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My grooming choices are purely based on my personal preference. The % of clientele who prefer otherwise has absolutely no bearing on my decision, nor should it in my opinion. What makes me feel sexy/comfortable is the only factor in my decision. These polls/threads (of which there have been a few) tend to give the impression that a woman could be swayed to change her "style"... Needless to say, I don't think that will ever happen. But good luck! Kimberly

The whole woman-girl thing drives me crazy. Those of us that prefer shaved are not seeking an experience with a pre-pubescent girl. Period. I shave my bits and do not look like a little boy in any way. Preference are preferences. And dozens of guys have posted that it is mostly about enjoying oral play more. Comments implying some form of twisted fetish or paraphilia are insulting. I also prefer small breasts. This does not make me a pedophile. It makes me a guy who prefers small breasts with a shaved pubic area. Interestingly, I also prefer women in the 25-35 age range.

If you're driving when the sun goes down, be extra careful watching for trick or treaters or ladies dressed like I was back in 1979 ha ha.

None of us can tell you what the best gift possible is for someone else but perhaps you might want to consider what you would like your gift to mean and why you are giving it. I find that most gifts I receive can fit into 3 categories - Make our time better, Spoil me, and Make my life easier. Gifts that make our time better are often things like lingerie, adult toys, wine, food, or show/event tickets for the two of us. Gifts meant to spoil me are generally luxury items that I may or may not buy for myself; massages, spa days, designer clothes, shoes or handbags, wine club memberships, jewelry, tickets that are meant to be used on my own (or with a friend), etc. Gifts that make my life easier are often things that I plan on buying myself but for whatever reason are on the 'hold' list or payment of services I use or will allow me to free up my time; furniture, gift certificates for practical services eg. an airline or shoppers drug mart, a cleaning lady for a few days, tuition, etc. Each of these gifts are different and most ladies will appreciate whatever you provide, the difference is how it's used and what your goal is. In my own experience when I am given a gift that we can share during our date it adds a level of excitement or fun and both the item and the thought are generally appreciated but overall if you are trying to express gratitude for a more personal relationship it might not be the most appropriate. There are only so many toys one lady can have and depending on what the toy is it may be fluid bonded to you so she'll just be storing it until your next date or if it's lingerie that is specific to your taste or fetish then it too will just be stored until next time she meets you. Now in the 'spoil me' category there is a good deal of crossover and these items can be both practical or something that can be for your dates as well. Some expensive lingerie might be something she enjoys but doesn't generally buy for herself, if you are hoping to see her in it then it falls into the first category as well however if you knew that she had a photoshoot coming up and wanted something special for it (and you know her taste) then buying it for her is also very practical as she will save money and expense. The same thing can be said for manicures, pedicures, etc. as most women in this industry use them regularly and they can be a big expense but a lot of clients find her painted toes or well groomed hands a bonus as well. Overall I find gifts that spoil me to be fun and it's even better if they have a personal touch such as mentioning to me that you picked it because you remember my saying I enjoyed xyz. Gifts that make my life easier are often some of the best gifts but you really need to know somebody to know what is useful to her. If she is in school you might be able to pay for a class for her or some of her books, if she travels a lot then gift certificates for Porter might come in handy, or if she mentioned to you in conversation that she needed a new bookcase/lamp/bedding set... etc. then a gift certificate to a store where she can pick that out may not seem like the most romantic gift but in general it will be appreciated. The gift becomes personal and special just by the fact that you are trying to help her free up her own time or money so she has one less thing on her plate, it's perfectly acceptable to explain that as well and often appreciated; mention when she opens the gift or include a note that says something like "I was thinking about when you said you needed... and I thought this would help you with that goal." or say that you didn't want her to worry about whatever problem and therefore you picked your gift to make her life a little easier as she has done for you. Overall I'd say look at what you think she'll enjoy and what your goal is, it doesn't have to be expensive but it'll be personal to her and the thought and intentions behind it will go a long way to putting a smile on her face as well.

I don't think this is the best way to go about looking for your "entertainment". I don't mean any offence when i say this, But this is what i call lazy hobbying. I understand not everyone has the time to search through the recomendations and postings everyday. You're asking for the ladies to basically "apply" to be your entertainment. I think you would find better luck perusing the reco's and private messaging specific SP's that catch your interest. It sounds like you're looking for a pse experience so start with that tag. Again i don't mean offence i just think with a little bit of effort you'll find exactly what you're looking for. DoM

ottawaadventurer - Thank you for your post. I have firm little titties and I prefer no body hair, and I am 100% woman. I'll be honest that it hurts a bit when people suggest I'm less than a woman or girl-like. I also don't understand why some people feel it's necessary to insult other body types in order to "justify" their own. Variety is the spice of life and beauty comes in all shapes and sizes.

I was redirected by another thread to a John Prine song which reminded me that most of my life happens in one or the other of his songs. None of which has to do with these collected words of wisdom: 1 * Accept the fact that some days you're the pigeon, and some days you're the statue! 2 * Always keep your words soft and sweet, just in case you have to eat them. 3 * Always read stuff that will make you look good if you die in the middle of it. 4 * Drive carefully... It's not only cars that can be recalled by their Maker.. 5 * If you can't be kind, at least have the decency to be vague 6 * If you lend someone $20 and never see that person again, it was probably worth it.. 7 * It may be that your sole purpose in life is simply to serve as a warning to others. 8 * Never buy a car you can't push. 9 * Never put both feet in your mouth at the same time, because then you won't have a leg to stand on. 10 * Nobody cares if you can't dance well. Just get up and dance. 11 * Since it's the early worm that gets eaten by the bird, sleep late. 12 * The second mouse gets the cheese. 13 * When everything's coming your way, you're in the wrong lane. 14 * Birthdays are good for you. The more you have, the longer you live. 15 * You may be only one person in the world, but you may also be the world to one person. 16 * Some mistakes are too much fun to make only once. 17 * We could learn a lot from crayons. Some are sharp, some are pretty and some are dull. Some have weird names and all are different colors, but they all have to live in the same box. 18 * A truly happy person is one who can enjoy the scenery on a detour. 19 * Save the earth..... It's the only planet with chocolate!*

I can't stand vibration! Nothing can replace a good man, nothing!

@Alpha I am not 100% sure but I believe since you posted a thread asking for a certain type of lady or services, is not against the rules for those who offer them or fit the description to contact you. However, I do agree with those who suggest doing some research. If you are or not a lazy hobbyists is not the issue but the fact that as mentioned you may not get responses from ladies you are really interested in seeing so in the end that time communicating with them you can use in reading ads and visiting profiles of those who get your attention :)

Clara Bow Louise Brooks Alma Bennett Anita Page

16 Reasons why Men are better than the Sybian The Sybian can't take out the garbage The Sybian can't kill bugs (especially spiders!!) The Sybian can't open tough jars The Sybian can't carry heavy things The Sybian can't hold your purse while you try on outfits The Sybian can't reach the top shelf The Sybian can't bang on the neighbour's door and make them turn the music down The Sybian doesn't provide a convenient place for you to warm your frozen toes in bed The Sybian can't fetch an extra blanket The Sybian can't change high lightbulbs The Sybian can't fix a leaky faucet The Sybian can't put oil in the car when the fill oil light comes on The Sybian can't walk the dog The Sybian can't wash the car The Sybian can't got the the store to fetch things at 2am The Sybian can't mow the lawn

Nothing is a bigger kick in the pants than a last minute cancellation. If gentlemen know that its not a for sure thing, don't book.. simple as that.

Gina & Dallas are now with CMJ.

At this point, they are proven to be fakes.. So any further discussion is kinda pointless.. If anyone wants to use their service, they are a sucker for punishment.. lol

Sorry RG, I could only last 24 seconds before stopping it :( Cat Stevens - Morning Has Broken

My latest crush Kathrine Heigl Other notable references: Scarlett Johansson This is her recently leaked real photo: Natalie Portman:

didnt you start a thread about this some time ago? we understand you are all for unshaven as per your previous stories about finding 70s magazines as a child and having that be your fuel (not making fun, I'm just wondering why this subject keeps getting rehashed?) but speaking from an SP standpoint I have never had a client get excited over any hair down there whatsoever. maybe a strip but thats it. At the strip clubs I've worked at when I sit with a customer and he sees a girl undress on stage and she has any hair they generally say yuck...which could be a reaction they're feigning...but its to each their own. a combination of natural 19%/trimmed 26% results should not lead to 'surprisingly high" leads IMO (especially if they're below the majority that have voted for shaved 57%.)

My self made workout album currently is as follows in this order: 1) 2) Bleed For Me - Black Label Society 3) 4) Ace Of Spades - Motorhead 5) 6) 7) 8 ) For Those About To Rock (We Salute You) - AC/DC 9) 10) The Razors Edge - AC/DC 11) 12) Paranoid - Black Sabbath 13) 14) 15) I'm Your Boogieman - White Zombie 16) 17) 18 ) Hellbent (On War) - Throwdown 19) 20) Gonna Fly Now (John X Remix) - Bill Conti / Rocky Soundtrack Or sometimes I just listen to the Rocky Balboa soundtrack which is basically a "Best of" collection of songs from all the movies

Garbo Marlene Deitrich Veronica Lake Jane Russell

I'm not sure if this is a celebrity crush thread, or a respectable actress thread, so I'll go with talented actresses who are also sexy beautiful women. Kate Winslet Marion Cotillard Rachel Weisz

So you've fallen hard for a lady in the business. I know where you are, brother. I really do. I've been there too. You're in good company. This has happened to many of us in the hobby, and as much as we like to kid ourselves otherwise, it happens to the ladies too. It's hard to know which is the more powerful desire, the need for sex or the need for love. And it's hard in this hobby sometimes because one feels so much like the other. Falling hard is sneaky because it tends to happen when we lack something in our lives, but it can catch us unaware at the best of times. I'm not likely to tell you something you don't already know or haven't thought about. But since you asked, here are my thoughts in the matter. The ladies work hard to give us what we want. And we work hard to find the ones who are good at giving us what we're looking for. And it is the really good ones that pose the greatest risk, because they give so much of themselves to make you happy. Perhaps she might even have liked you a little more than the next guy. But your time runs out, you leave starry-eyed and wobbly-legged, you leave daydreaming about her. And she might be already on to her next client, who she's already trying to make as happy as you. The good ones do. And that is why you chose her in the first place..... hmmm? I used to think that it was all an act. But I came to realize that that was really selling the ladies short. Because for the good ones, it isn't an act. They really do love what they do and they do enjoy your company. But there must be boundaries to that caring. There just has to be. Otherwise, she wouldn't be able to be good at what she does for the next guy. She has to let it go. And that is what we have to do as well. And at the end of the day, most of us hardly know the lady who's given us so much pleasure. She could be anyone behind those eyes. Anyone. Good, bad, evil, divine. Think about that for a moment. You don't know her, you don't know her baggage. And she will have some, brother, as I know you will have your own. She likely doesn't know you at all either. She would be right to be wary. I'm not saying that it might not work out for the two of you. But the chances are so slim, and the impediments in your way are so large, that lasting happiness is so unlikely. It's truly a shot in the dark, as remote as a lottery win. You asked me for my advice, brother. And mine to you is to have some variety. Keep reading the ads and reviews. Find other ladies who everyone's raving over. Go see them, give them a shot at knocking your socks off. And undoubtedly some of them will. And doing that will give you perspective in this terrible and wonderful hobby of ours. For it's most healthy for you to love the experiences, but not the ladies. I can speak from experience that I know how hard it is to follow this advice, but look in your heart and see if it doesn't ring straight and true. Good luck, brother.

Gift cards can be the way to go. Look at the lady's website, she may have favourite stores she shops at. A gift card to one of those stores. RG

I spent the early morning hours talking to an awesome woman I did well on my exam this morning I've made some new friendships on CERB My hockey team is finally showing up to hockey games (tonight is their 3rd win in a row - go habs go!)

I hope worded right, and not minimizing the emotional aspects of losing their breast(s), but the ladies never lost their beauty, it is still there. And they battled and won the fight against a horrible disease, and are alive to share their life and beauty with us Thank you for posting WIT RG