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I agree with Malika's take on it. It's possible....but don't bet on it. I personally never see a SP with notions of anything else in mind. If it happens, great....but it hasn't yet, and really, as much as we talk about the "GFE", the last thing we're looking for from a SP is a "GF"....and the last thing they're looking for from this is a BF.....it's strings free fun. But as Isabella pointed out. Life does tend to throw us for a curve ball now and then despite our best intentions. I commend you on this decision Sara! I'm very much of the same mind. I refuse to hobby while I'm in a relationship now. I did it in my younger, stupider days, when I first started hobbying and it was the biggest mistake of my life. Don't get me wrong, I love this lifestyle, but I should have just ended it with her if I was unsatisfied enough to seek out SP's....the guilt of that has always stayed with me. So yeah, monogamy is also very important to me now. I would be pretty pissed and hurt to find out she had a guy (or several) on the side. So it would be pretty hypocritical of me to continue hobbying while with her. If we were swingers that might me a different story ;)...but that's simply not my scene. If I were to start dating a SP she would have to find another means of income for things to work....and if you ask me that's a completely unfair demand on my part and not something I could ever bring myself to ask her to do. So for these reasons I don't see myself ever dating a SP. I just want to point out that I'm not judging any of the men on here who do hobby while having a SO. Or any of the SP's here who have SO's. Everyone's views and situations are different. These just happen to be mine. I'm sorry this happened to you Cleo :( I can attest to the fact that you are very much dateable and were circumstances different I for one would jump at the chance ;) the guy was clearly (if he's on here and reading this, I apologize to you whoever you are) a douche. It's one thing to see SP's while having a SO...there's no real emotional attachment from seeing a SP....well..that's not really true...otherwise this hobby wouldn't be any fun....but you know what I mean...but going on an actual "date" with someone while involved in a relationship?...that's unacceptable to me..but maybe that's just me. I don't know you personally Cleo, and like Meg said, our real faces and the faces we show in this lifestyle are quite different...but for anyone to view you, or any of the ladies here as "just a SP" is quite honestly a crime in my mind. As I previously stated I wouldn't consider dating a SP only because I wouldn't ever expect anyone to leave their chosen profession for me, and monogamy is a very important part of a relationship for me. So right there that rules out SP's for me. But surely not because I consider them "just SP's" or not dateable. If I hit it off with a SP, and somewhere down the line after she has left the profession our paths cross and the stars align, then I would most definitely jump at the chance to get to know the real her. This includes you, Cleo :) SP persona aside I can tell that you're a very charming and beautiful woman.....(not to mention the fact that your movie collection is "apparently" bigger than mine, you like Alice Cooper....and you BAKE to boot! Truly you are a woman after my own heart :p ) Seriously though, any man who takes you for granted is ready for the short bus if you ask me.

Well I don't believe this wonderful lady has any recommendations on CERB so let me be the first and I expect many more might follow. JessicaAngel recently joined our community taking up residence in Calgary. I've had a couple of trips to Calgary in past and have had mixed experiences with local and touring ladies. Although everyone is different, for me, my search is over! Jessica is an AMAZING companion I look forward to seeing again and again. Getting in touch with her was easy and she was very responsive to my PMs and then closer to our date my texts. In fact our first 'almost' encounter didn't happen as a planned trip to Calgary was cancelled however, another opportunity came in just 2 weeks time. Our dialogue had just the right balance of sexy/flirty yet shy/risky. It was our first meeting together so this was perfect and I truly loved the nervous element that surfaced as our meeting time got closer. Jessica was very accomodating to my travel schedule and my one mistake was that I could only arrange this for my last night in town. Had I known how wonderful the experience was to be, I would have found other opportunities to see her. At scheduled meeting she arrived right on-time and in fact texted me 15 mins early that she arrived and was ready to meet. I liked that. Jessica is VERY naturally pretty and girl next door look. She was wearing a nice dressy/casual blouse and skirt. The blouse was loose fitting but I could tell enough that underneath was likely a sexy body as her skirt revealed slim hips and desirable legs. We talked and sipped wine for some time finding out our shared interests (we are too close hehe), and simply gained a comfort and ease with each other. It was very natural and nice as slowly a slight touch was placed by one or the other simply saying - "I'm liking you and want more". Jessica is very easy to talk with on a variety of subjects. Conversation moved smoothly between us and I never felt an awkward moment. In fact the time seemed to be passing quickly when she suggested we leave the living room for something more comfortable. This was the moment that the clothes gently got removed and revealed a beautifully shaped woman. At first in some black sexy lingerie and then ultimately smooth and soft skin you just have to touch. She is in great shape and nicely curvy as a woman should be, with well proportioned breasts. I spent much of the time kissing and massaging her which I could do for hours. Naked in front of me and all I wanted was to touch, taste and cover her. She is a passionate kisser and truly loves giving pleasure as well. I enjoyed giving myself to her. The rest will stay between us. Jessica may not be in this fulltime and intends on only seeing limited gentlemen. If you live in Calgary or visit there I highly recommend you contact her and spend some time with this beautiful and passionate woman. I know I will definately see her again. We have some playing to finish...and as she reminded me....we'll never be done! OMG - till next time my Angel. XOXO Cub

Keeping the spirit of positivity going, I thought it would be empowering to be forced to pick a body part on ourselves that we really dig. It could be your genitals, your hair or even your upper arms. As long as it's a part of yourself you're truly crazy about and have never had any plastic surgery on. And don't worry about sounding conceited. It's important that we love ourselves, just as we were created. So let's share with one another what we're thankful for and confident about on our bodies! I guess I'll start. I like my eyes, the colour, shape and array of emotions they can express all on their own.

WrinkledInTime recently posted an article in the "News" section of this board about Melissa Farley's recent so-called research, published as "The John Next Door" in the latest edition of Newsweek magazine. Berlin pointed us to an article at the Good Vibrations Magazine site, "Melissa Farley and the US Government Want You to Stop Buying Sex" written by Laura Agustin. This article centers on the idea promoted by Farley and others that the best way to end human trafficking is to end the demand for prostitution. Of course the "End the Demand" group never mentions, let alone comes to terms with, the fact that most human trafficking has nothing to do with the sex trade but has lots to do with domestic labour, industrial labour, farm labour and construction. The "End the Demand" folks really want everyone to stop having non-marital sex. The thing I find striking is that Farley and the US government think that society needs to deliver a much stronger message to men--young men, in particular, for some reason--that it's just wrong to pay for sex. Period. Gosh. I thought that society was already pretty clear about that. Most of the clients I've discussed this with have told me that it was one of the hurdles they had to get over: the idea that there's something wrong with paying for sex. I sure grew up thinking that there was something wrong with selling it! Is there anyone here who was raised to think that it isn't wrong to pay for sex? That is, that you get sex by marrying someone, or maybe by having committed relationship that includes sex, or maybe by being lucky enough to be offered sex in some other way, but not by paying for it? My impression has been that many men have been encouraged to believe that only "losers" (defined in various ways) pay for sex and that no one else should. Thoughts?

This is a really cool video about why some women love to be sex workers. It portrays a rather large array of workers in the industry who talk about their experiences. http://blip.tv/redlightdistrictchicago/what-i-love-about-being-a-sex-worker-3780746 I'm a proud whore too! ;) Also, this is a really interesting website some people might want to check out. Some sections of the website are still seeking submissions: http://www.swaay.org/

This is a fun thread and we want to keep it fun, but please DO NOT POST ANY IMAGES OF CHILDREN here or for that matter anywhere on this site, it's just not appropriate no matter the circumstances. We've had to remove several inappropriate images since this thread began, please don't make more work for the mods, we're busy enough as it is! Thank you.

To be perfectly honest; no. My two lives are completely separate and that is how I intend them to remain. Meg is a persona that exists during certain hours of the day. While the real me has some of the same characteristics, I am not fully the person I portray while entertaining. I don't want to sound harsh but I am not seeking nor would I even attempt a relationship with a client. Meg does enjoy friendship and sexy fun but that is where it needs to end.

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I enjoy the long reach of my arms and hands which allows me to enfold my playmate(s) within my embrace while allowing me to trace long delciate caresses up and down their body(ies).

Masturbating with ice.......it is almost like sex with my ex.... Posted via Mobile Device

I enjoy the photo's of ladies, and I'm a visual type of guy, in fact I'm sure 95% of men on this board are visual creatures just like me. Lets take a look at the 'x' factor in Crystal....fucking stunning now isn't she? We had our pleasant introductions, she unwrapped some morning healthy snacks, while I had a quick shower. With towel wrapped around me, and Crystal in gorgeous lingerie we embraced and hands chased up and down our bodies while passionatley kissing, yes she can kiss very nicely. Wasn't long before the towel hit the floor, and I was hard as wood, Crystal laid down on the bed, and started to slowly tease her, by kissing her mouth going down and kissing her breasts,stomach and worked my way down betwee, her legs, I took off her panties,stockings. I kissed and rubbed her tiny feet, while stroking the inside of her thighs, she moaned, and closed her eyes while enjoying the erotic play. My tongue and mouth worked up her inner leg, and then teasing her already moist delicious pussy, deep warm breaths, and little flick of my tongue around the outside simply teasing her, she was getting red in the face, enjoying the erotic foreplay. It wasn't long before my head and hair was pulled in other words Pete get in there ;) After some delicious long oral foreplay for her, and where she had to ask me to stop, because..well you know why :) I asked her to get into doggie position, I wanted kiss her perfect sweet little ass, and I did! I inserted my thumb into her wet pussy,while kissing her bum cheeks, on top of her bum, Crystal was moving her hips in and out, and was moving, I took out my thumb and inserted my middle finger, she pushed back and I started slowly and then quicker insertions and she was enjoying the digits, and was getting nicely wet, I moved in several times to tongue her at the same time, and teased her with my tongue as she rode my large thick middle finger. She said it was my turn, I asked her to suck on and bite my nipples and start her way down and she did! She stroked my cock while we were kissing to start then she moved onto my nipples, and stroking me real well, she reached up for a condom, and gave a delicious sexy CBJ. As I was getting real close to the edge, I asked her to stop, and get on board, shegot on me and her eyes opened real wide, man she is so nicely tight and what a fit,she rode me cowgirl, we moved the edge of the bed with her legs wrapped around my waist, sucking on her breasts, kissing her while she bounced up and down:aol_rideit: I picked her up, such a great body to have wrapped around you, legs tight around my waist, we did the deed standing up, while she laid on some heavy DFKing and wild moans, I finally laid her gently on the bed into missionary position.:aol_missionary: I pushed her arms above her head while we held hands, fingers inter-twined and I just kept pushing deeper while we kissed passionately, it was not long before I exploded. We laid beside each other and talked and stroked each other, she has some fantastic body art, I loved it. My god she has such sensual deep brown sexy bedroom eyes, a man can get lost in them. Crystal is such a great kisser too, bubbly personality, very friendly, and interesting to talk too as well, I did have the Crystal 'X' factor and it was quite the morning, thanks Crystal!

The longer I "know" roamingguy on this board, the more I like him (and I started out liking him just fine). I like his sincerity. I like his passion. I like his clarity. I like how he is who he is and he puts himself out here, plain and clear. I like that maybe one day, he'll bring me a fresh-caught salmon... :icon_smile:

Umm... as the resident American here, I would like to defend my country's attitudes vis a vis sex and violence. Alas.. I cannot. They are way too screwed up to defend. I was raised in small town/rural America in a relatively liberal family. At the age where I was getting interested in trying to buy Playboy (gasp!) it was very acceptable, even expected, that I would take a gun and blow holes in any critter that slowed down. But to actually see nekkid breasts? Everyone threw a fit! My parents, my friend's parents, the guy that actually sold me the mag (okay, he was mad because I was stupid enough to get caught) - major federal case. And yeah, the first time I had intercourse with my girlfriend, I remember walking home that night considering the possibility I might have to marry her. In my upbringing, the whole concept of sex for pay was in a totally different universe. Good people had nothing to do with that. The follow-on to all of that came when I was older and my dad and I had learned to deal with each other as people. He mentioned one time that he and his coworkers would sometimes watch out the office window to see who was visiting the hooker across the street. So I guess SOMEONE had something to do with that. I eventually worked out that sex for pay can be fun and not degrading for both parties. I'm here.

Great video! Those of us who have been active here on cerb for a while have probably noticed the same reasons given from many of the SP's on here as to why they love their job. But a great post none the less! :)

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I have to disagree with you here a little, SA. I don't see that there's any harm in asking a simple question about whether particular offers are normal, or legal. Now, if the OP's question had been something like "I want a HJ in a SC, how do I get one" then I think that you'd be absolutely right that this would be inappropriate for this forum... but it wasn't :) Good point; I'd forgotten about the solicitation thing.

The reason I nominated Castles post is for this quote here: I've gotten a chance to talk to a few of the SP's in private messaging and you're a bunch of wonderful ladies. I'm on board with the monogamy thing as well; to be honest that's why I'm on CERB - I was in serious relationship's all through my 20's & now I've been single for 2 years and between my full time job, part time job, going back to school part time & traveling for work - girls don't seem willing to put up with the little amounts of time that I have to give to them. When & if I get a gf (HAHA!) you'll see me vanish from here... I appreciate the input from all those who posted

Well I just recently hit my one year anniversary mark of getting involved with this lifestyle (or hobbying if you prefer) and some reflections. The very first time (which was bad), had one positive. It got me over the hump of seeing ladies. Once I gave the text message with the room number, it was too late to turn back. LOL And because of that first encounter, it made seeing ladies easier. When I decided to see escorts, and give this lifestyle a try, I thought it was merely sex for money. And boy was I wrong. Yes there is a sexual side to it, but it is much more than that. It is companionship, it is the ultimate blind date, and the social/interpersonal interactions are as important as the physical. And yes, it can lead to friendships, or if others are more comfortable with a term, special relationships. I also discovered that unbeknownst to me, I had a, for lack of a better phrase, a bucket list of things to try sexually. I had my first ever erotic massage, something I intend to repeat. When I started in July 2010, it never even crossed my mind And I'm about to have my first duo ever. Something else I never thought of doing, but reading CERB, it became something I want to try. I have one other thing I'm kinda intrigued, yet apprehensive to try. Probably will, but need more time to get comfortable with the idea. Beauty is more than skin deep. Beautiful women come in all shapes sizes and ages. And intelligence (and I don't mean book smarts) is attractive in a woman and heightens an encounter. And a surprise for me, (well growing up tattoos were something only men who were in the military or criminals had btw not a judgement here, just the way is was way back when) is to find tattoos can be very sexy on a lady. I entered this lifestyle thinking it was only going to be anonymous sexual encounters, nothing more. Had someone suggested to me back then that I should provide personal information to a lady to be verified, my instinctive response would be no, it's a matter of my privacy. Well thought processes took over from instinct, and now, if requested, I'm very comfortable being verified. Besides allowing for a lady to ensure as best she can her safety, it leads to a trusting SP/Client relationship. Besides, there is no lady that I see that I'm embarrassed or ashamed if I "got caught", nor worried that she knows my real name. I'm a man seeing a lady, what's wrong with that? Character is most important in this lifestyle. It's more important to be a gentleman than anything else, at least this is what my experience has been. And I approach this as a mutually beneficial activity. The ladies and the gentlemen are on opposite sides of the same coin. And we are all part of the same community. This is not SP's vs Hobbiests. And I hope it doesn't become that way. Thank goodness for CERB, which strives to keep a co-operative atmosphere, compared to other sites. Well these are some ramblings and reflections of my first year Take them for whatever they are worth RG

Since it summer time and we have really warm weather(here in Ottawa anyways) It would be nice to see pics of Cerb ladies cooling off with whatever they can find be a water hose, eating a popsicle, in front of a huge fan with her hair in the wind etc... Here are some picture I find really hot off from the internet. Who knows you might get some fripples out of it. So this is not a challenge for the nicest pics but a way to have fun and beat the heat.

You totally beat me to it! As one of the people who was quoted for this article, and who was at Women's Worlds as both a volunteer and activist, I'm STILL upset about it.

I can just hear a bobby saying "Nothing to see here, please move along..." That said, there are many, many fine officers that risk their lives everyday to protect us that we never ever hear about. It's too bad the odd bad egg's are the ones that get all the press.

Wow! Great review. I'll bet Diora couldn't have written it better herself!

I'm also loving these views above, well done Cato. I also ran out of rep points. If only the mod could give us more rep point to spread around.