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Sell your identity 😂 be for real. You should worry about facebook actually selling your real life data more than us just having your name or drivers license.

we need copies of your drivers license and to know exactly who you are because as a female it is extremely dangerous to be meeting random men online there are many stories of SP’s LITERALLY getting murdered. it’s way more dangerous for us than it is for you which is why we need much verification. You may risk getting scammed out of your money when in reality we are literally risking our lives. I’ve gotten assaulted many times which is why i don’t do outcalls anhmore and if i did i would need extensive verification to know exactly who im seeing. Even bringing them to my location i need verification. It’s scary out here as a female and the fact you’re so inconsiderate of that just shows what we have to deal with on a daily basis.

We're actually looking for an assurance that you won't try to stalk, assault, or try to kill us. Most of us have experienced somethinggg that's made us need to add more screening protocols 🙄 It's not just because it's just great for business to reduce accessibility to us lmao Studies for decades have shown that this simple thing saves lives But go on, booking randos from LL who don't know to screen yet, and preaching on here like the risks with those sps are the norm among the entire industry You can control your blackmail risks by not seeing unverified providers with no established online presence. Just like we control ours by not putting ourselves in (literally THE MOST) vulnerable positions with unscreened men. AND if I hear one more thing about that oneeee provider who was scammy 🙄😂 Most of us sps have had more than one absolutely horrible experience as well. Y'all know not to book her, the same way we've learned how to screen out some of the bs that we don't want to deal with Beating a dead horse here, to the same 5 people every time

Service providers get assaulted and murdered everyday. All it takes is a quick Google search and you’ll see this happens here in Canada, the US, and globally. This is very much a real fear for us and I wouldn’t doubt almost every woman who’s posted here on Lyla, if not all, has been harmed, stalked, or assaulted by a client in some way. Don’t bother arguing with me on this forum, you aren’t changing my mind. I’m speaking from lived experience. What’s low, is denying that this is the reality of participating in this industry.

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It is wrong and honestly, imo, disrespectful. The legitimate SPs have gone to great lengths to provide information to validate themselves as true and authentic. Websites, photoshoots, multiple ad platforms, social media accounts (which in today's age are super hard to maintain against the algorithm that are constantly banning us), online content platforms like OF and NLDTCONNECT and recommendations/reviews. Most valid SPs will have at least 2 or those available. Most of us have spent 1000s of dollars and hours to create this. If you haven't followed the links provided in the ad to verify them, that's on you. For the rare ad that was stolen from one platform and placed on another, most of us are google-able. If someone is new and is just building up, that will be up to you on how you want to move forward. If someone is constantly changing names, that should be a red flag it's self. If you take a couple of minutes to think with the big head vrs the little one, you should be able to make an informed decision of seeing someone or not.

It's your job to do the proper research and choose someone that makes you feel safe. A legitimate swer has already done her part proving she's real. https://www.lyla.ch/topic/214084-how-to-screen-an-indépendant/

Unfortunately there are so many scammers out there almost seems like there are more then real people. But they get so angry and offended when I ask. I try to be very polite about asking and I've even offered to pay for it. Also I find I'm being asked for deposits almost everytime too. Something I don't mind doing but not without verification from her end. I just wanna find an SP I connect with to be a regular with them

Yes, because that type of shit really does happen Wether it be asking for I d, a photo, deposit or whatever one needs to feel safe I for one will NOT invite anyone into my personal space without a deposit and will NOT book with private/fake numbers My safety is the upmost important thing to me, I have dealt with a few crazy men it's not nice I will also book or not book based on the energy, if the gentleman is aggressive with the conversation and doesn't respect my boundaries I will NOT see him If the person contacting me is not comfortable providing the information required they are welcome to see someone else The least you can do is do your research on the lady before booking her

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Seriously? That's low. Your excuse for needing someone licence and down payment and references... is that THAT will prevent you from being murdered??? I sincerely doubt any SP would be doing this line of work if you legitimately feared being murdered that much. You're counting on the client's honesty to simply not give you a fake licence, and WE are trusting that you won't blackmail us later by simply threatening to not sell our identity/info online.

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Exactly! Thank you.

I’m always happy to send a verification photo - that doesn’t mean including my face, but I do not edit out my identifiable tattoos and am happy to write a sign of their choosing/pose with something specific that can’t be faked. That said, I do find it offensive to continue to ask for photos, ask for full nudity or special outfits for free. I’ve done my proper verification, provide reviews, and through tryst was ID verified. I don’t have a website, I prefer to stay quite a bit more private. but I also do not ask for their ID or a deposit unless they are asking me to travel an extensive distance. I do sometimes ask for an uber to be booked, as a form of deposit that is of no benefit to me, other then assurance they won’t fall asleep or change their mind by the time I arrive. This is only for first time, late night requests typically. when it comes to multiple verification requests, it’s typically somebody trying to mess around unfortunately.

Waiting or more pics

I will say this is often true but there is at least one SP I can think of who advertises all the time (although it has been a while) and she does seem to scam people. Website, active twitter, etc. I won't name names but she has changed her name about 10 times in the past couple years.

To be fair, more and more SP's are verifying themselves with social media, OF, Twitter accounts etc. the majority of the ladies I've seen recently all have "verified" using other apps etc. I haven't been disappointed in a long time by any bait and switch scams.

Well, I wouldn't say unpopular, but not everyone shares this view. I happen to fully agree with you. SPs take risks with strangers we can't fully comprehend. If they choose not to verify themselves for legitimate or less savoury reasons, or require a deposit and that doesn't jive with someone's preference then those folks should move on to someone more accommodating or more easily verifiable through other means. There are lovely verifiable women throughout this board, and many visiting beauties who rock our worlds...all we need to do is respect their person, their wishes and their boundaries.

It's not "wrong" to ask, but in reality, the question should be "why" are you asking? It's been discussed at length I know, but I can't seem to help myself from repeating this. With only one possible exception that I've read about in the past 5 or so years, this typically only happens when you're trying to save pennies on that scandolous "LeoList witch-hunt"...and once you've been scammed/blackmailed, you haven't saved a thing... The companions with active Twitter/X accts. & legit websites/reviews are not scamming people for deposits. They are, as has been oft repeated, simply looking to confirm your name, for nothing more than their own safety. There's a lot of people out there, having a lot of fun, because verifying an established SW'er is not a challenge at all, and they don't shy away from paying a deposit... Why argue with anyone for verification when there are so many established (& "verified") companions around? Many local, and seemingly even more visiting in a fairly steady stream... Just my unpopular opinion...

Yeah, when more and more they ask US for proof of ID and verification, but they conveniently ensure that they don't want to provide any more photos or info to prove that they exist or that they are in fact in town, not until they get a deposit, then..... poof, they vanish. WE are the customers, WE are the ones losing out on money, Yes there's creeps out there, but THEY offer the service, WE pay for the service, at what point have the tables turned that WE are the ones needing to pay up front, WE are the ones being scammed far more often then them, so I don't understand why they need to prove that they wont con us. They claim it's for their personal safety. We are the ones losing out with all these deposit scams, fake ads, bogus SPs claiming to do this and that out of their own personal safety, when all I'm seeing on these forums (literally some dedicated solely to out the con artists) are stories of how we have to navigate through all this slop to find anyone that isn't out to screw us over. Imagine if you hired a carpenter to re-build your back deck, and they came over to see the house, and asked for money up front so they can 'buy the lumber', asked for proof of ID, a copy of your hime insurance, a picture of your drivers licence, and an Amazon gift card, you know, just to make sure you were "Serious" and you weren't going to back down. Like, WTF... you don't LOSE anything by me cancelling, buddy.... I'm hiring you to build my deck, why are you wanting all this proof of ID that YOU could use to steal my identity with or black mail me with it later??

Hey there, to anyone looking to book with me, always read my entire ad as I have listed instructions on HOW to write your request for my time. I never reply to any messages other than those provided in the format that I have laid out in my ad, I get too many of them each day and just don't have time to reply to every single one when there is no real information being relayed-especially since I DONT do this full time. I only have time for ONE client a day. Two if I am seeing 15 min bookings. But for 30 or 60 mins- I only book one a day. SO- For example I never reply to "Hey" or "Hello" or " Hey, are you available" This one drives me bonkers because if you took the time to read my ad, you would see that I am pretty much available almost every day- so long as you meet the requirements 1) replying in the format I've provided in my ad and 2)you must be at LEAST in your 30's.) This is an example of what your request should look like: "Good morning Melody. My name is _______. I am 45 yrs old and I would like to book an hour of your time, this Saturday at 9am with GFE and CIM as a finish. I look forward to your reply. Thank you." That is the minimum amount of information I need. Feel free to tell me all about yourself, where you live, about your job, family, anything- OR nothing is fine too- so long as you include the LENGTH of time you wish to spend with me, whether or not you want GFE and lastly, which finishing extra (CIM or COB) you wish to add on- if you don't want one- that's fine- but let me know either way. If I don't get this information in the first message from you- then technically I'd have to "chase you down" for it, ie text you, to ask you- and that's something I DON'T have ANY time for. So, just ensure you have all the correct info in your request and worst case scenario, I don't reply the first day because Im busy(with my other job or responsibilities) or away (helping a sick family member)- just resend the same request and you will get a response. And yes, all bookings MUST be made in advance. I don't roll the dice every morning when I get up, and just hope that someone will msg and want to see me that day, no. I schedule my days in advance because I have other priorities and responsibilities. So plan ahead and book in advance. It makes life easier for everyone, and guarantees your time with me, and isn't that what you REALLY want? An unforgettable time with yours truly? ;)

I had the pleasure of meeting Zia Storm today. Safe incall location, hotel near to downtown. She was extremely pleasant to be with. As she mentioned, she is pretty new to the industry and it was fun to play with someone amateurish. Her verified pics are recent and true to her physical appearance. She has some gorgeous hair which I loved to play with. Her price was reasonable and no major restrictions. Communication was a breeze and I enjoyed my time. She is leaving Halifax so removed her ad. She is planning to be back later this month. So don't miss her!