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This morning I realized something I already knew but as many things in life, we appreciate them but tend to forget. I know it has been discussed here how us service or massage providers sometimes have to deal with certain difficult issues when having to meet a person we know very little about and get intimate with him : lack of respect or hygiene, overstaying, etc . But hey! What about the truly gentlemen we get to meet? Those who show up on time, follow our requests, in other words, treat us with respect. I as many ladies here don't ask/expect any gifts from my guests however they often surprise us with a bottle of wine, chocolates, gift certificates, etc . Which of course are very much appreciated. And what about when they go out of their way to do something nice for us? Yes, it happens. Just yesterday this great guy fixed my door lock for me (something I had a hard time with for months). If could I would write a recommendation on those gentlemen I probably would but since that is not possible here which makes complete sense since they would be receiving PM's like crazy lol. I really want to thank them, even the ones I have not had the pleasure to meet on behalf of all the other ladies here :) xx Isabella Gia

I know that we've talked about this in different ways, in various discussions over time. Something that mrrnice2 said in the Legal thread about prostitution laws prompted me to bring this up again, directly. The general stereotype is that a woman becomes a prostitute, or paid companion, or escort--whatever one calls it--because she's drug-addicted, trying to scam the welfare system, involved in other criminal activities or simply underhanded, immoral or irresponsible. While the 8-15% of women in the sex trade who work outdoors generally have multiple problems, frequently including addictions, the great majority of us are no more likely to be addicts or alcoholics than anyone else in the population. So, why did we take up this profession? I'm not looking for detailed stories or for anyone to compromise her privacy. I just thought it might be helpful for us to say something if we feel we can. Me, first: I ended an abusive marriage and had two children to raise. My ex has litigated every aspect of our divorce and the children's custody and support for a decade. I had no way to support my sons adequately on my own and the legal costs I have been forced to incur have been devastating. With no family or friends who could help me, becoming a paid companion has been the only way I have been able to keep our heads above water for a long time. My children are doing well and so am I. I'm not a victim; I'm a survivor.

My parents are both dead and no one in my family knows what I do. I have another line of work that requires meeting with clients and that's a good cover for paid companionship. I'm not ashamed of what I do, but I don't want it to be an issue for my children. As for greeting clients in public, I never do it and I try to remember to tell everyone who sees me that I won't greet or acknowledge them in public. Their privacy is important and so is mine. If a client were to break the rule without my agreement, he'd get moved to the "former client" list immediately!

I mean, what's the point? In this industry, we have to be cormfortable with who we are and what we are... Sometimes, there is no harm... A little tan here, a different lightning to accentuate the body accents, but when it comes to total photoshop, I totally disagree. To be what I am, I train, do my nails, my hair (once in a while), spend money on myself instead of picture retouch. I feel it's very important to show exactly what we look like when it comes to intimacy. Some pix are so modified, they look like a different person completly! Is it'nt kind of misreprensentation? I have a 30 years old woman body, with everything it implies, and I'm proud to be who I am. Guys, how do you feel about it? And you girls?

I might not be able to do Julia justice but I thought I would atleast throw in my 2 cents. I have had so many wonderful experiences that I am contemplating writing a book. Anyhow, I will start with my most recent memory and will perhaps go back in time at a another time. My most recent encounter was one that made me all warm and fuzzy. I am, by nature, a talkative person and I found a kindred spirit who not only enjoyed hearing what I had to say but also shared a bit about himself. Over a glass of wine we chatted away and got to know each other enough to feel quite comfortable. We soon gave ourselves over to the passion that had been building and shared some soft, erotic kisses which led to the removal of our pesky clothing. He worshipped every inch of me and made my skin tingle. After, we snuggled and talked even more! Next thing I knew, it was way past the time for him to leave but I could have stayed there all day! Thank you :) Inspiration shall hit again and I will gladly let you all in on another wonderful encounter!

I'm actually surprised that some guys think it's cool to walk up to a lady in public and carry on or arrange dates like that. Indiscreet much? Would they like it if a lady came running up to them at the coffee shop in front of their friends and family on their time and begin carrying on like that? I have actually bumped into a few ladies out and about but managed to be discreet.

I chose to get into this business after years of working high-paying, professional jobs (including the government), that made me hate my life every day. I was drowning in debts from university, and any time I'd finally make leeway on them, I'd snap from months of hating my job and rack them back up with a vacation or a shopping spree. So finally i left. I walked out on a cushy government job. And then i started thinking, for the umpteenth time over the years, about getting into porn. I'd been thinking about that for almost ten years. So I started applying, thinking I'd hear nothing back, because I'm too old/chubby/etc. But I got a good response. Then I started to look at the money involved and permanency of it, and thought about escorting instead. And I've never looked back. I work for myself. I handle my own life/finances. And I've started to travel the world. I won't do this forever, I know that, but for now, it's the best thing I could think of doing. Some people look at us like we're trash or ruining our lives - choosing to do this has finally let me live the life I've always wanted. And I get to have hot sex all the time. Fuck yes!

Gentlemen, Was in to the fax last night with a few buddies. Had a great evening with Honey, she spent lots of time with us chatting and entertaining with wonderful CR dances. She is a wonderful lady, and I fully suggest if you are in the FAX sometime, take her for a dance, you won't be disappointed. The only low point to the evening, a new girl from Montreal, who has a real challenge trying to count. Apparently 3 is the new 5! On top of that after 3 songs she says, that was 5 songs plus my $20 tip! After some discussion, we agreed I would pay for 4 songs and no tip. Anyways gents, I guess this is a reminder, always count the songs and after each couple of songs make sure you and the lady agree on the count.

Hmm yes indeed,sorry to hear of your pligjt, it is best to avoid the SC ladies plus who needs the drama. Stick to Cerb ladies and a long term agency often on Cerb. The recommendations on 9erb are a great source of info and insight. Posted via Mobile Device