ottawaadventurer

I go to bode spa and have for years. Great place, high quality products. In sandy hill

Funny, this is something that has never really concerned me. I often feel a (false?) sense of security at a spa... the timing would have to be really quite perfect for them to identify anything illegal... At least, that has been my thinking up until now...

There is quite a bit of stigma associated with this particular fetish... I, for one, love giving and receiving, but have a really hard time bringing it up...

OH my GOD.... I am in love...

Happy new year everyone! I do wonder how many people, like me, put January 1 as a default birthday in order to ensure anonymity... :-)

I have always wanted to enter the world of BSDM but whenever I think about it, I can't figure out what I'd be.... not sure if this makes sense, but neither the Dom nor the Sub role seems particularly natural to me. Or, let me say it better... I am attracted to the idea of both roles. As a walking typification, my line of work has me in charge a lot. As a result, there is a sort of inclination that not being in control would be a nice release for me in terms of a sexual scenario. But then again, I also find adding an erotic twist to my control... that also turns me on. My SO is not at all into any such thing (she invented vanilla)... so I am not sure if I will ever be able to explore this.

I just finished making my favorite holiday food - turkey soup made from the leftovers. I just adore turkey soup - with homemade dumplings.. it's the absolute best part of the season for me!

wow. this one may be my new favorite. For me, it's perfection.

Just a quick comment re: meds.... When people actually need meds (biochemically), they don't make them feel "nothing". I hear that a lot and it kind of bugs me. The idea that people who take medication are simply zombies walking around feeling nothing is far from the truth. When I need to take meds, what it does is make me feel what other people normally feel... It doesn't make me feel nothing. Just my 2 cents.

Not a fun situation - my apologies. I have to say that my thoughts immediately went to mental illness. In this industry, like any other, a certain percentage of your clients will be unstable. It's just a statistical reality. All the screening in the world will never identify all potential problems. This man may well have issues beyond his control. It's not an excuse, it's an possible explanation. And in those cases I think that the only factor at play should become your safety. Money is important but your life is far more important. Impulse control disorders are very common - much like what Sara identified as caging an animal. And there are no other symptoms - seeming normal people who behave atypically under duress. Blocking the door would trigger a more intense reaction for sure. My advice is to be thankful nothing more physical happened and chalk it up to bad luck. If I'm wrong, the guy was just not appropriate. Either way, I'm just glad you didn't get hurt. In so sorry this happened to you regardless of the ultimate cause. Not fair, not fun.

I am also a north American body type with not a lot of hair but enough to remove. I go to an excellent men-only spa that waxes my shoulders, back and butt. I've been doing it for years. The pain factor is minimal (the technologies of wax and methods has improved greatly). I actually enjoy it and the feeling after is amazing. With each time it gets easier as well. I dry-shave the boys and the pubic area and that, too, is easy and painless. Feel free to PM if you want more info.

Ok, ok. I have to take issue with all of the Ginsu knife slagging.... I've had mine for years and love them!!!

The bus is not a safe zone to pick your nose. I see it all the time. And when they find something, they stick it under the seat. So gross.

I experience exactly what you describe, about four times a year. It's not fun. I went to see my doctor and have now found a medication that helps. It doesn't take it away, but it does smooth out the edges. The brain is a complex organ and biochemically, it needs help sometimes. I would have a chat with a doc - we needn't just ride it out. Good luck, my friend. And go easy on yourself.

Bless you.

So, I'm at an all-day meeting at a hotel... Right next door to one of our fine city's massage places... Perhaps a nice lunch break is in order. Sometimes god sends a message. :-)

This morning, as I was driving to work, all I could think about was lunch.... and what I really want... is a New Brunswick Donair. I just can't help it

Steve - enjoy this next chapter of your life. But don't ever stop being curious!

I dated a mormon for a few years. These writings are still very much part of Mormonism today. As are the views on sexuality. But it's a package deal for them - there's no picking and choosing. If you want to have a good laugh, google "Mormon magic underwear". They do exist - trust me. I've removed them countless times. :-)

I eat chia seeds every day. Amazing health benefits - and I am generally quite skeptical about such things....

I'm with you Roamingguy. And when I read posts like the one previous to yours, it makes me feel for the ladies and the contempt that sometimes is directed at them.

I told me wish list to my wife. She actually laughed. Thank God for CERB.

This is an interesting thread. I think SPs and MPs are just like any other independent business woman. As such, they get to make the rules they run their businesses by. If the rules are clear and discussed at the time of booking or available online or communicated by email/ PM (you get the idea), then those are the rules. I may not like them, but as a client, I have a choice. We, as clients, get to vote with our feet and SPs/MPs get to define their working rules. It's the simple. My dentist and most of my doctors charge a steep cancellation fee. I am aware of it and when I book an apt, I am agreeing to their terms. If I cancel last minute or am a no-show (it's happened twice), the fee was raised. Once it was ultimately waived (because of the context) but that was unexpected and I did not ask - I just explained the situation and it happened. The other time, I paid, and after the initial human response of being ticked off, realized it was totally appropriate. These women don't owe us anything - they are running a business. It may often be in their best business interest to be flexible/forgiving, but not always. It's their call. Ok. That's my two cents.

I am in love.

Please - such questions are not appropriate here. And this has been discussed in countless threads. If you're looking for FS, see an SP. MPs are MPs. And if there are any that offer FS, (a) they wouldn't reply here and (b) nobody here would say so. It's really a good idea to read threads on CERB before posting such questions. Out of respect for the ladies and the hobbyists.