitement that will only go to enhance the entire experience. anyway....thanks for letting me add my two cents....and thank you Berlin for bringing up this topic. I always enjoy reading your posts....and looking at your amazing beauty...;-)

What I've learned; - ladies in this business and at this level truly have great insights and are very creative and articulate. - its hard to keep the business angle of this in perspective and not get too friendly/attached. I need to remind myself that although these beautiful women (in many ways) can draw me in and I have a huge attraction - I am for the most part, just a client. - how much I love the smell, taste, and touch of a woman. The skin is a pretty sensitive organ. - not all cities are alike in what they offer. - a ladies class and confidence is what really brings me to my knees. WC

Fair enough then!

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The Secret in Their Eyes (El Secreto de sus Ojos). I had never heard of this movie but took a chance on renting it last week and didn't have any real expectations. A group of us watched it together and when it was over we were all quiet for a moment and then everyone starts saying "Now that's a good movie!" On the surface it's a standard police procedural involving a murder investigation spread over 25 years. It's also got corruption and incompetence in the justice system. But, it's actually about unrequited love, passion, committment and living a full or empty life. There are some plot twists that you'll never, ever see coming. Some times when this is done, the movie involves leaps in logic and the characters do things that don't make sense. In a bad movie you figure this out while you're watching it. In a better movie you see the holes when you think critically about it afterwards. In this movie, everything makes sense while you're watching it and it makes even more sense when you think about it afterwards. This is a spanish language film with subtitles, so if you don't like subtitles or foreign movies, this is definitely not for you. It's set in Buenos Aires Argentina during the seventies so that gives it a different look and feel as well as logic for judicial incompetence than the thousands of crime movies set in New York or LA. It won the Oscar for Best Foreign Language film last year. If you were happy that The Hurt Locker won for Best Picture instead of Avatar, this is a movie for you. http://rogerebert.suntimes.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20100421/REVIEWS/100429994 I loved Memento too. A number of years ago I had a head injury and like the character in the movie I lost my short term memory for a lengthy period. Also like the character, I started taking notes so that I could remember things... unfortunately unlike the Memento character I could never remember what my notes meant when I read them!

^^ well said mod. many members will back-talk a lady if she takes risks towards her sexual health...the fact that you are turned off because an SP is being safe god-damn floors me. Every woman has her own health-safety measures...be it holding a condom etc etc.....if it turns you off then not only do you not respect her health, but dont care about your own if condom safety is a deal-breaker for you. also if you are trying to call out a lady on here for what you stated, you are only doing her a favor as calling her out as being one who practices safe sessions...and making yourself look like an risk-taker and flat out idiot for not appreciating that. jeezus.....