Kubrickfan

Would you, could you, ever fall in love with an sp and accept her life style?

What if you met under different circumstances and found out at a later date how she made her living.....would you....could you?

Sacha

Yes, if I love her and she loves me. You want to be with the people you love.

As the title says my gf wants to try being an escort for a few months to get us out of debt and into the green. I am not 100% opposed to this but was lookin for some guidance and how not to get arrested or seriously hurt/killed. Reasonable prices to charge and so on. She is 21, very pretty and a nice body. Not huge boobs but a nice handful. She isn't like dynamite in bed or giving oral though. Would we need to practice? Would men pay more knowing she is inexperiencing and will just take direction? So many questions but if someone could help with the few I listed so far it would be great :)

Dude, you are going to have to connect the dots between this request and being in the "Lonely Married Men" group. Explanation please??

Also, tend to agreed with the other posters here, but you just may be really naive or are a pretty bad communicator.

To the others reading this string, I'm not sure if this is a legit post or a troll trying to stir up trouble.

Honey Boo Boo got better ratings in the U.S. than the Democratic National Convention.

I weep for our future. :)

In the highlights of the day thread Berlin mentioned that she "hate-watched" an episode of hung and she provided this link http://news.yahoo.com/hate-watching-joy-tv-scorn-132153959.html

 

What shows do you hate watch?

 

Yesterday I got sucked in to the horrifying world of Here Comes Honey Boo Boo a reality show spin off from Toddlers and Tiaras. I blame Nicholette Vaungh for this, she never should have shown me the YouTube clip! The family is so beyond how I perceived a redneck! Jeff Foxworthy and/or Larry the Cable Guy can certainly pick up some fresh material!

Anything outdoors...a nice sunny day out on a boat...on a blanket in the middle of a field of long grass...sun shinning down (no humidity) & a bottle of wine...Mmmmmmmmm!! Anyone up for it...lol.

Either you're missing a conjunctive there or you Canadians really have a different way of using boats. Trying to imagine a boat in the middle of a field of long grass ... and don't forget that blanket under the boat (smile)! Jk

For me, something involving a pool at night with the water temperature turned way up and a couple friends in the shallow end on the stairs ... Wait, I did that!

They are two good questions and I do have a solution when the schedule permits.

 

I'm not one for one hour visits. In fact schedule permitting I'd much prefer 4 - 6 hours or even more if I need help with shopping, want to see a movie or go somewhere not alone (and she is ok with that) most of which is some activity other than what one can do with an hour.

 

So I do like to invite a lady I haven't met to a one hour restaurant lunch and I think that's all about chemistry and compatibility. I try not to talk about this business, just try to have a fun lunch, listen to what she has to say to me more than anything and of course answer any questions she has about me.

 

Then when I see her again on another day (or even later that evening if she is available) we already know each other and have a much better idea if there is going to be compatibility and chemistry.

 

It's just as important to me that she likes me also.

This isn't a bad idea, especially if you enjoy the social aspects of things as much as the physical aspects. Its just time getting to know each other, and it makes the next (maybe physical) encounter that much easier. Many ladies provide a "social" rate for this sort of encounter, or reduce their hourly rate for "mixed" visits.

On the other hand, I don't see this as making a major difference in terms of increasing the likelihood of a bbbj ... that seems like the sort of thing that ladies tend to do or not do. On the other hand, it has to lead to a better physical encounter as you are already familiar with each other.

You could try the porn star name generator:

http://gangstaname.com/mobile/names/porn

Input "castle," and it's returns "Jack Spankalot."

Also input my friend isabella gia, came back with "Missy Spankalot.". Maybe related? :)

Just finished a somewhat unexpected trip to Ottawa and was very glad to be able to once again spend time with Issy. I can reiterate all the qualities that are mentioned above. She is not a giggley schoolgirl, but a mature woman well versed in the art of conversation and absolutely not a clock-watcher.

Had a great time, as always, and hope to keep in touch!

Any source can be good or bad. Its always a good idea, regardless of the source of the ad, to get confirmation both here and on the other boards as to the reviews on a given lady.

In other words, never just rely on the "brand" of the location of the ad ... Get some confirmation. Definitely worth the time investment.

She seems to be checking in here, but she hasn't posted in over a month. Too bad ... her ads are always enjoyable.

Seems reasonable, but you probably want to make sure that info isn't easily accessible on a website, or on Cerb., etc.. That can be one of your phone questions.

Market niche and fees are complex issues, backrubman. It may be that, one day, there will be Expedia-type booking services. But they won't apply to everyone.

 

The way I see it, the Honda Fit, Toyota Yaris and Hyundai Elantra are all decent-quality economy cars. We can argue about which is the most reliable, which is the most fuel efficient or which may have the best features and options. Many people will be satisfied with the car they select and may look for something similar the next time they're looking for an automobile. And rightly so: good value and high performance for the price are compelling factors. Even so, much as they appreciate such things, some people want a different experience and will not consider anything other than a Rolls-Royce. As far as they're concerned, there's no competition. They may even have enjoyed Toyotas in the past. But what they want and expect to pay for is a Rolls-Royce.

Samantha -- I had to chuckle when I read this, particularly in the context of cristycurves recent string about overselling. I agree with your analogy, but it would be really funny if one of our ladies here on Cerb advertised saying they offer "high performance and great value!!"

Hmmm ... I've never had any complaints ... and Malika's point is quite valid.

Cristy -- late to the thread as usual, but just a few basic points:

1. Write your own copy and make it personal so that the reader can get to know you a bit. Something that makes me feel like I know you a bit even though we have never met.

2. Good photos .. from what I have seen, that should not be a problem for you (smile).

3. Frame it all in a really sharp website ... there are many of those here, but one of my favorites is Charlotte Sinclair's. She has done web designing for others as well including, I believe, French Kiss Society in Montreal.

Its really no harder than that.

Also, for me, its no so much about a "fantasy" (although I guess that depends on what your definition of a fantasy is) as it is about meeting an interesting, sexy person.

About 10 years ago, spending $13,000 on a 1972 Mercedes 280 SE 4.5 that I knew needed a little work, and then, about 18 months later and $11,000 in repairs, etc., selling it for $10,000.

Unfortunately according to the rules lifted from the Rules & FAQ we can't.

I respectfully disagree.  I think there's a big difference between, on the one hand, specifically discussing another website ... particularly when you reference it by name, or facsimile thereof, and, on the other hand, honestly talking about the pros and cons of different types of SP related websites.  The OP asked about the latter, and most of the discussion (at least, IMO, the helpful discussion ... smile) has been around that point.  That sort of discussion is, IMO, good for Cerb as it is good content that drives readers to the site, which is good for clicks, ad revenue, etc., etc..

From my perspective, I wish we had more of these discussions, not less, as these sorts of discussions are important to the overall success of Cerb.  People will visit here if they think they are going to get helpful, truthful information ... If they think all they are going to get is "the company line," credibility will suffer as will website business.

Jdelano --

Pm sent.

You cant discuss other boards here, but I dont see anything wrong with your question. Just bear in mind that each board has plusses and minuses, and cerb is usually where I hang out.

Cato -- glad to see you two kids finally got together! (smile)

"Quality is remembered long after the price is forgotten."

Get Charmin dude.

RG, I do understand what you are saying but I have to strongly disagree with parts (little ones ;)) of your post.

 

My priority as companion is to try to keep myself as safe as possible and eliminate the potential bad dates from my agenda; if someone provides me with a board handle, it is MY responsability to verify the information (by sending that person a PM and asking for a confirmation reply) and to not pass on the blame onto the impersonator if it turns out

to be a scam. This is why we call it a screening process. There is absolutely no point in asking for information

(or someone giving it to you) if it is not somehow verified at some point before the encounter.

I'm positive Cato and Pistol Pete would agree with me on this one...

 

Same goes for references- a gentleman might provide me with a reference but if I don't contact the lady and he ends up being the most unpleasant date ever for xxx reason(s), who's to blame? Yes, I agree that a gentleman should act like a real gentleman but unfortunately, not everyone is one/acts like one. All I can say is that if I had done my due diligence in the first place by getting feedback from the lady, I would have declined his request and not gone through a less than desirable experience. Thankfully, most gentlemen involved in this lifestyle are just that- respectful and kind gentlemen who are just looking to spend quality time with a great lady.

 

In the end, no one can change the behavior of others but we, as companions, can definitely (try to) avoid spending

time with those who don't deserve our attention and/or try to use deceptive tactics to 'get' an appointment (false handles- false references).

 

Hope that makes sense ;)

Further to Gabriella's point, maybe another way to think of this is to make that vetting process as easy, quick and painless as possible for the ladies. Be responsive, from a timing standpoint, to follow up e-mails or pm's, etc.. If you are uncomfortable with the ladies' request, explain why and try to suggest alternatives and always, always be honest. Consider it foreplay. ;>)

I will add one more thing ... the OP asked if we thought he was crazy to share personal information. My answer is as follows: I think you need to be careful to make that decision on a case by case basis. With the possible exception of some of the ladies on cerb and some of the other well-established providers, you should not simply assume that your personal information will be treated discretely or be erased. How much of a risk that is to you, given your situation, is an entirely personal matter.

These are great issues, but for me its an absolute rule that I will not share my personal information with a provider ... other than a phone number before the visit. I dont mean that as a slight against the ladies, but there is simply too much at risk. Instead, I use the "brand reputation" that my cerb name hopefully brings (and the other board as well) as a substitute. I can honestly say that I have never been refused an appointment due an unwillingness to share my personal information, but I'm very careful to offer as much other information about me as the lady would like. And I would never speak negatively of a lady that insists upon that information, we just will not be getting together.

You can share that sort of information if you are personally OK with doing so. For me, its a non-starter.

HAve enjoyed reading your posts ... best wishes and good luck!

YAWN!

 

Devastation? What devastation? Hiroshima was devastation!

 

You'll simply get a divorce, you'll finally be single and able to get your freak on whenever you want, your ex will find another man, you and your ex will be civil to each other and you'll still be a good Dad and see the kids every weekend and contribute positively to their lives. Life goes on.

 

It seems you have love and emotional security but a lacklustre sex life. My advice would be to continue your journey to find a relationship which possesses great love AND great sex; in the meantime, screw your brains out! ;-) You are doing you and your wife no great favours by maintaining the boring status quo.

 

Kids understand divorce these days. No biggie. The thing is, be civil to each other afterwards, for the good of the kids.

 

As for money, let her have her 50%. It's just numbers.

This guy was saying just the opposite ... For him, it was Hiroshima.

Nothing wrong with that and I wish him the best in sorting this out.

I think you are looking at the wrong sites then,any,all of the respected sp's I know all maintain their webpages ,as that is our main source of advertising.

Again the point of building a page is to give clients a quick and easy way to learn about us,services and schedules.I am sure most sp's would agree that hearing "what are your rates" every time the phone rings becomes so redundant,annoying,especially when they admit to viewing your page.If a ladies rates are outdated then I would suspect she would honor the rates posted,I would,but I keep my page always updated.

Cristy -- I agree, but a PM or phone discussion asking for a confirmation of the rate At the time of booking seems prudent for both parties. That way there is no possibility of a misunderstanding.

Most of the ladies take Canadian Tire dollars, right? ;)))))))))

I see no difference in reviews ... the ladies like them and its helps potential clients locate ladies. Just need to be careful not to go into too much detail.