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Reprinted from my diary I received an email recently from someone accusing me of being misogynistic and that i had a hate on for prostitutes ? WTF I thought to my self! What an odd perspective, clearly this person has no clue of what they speak. If they knew anything about me they'd know that I'm a frequent hobbiest and provide support to many independents in more ways than just financial. I suspect the letter came from an agency or pimp or indy that has made their way to the pages of the diary. My agenda is clear and simple. Honesty is king, if you follow standard honest business practices then you will never find yourself in the pages of my diary. However, if you choose to use bait and switch tactics, put customers into dangerous situations, harm or threaten to harm a customer, steal from a customer, provide poor unacceptable service or bad customer service then yes, you will be featured in the diary. So the next question is why, why do I bother ? Well by exposing the fakes and frauds it kind of levels off the playing field for the honest agencies and independents. If I can filter out the bad guys for the newbies or the unsuspecting then they can focus their attention on the proven quality and customer driven providers in town. Often clients who find themselves victims of a bait and switch situation do nothing about it. Usually fear of violence, blackmail etc prevent the victims of bait and switch from doing anything, they may go through with the service, which is usually sub par and no where near what was agreed, or give the money and leave. Rarely will they leave without paying the fee, which just paves the way for the fraud to be committed again, if they get away with it once then there's nothing stopping them from doing it again, and so they do. I don't publish private information, I don't print full phone numbers that can be easily searched, I don't jeopardize anyone's safety, I don't print lies. Just the facts. The fact is that if you are an agency, a pimp or and "indy" and you use fake photos to lure customers to mislead, ripped off or robbed, then I will print the information you used to lure these victims , to warn them of the deceit that follows. I will prove that the photos are fake and will continue to track your movement as you continue to practice your deceptive ways. I realize not everyone is going to like me , some have even accused me of being a "creeper" stalking girls on the internet , again WTF ? I see bad, I warn others to avoid or be cautious, how that qualifies me as a creeper is beyond me. Do I profit from the site, yes to cover the costs of operating the site and for hard costs. Donations are always welcome and many readers have donated, some do it often some for just a few bucks, others for considerable amounts. To them I say thank you, these readers appreciate the service I provide and I appreciate the acknowledgment. The fact is I donate a good percentage to charities that are important to me. I didn't start the site to make a profit. Yes there are advertisers on my site as well, again proceeds from advertising go towards covering operating costs. When I introduced advertising some said that would impact my credibility and that by advertising on my site advertisers would be "protected" from being outed or exposed. Not True, if any advertisers, indy or agency that advertise on my site were to practice bait and switch photos bait and switch service or put a customer in harms way I would not hesitate to report on them. To the credit of current and past advertisers that situation has never occurred which speaks volumes to their credibility and the type of business they run. To the original letter writer, there is your reply for you and all to see. Take it or leave it. It is what it is...

I think that cerb is more than just a recommendation board where people come to look at pretty ladies, read reviews, exchange information. It has grown to become a loving and caring community where we share much more than above. It is a community where we share our happiness and pleasures as well as our sadness and pains and our thoughts and views on various subjects. We are like a family (at least that is how I would like to look at it) and just like a family when one member is happy we all are happy for that member and when one is in pain, we all feel the pain. My 2 cents.

Compassion, solidarity and support are not only meant to be for those we have feelings for or have met in person. There's no rules about who one cares for, that is based on one's personality. As for what you are 'allowed' to ask an SP during an encounter that depends on many factors like chemistry, things in common, etc. she may actually share some personal things with you or/and vice versa. If you are the kind that wants conversation as part of the date then the key is to communicate with the ladies you are interested in visiting beforehand and get a sense on what you can expect. Finally, 'we' are not expected to care about anything and is not a request here. Everyone is free to participate in the forum as much or little as they want. We expect respect to whatever of those 2 people choose to do that's all.

HEYA, JUST PASSING BY AND EXERCISING MY FREEDOM OF SPEECH HERE ON CERB, WHERE, WE CAN DO THIS! here is some useless personal information My crotch itches and therefore I am itching it My breath tastes and surely reeks of creamy garlic dip Today I split my pants I'm thirsty My nails are painted pink and have silver stars on them My legs have 3 day stubble I have 7 tattoos I sew, paint and write I have stretchmarks I am not wearing any pants Okay, who farted??? I see a psychiatrist or does the psychiatrist see me?(remember to ask) Addicted to facebook and update like twitter Happily Married to a client and Married another for an hour once I LOVE my kitty What do I think? I don't have to, I'm Catholic lol jk I am the friendliest person many have met I still owe $7200 on my student loan I wear animal fur blablabla if you have gotten this far.. XXX my apologies I forgot to mention my shoe size,religion and medical history. Gee, I nominate myself for valued member award; just look at all these values :)

Thank you so much for posting this information. Like WrinkledInTime said, this isn't an election issue and it's therefore important we seek this information ourselves. I take issue with the idea that sex workers are citizens and therefore deserving of rights, but that these rights need to be 'balanced' with "the communities where prostitution happens". The public has often heard of prostitution 'sweeps' - as if sex workers are somehow 'dirty' and/or 'unclean'. This places blame on sex workers for urban decay when, in actuality, if the government subsidized areas (so rent was affordable), took care of parks, and invested more money into public property then urban 'uncleanliness' wouldn't be a problem! This issue is entirely related to real-estate costs, and making a buck on the backs of those who are disenfranchised and marginalized in society. Also, who is the 'deserving' sex worker of rights? What's his/her race, age, nationality, citizenship? Is the deserving sex worker a private one, who works indoors and therefore isn't seen? How much of this has to do with quasi-public sex, and general angst over public sex. Oh yes, the children! Of course, the children... Why do people always bring up the children? "But what about the children" they say "It will damage the children to expose them to 'sex'" another will chime in Sounds like a bit of a moral panic to me. In order to see quasi-public sex one needs to be looking for it. I agree with the leaders who mention there needs to be a debate. Hopefully it will be a nuanced and informed one...but somehow...I doubt it.

To begin; As to your response in regards to the definition of family it would be prudent to read & quote the ENTIRE definition of said reference prior to posting an opinion. Since you have negated to do so I shall fill in the missing info: FAMILY: a. A fundamental social group in society typically consisting of one or two parents and their children. b. Two or more people who share goals and values, have long-term commitments to one another, and reside usually in the same dwelling place. 2. All the members of a household under one roof. 3. A group of persons sharing common ancestry. See Usage Note at collective noun. 4. Lineage, especially distinguished lineage. 5. A locally independent organized crime unit, as of the Cosa Nostra. 6. a. A group of like things; a class. b. A group of individuals derived from a common stock: the family of human beings. 7. Biology A taxonomic category of related organisms ranking below an order and above a genus. A family usually consists of several genera. See Table at taxonomy. 8. Linguistics A group of languages descended from the same parent language, such as the Indo-European language family. 9. Mathematics A set of functions or surfaces that can be generated by varying the parameters of a general equation. 10. Chemistry A group of elements with similar chemical properties. DETAILS MATTER! Clearly this was the intention of SecretAdmirers post. NEXT POINT Definition of GENERAL1 : involving, applicable to, or affecting the whole 2 : involving, relating to, or applicable to every member of a class, kind, or group <the general equation of a straight line> 3 : not confined by specialization or careful limitation 4 : belonging to the common nature of a group of like individuals : generic 5 a : applicable to or characteristic of the majority of individuals involved : prevalent b : concerned or dealing with universal rather than particular aspects If you do not want to encounter random vitriol in the form of many subjects simply avoid the General section & peruse only the specific forums pertaining to your personal areas of interest. Otherwise you get the whole ball of wax. FINAL THOUGHT I agree that they are few & far between & I for one welcome the respectful, caring, concerned aspect of this board. I have never felt more safe & secure in my role as an SP than as a member of CERB & I see great value in the allowing of ANY thought, feeling, fear, concern or rant from every person here. Whether I agree with it or not. Love & respect to you all,Sandi

You can't have your cake and eat it too. If you want free speech, then you can't be worrying why MOD hasn't ended the thread. It was not my intention to "bash" those posting personal stories, though it came out that way. And again, because it was lost in the rant, I said that folks should think about what they're posting and where they are posting it. There are a number of groups devoted to special topics. I posted whilst cranky, and realize, yes, many of you are right, I don't have to read the threads. I was frustrated because as of late, I've come on CERB and read the titles of posts and gone, "ugh, really?" If it has gotten to the point where I don't want to read half of what is being posted, there is something wrong! I love this site, I've posted over two thousand times. I don't keep coming back here everyday because I have nothing better to do, I come back because I like reading the threads. BUT NOT LATELY. That's all I'm saying. I guess I'm what I'm asking is for some lighter, happier posts! And again, I'm not saying don't reach out if you're having a rough go of it, I just don't know if the public forums are necessarily the best place.

here I was out of touch for a few days and this thread blows me away..... I am speechless.......stunned... I debated saying anything.......and yet there is so much to say...... But I read every post.....and I usually read every thread.....and if I do not like it I move on..... reading a thread about not liking to read threads is...well..just a little odd.....but I still read it.... why? because it gives me incite to peoples thought patterns and personalities.....some I like..some I don't like.....and by getting to know some people I decide if we are at all compatible for friends or an intimate encounter........or to just not get involved with. so I decide what to read and what not to read......and if I am upset....so what..it is only a forum.......

Wow. Brutal thread. Not something I expected to see here. I think if we did a thread count, the personal stuff would be a teeny tiny minority of the things discussed here. There's still plenty of money-for-sex talk for those who want it. But if that was ALL that I found here, I wouldn't stick around very long - I guess I'd just pay brief visits whenever my blood was up. I don't come here primarily to read about other members' personal lives, but I'm happy when I see that some people are comfortable enough to post something about themselves they're feeling strongly about at the moment. The place *is* a community. There's lots of room for everyone, and people who don't appreciate talk outside certain narrow boundaries are free to skip the threads they don't like. And to me, the modest number of personal discussions here serve a valuable function: they humanize both clients and SPs, proving you can sell sex and pay for sex yet still be a thinking, feeling, sometimes intelligent person with a wealth of other interests. And as fellow human beings, some other clients and SPs might actually be interested in hearing what you have to say, and helping out a bit, even if it's not about our dicks and "titties". In that respect, part of those threads' value is *precisely* that they're on an escort recommendation board. I wouldn't want those discussions to dominate the board, but in their current proportion I find them not just tolerable, they actually make the place more human.

Berlin I respect your point of view but was it necessary to be so harsh? I know some here don't care for the community feeling and just visit the site for specific purposes and that is fine. Nobody is obligated to read these personal threads and nobody is forbidden from posting more sexual oriented threads. So in my opinion those who are not interested in reading personal stuff can move on to the next thread after reading the title or the first couple of lines. Those who are only here to contact ladies have the option to click on the announcement section and skip the rest, that's why the site is divided by sections, to make this easier. I have read posts from most active members (ladies & gents) that involve personal issues or experiences so I'm surprised to see a complaint from ladies about this. We don't have a particular group for let's say jokes and nobody has complaint for seeing them in the main index. I don't really care a lot about them (no offense to the posters) but I just skip them same way any thread can be skipped by those not interested. I agree with Secret Admirer we should be more supportive to each other as one day it may be you who will need from the rest (I'm not saying you in particular.) I mean one can be on the other side any minute and yes some ladies have SP access but not all and the guys don't have a private area and yes there's the groups but again the general section is to bring up any kind of topics. As far as I know there's no rule that says otherwise.

After admiring Sinn on CL for the last few weeks I finally made time to go see her. I had to get my hands on those magnificent looking breasts....and they are. I am a spinner addict and Sinn is not a spinner which I could tell from her pictures. I meet her at an up scale hotel downtown. She came to door, we made some small talk joked around. English is not her first language and her misuse of some English words was very cute, and that French accent was very sexy. I won't go into all the hot and wet details but it was well worth my trip downtown. She seemed up for anything and does advertise no restrictions. As I mentioned earlier I love spinner type bodies but this lady made me forget all about that it within about 3 minutes. She is HOT SEXY PASSIONATE and FUNNY. You were Fantastic Sinn and I will see again....SOON:lol:

http://www.privatecompanion.co.uk/ Jessica. A beauty, a brunette spinner, athlete, angel. It's been a dazzlingly bright day in London, and as she entered my room, the light caught her long dark hair and it shimmered red, a subtle undertone, but definitely a reddish sheen! Yes, the omens were favourable, the auguries said to proceed, and I proceeded. Jessica, spinner supreme: 5'3, perfectly proportioned breasts, magnificent ass, great legs, beautiful face. Chat first over wine, travel tales, exchanging Oriental adventures as we size each other up and get relaxed. She's fit and hot, and wearing a red designer dress, low cut at the back, as if we were going out on the town. I had dressed up, myself, before she arrived, I wanted to impress as much as I could, and I now wished we had had longer, because it would have been perfect to take her out in the mood I was in, and the way she looked. Stylish, fit, sexy. London would have approved. I certainly approved. Only a thong under the dress, nothing else, I soon discovered. It had to come off, too, and my tongue went to work; 'the woman always comes first'. We carried on like this for ages. I loved the taste of her, and I loved her strong fit legs, and she has abs, real abs, hard and defined and so kissable. I held them and stroked them as I licked, and licked, and she helped herself along before it was my turn. Exquisite pleasure from her tongue was my reward, and then we held each other tight and kissed, and kissed. I thought of my current favourite sex film, with Chastity Lynne, and it felt just like that. Then cowgirl and mish, so good, as we changed positions and kept the rhythm. Tight and hot and responsive. Where did the time go? Two hours up already, and she has to go. Her ride awaits. Another time, we promise. And I will. A stunner, sexy, smart, and with the perfect spinner body. Jessica. Unforgettable!

Ok, so this is going to make me sound like a huge downer and/or bitch, but all of the personal stories as of late are totally out of place on this board. Right now, we have threads about one member having cancer, another about a member's addiction recovery, and of course, all of the threads about bareback anything/sex education (no, they are not personal stories, but I'll get to why this bothers me in a second). So, why am I bothered by such threads? NO ONE COMES HERE TO READ ABOUT YOUR LIFE. This is not a self-help forum. Yes, I am sad to hear that you're doing poorly, yes I hope you recover/get better/learn to become less socially inept/insert positive comment here about whatever your issue is. But let's get real, this is an ESCORT RECOMMENDATION BOARD. People come here to look at pretty ladies, read reviews, exchange information etc. There are places for your personal stories (Chicken Soup for the Cerbite's Soul) etc. The threads about sexual health piss me off because they just create moral panics about sex workers spreading STI's, AND because while there is no specific forum regarding health concerns or info for the general members (there is one for the SP's), there is an entire section titled "NEW TO THIS? THINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW" and frankly, info about STI's and shit should go in there. And just stop posting about bareback services. We all know some SP's do it, and some provide certain bb services such as BBBJ, and that's their preference. Resurrecting these debates on CERB really does just create more panic and more stigma. Let's try to remember what the point of this board is before you post your personal shit. While many will post "oh, that's terrible, my thoughts are with you," most of them don't care, don't mean it, and wish they were watching porn. If you have become close with certain members and wish to inform them about something in your life that you think they might want or need to know, send them a PM! Don't post a huge thread in the general forums about it. OR put the post in a more appropriate location such as the Chicken Soup for the Cerbites Soul, etc. There are some things that are best kept to yourself! If I were a dude looking for an escort, I certainly wouldn't want to come to CERB to read about cancer, people dying, drug addictions, and how dangerous bareback services are. Also, I am not trying to offend those people who posted their personal stories; I'm not heartless. I agree that people should get to know each other, but seriously, could we keep it lighter? Lately CERB has been all gloom and doom.

i hate wearing socks, ive hated it since i was a little kid i cant sleep with clothes on my feet are my "temperature adjusters" while im sleeping...(if im too warm, they cant be under the sheets, when im too cold i have to have them tucked in) i always have to make sure theres no leftover food in my sink from dirty dishes beore i actually wash them, And i have to pre-wash each one with hot hot water before i start actually washing them i always leave cupboard open (ive hit my head a few times...lol)

I never leave my house without finding each of my three cats and telling them that I love them I eat hot sauce on everything I can't sleep with my feet under the covers

Boy, are we ever having different experiences during our encounters. ;) It's not that developing feelings (let's call it "affection") with an SP is forbidden; something like that is a natural consequence of the intimate interaction that goes with better sessions. But for practical reasons there are boundaries on that affection, and most especially when it comes to acting on it. Enjoy the feeling during a session, and in the afterglow, but learn to let it fade. There's not much I discuss here that I couldn't talk to most SPs about during a session; I've had some amazing conversations and learned a lot. I wouldn't broach some subjects right upon walking in the door, but I do strike up a kind of easy back and forth with most SPs I see, and especially after a few sessions together. Conversations can go to most places they might go with someone I was meeting for a date, though everyone's comfort level is different. Also, keep in mind that I tend toward sessions of several hours' duration, since developing this rapport takes a little time; but to me it's an important part of a good experience. Good behaviour here on the board is nothing more than you'd be expected to show to any group of people at, say, a big dinner party: be respectful, kind, and generous. Let people express themselves, and if you disagree, stay civil. If you kept that up at big weekly parties for a few months, you'd start to grow very comfortable with the crowd. I think that's sort of what it's like for a lot of people here. I'm not really seeing the contradiction. Nor the irony, whose definition I gently suggest you check -- I don't think that word means what you think it means. ;)

Happy Birthday Gorgeous! Hope your day is filled with Family and Friends, Laughs and Smiles, and most of all Happiness. xoxo

Julias That is one of the best written posts and responses i have ever read. But lately i think more people need to get some loving and hardcore sex :) than complaining over someone posts about a loved one or pet or cancer or met my ex etc The site is a freedom of speech. and we have an option to ignore,block the person. Its funny about 95% of sp want to know something about the client before they see them this is a good way to get to know someone and by bashing and complaining i am sure it won't do you any favours in the respect and repeat of clientale. These are my 2 cents worth. I want people to encourage putting in there thoughts and questions its a good option. I am shock MOD hasn't put an end to this thread already.

Honestly, I feel pretty badly for anyone who has recently posted about personal trials. I suspect that after reading through this thread they might feel embarrassed, perhaps hurt. I know that I've read many posts that didn't hold any interest for me but I never considered it helpful to tell the "poster" to keep his/her points to himself, they don't belong here. For some, I'm sure, this site should only be a vehicle to further conduct business but for others it provides a forum to exchange ideas as well. Let's not limit ourselves or try to limit others in the most basic of human rights, i.e. free speech.

No Use For A Name - Justified Black Eye If I remember Correctly, Dave Nassie from this band went on to join Bleeding Through. Weird

Dear Doctor Gabby, As your gentleman and your temporary lover,I truly enjoy being your guest of honor and companion for the patient care that I do need time to time. Thanks Doc, I sincerely "enjoy time well spent" with you ;) Pete

Children of Bodom - Follow the Reaper

Ya. you four ladies are right. This Cerb site is strictly about Sex and Titties I guess is how you worded it ! Oops ! I forgot about my penis for a second here and there and had fun and enjoyed reading posts or sharing some things with people or felt some feelings for someone or tried to help them when they were down. Bad Me !!

Some of us understood what you meant SA! There's absolutely nothing creepy about it ;)

One thing about CERB is the sense of community. Yes serious issues are discussed, some lighthearted ones (thinking of the joke section and music section), recos/reviews...but with some differences of opinion, we are a community. And that sense of community makes a person feel safe enough to bring up a non escorting relate subject, the feeling that he/she is talking amongst friends. If that sense of community goes, whats the difference between CERB and T***, C****, and other sites which are a distant second to CERB imho It may just be a fluke that all these topics came out at the same time, but at least the members felt safe enough to share here RG