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This reply may sound somewhat familiar to you Angel;) but I think anxiety and nerves go hand in hand with seeing a lady regardless if you have seen her before or not. I believe that when you respect someone both as a person and an SP, and yes there are those who find these titles to be mutually exclusive, then nerves will definetely come into play. Seeing someone as we do generates a lot of passion and sometimes feelings and I think if you see someone regularly then of course anxiety will develop out the respect you have for the other person. I have found that seeing a lady for the first time is a lot like having a first date, dealing with nerves, what to say/not to say, when to say it, etc. After a certain amount of time the dialogue looks after itself but the nerves, anxiety, or whatever name you choose to give it still lingers due in no small part to the respect and inevitable feelings that develop over time. If I were to ever stop being nervous or anxious when I knocked on a ladies door then it would be time for me to stop seeing that lady, because at that moment I would have lost a connection with her and she would no longer be a person...only a means to a physical end! So I hope and pray that every time I approach a ladies door my heart is pounding, my mind is racing and my thoughts occupied by the words "stay calm, cool and collected you have done this before." If not then...well...time to find another hobby. As far as wondering if the lady I am seeing is feeling the same way...well of course I wonder and of course I hope. But since I do realize that this is, for lack of a better term, a business I never hope too much. After all one should never mix business with pleasure. So yes I get nervous. I still get anxious and I still get bothered when "chemistry" is not reached. Mostly I want to be a respectful, kind, caring and good date for all the ladies I meet and I am always concerned about coming up short...so yes I get nervous.

My only concern in terms of advertising is how the provider in question is presented. I feel that some of the agencies advertise their providers in a way that is detrimental to the provider and may attract a type of clientele she doesn't want.

Sweet Madison is a sub and subs should not be categorized as liking it rough. Your role is to ensure the sub is treated with respect and you must earn her trust. After all its not all about you its about understanding that to please a sub is to allow her to please you not to be subject her to something she does not want. Well That's my Rant. Cheers and good luck