rubintugger

I'm ruined for port now. I started with Chateau Gai screw top port, bought a case when it was on sale for $3.95 a bottle (30 years ago). Thought it was great, and compared to beer and rye, it was. Then I tried a glass at a restaurant, actually from Portugal, with an actual cork in the top. Later that evening, upon arriving home, I got out my bottle of CG, unscrewed the top, poured a glass and almost choked! Someone had put kerosene in my port! Or so it tasted like. So my taste buds were ruined for the $3.95 bottle. Sigh. Then one day, after having stocked my shelves with $10-$15 bottles, I again had occasion to sample some port at a restaurant, this one had some Taylors LBV. At first sip, I could not believe the flavors. And upon returning home, found out that kerosene bandit had returned. I had to upgrade my selection to LBV. Then I attended a wine and cheese show. They were offering '63 Taylors at almost $20 a glass. One glass. Not $20 a bottle, but a 2 oz glass. Not learning my lesson, I ponied up the cash, and was given the rich, red liquid. A picture is worth a thousand word, and it only involves sight. Add to that the senses of smell and taste, and I'm sorry, there are just no words. Better than Sex, you ask? In many ways, especially the self indulgence of ones own personal pleasure... yes. I guess sharing it with a partner would have been even better, but it remains one of the sensory highlights of my life. And again, returning to my humble cabinet with my modest LBV's, well... at least it wasn't like kerosene... but life's colors just weren't as bright anymore... So now, when I drink Port, it is $75-150 a bottle, aged and decanted. Would I be a happy today drinking Chateau Gai (whose sparkling wines we had dubbed "The Ginger Ale of Champagnes) screw top port had I not been "ruined"? Probably. But that ruination led to me seeking out many other of the finer things in life. And for that, I am grateful. Bucket list includes a 1927 Taylors... I missed out on a tasting 20 years ago, the local liquor store had one with a cork that was unstable but hadn't been breached yet, and they decided to sell it in a tasting by the glass for $50 a 1 oz glass (the bottle was $1200). I signed up for it, but they didn't get the 26 they needed, so they cancelled. Two weeks later I was in, and the bottle was gone. I asked if someone had bought it, and they told me they had had the tasting on a spur of the moment when a wine club came by. I missed my shot that day, but I will have that before I die...

I guess the question is "Why are you considering hiring the services of a a professional?" If there is something missing in your married life that a professional can satisfy, then your life with your spouse can be a lot better. Partners have different sexual needs and desires, and sometimes not having those desires fulfilled is more damaging to a marriage than filling them. Keeping your activities discreet, being careful not to bring anything home with you, or getting exposed publicly where she has to acknowledge your infidelity, its like it never happened. The "what happens in Vegas" concept. Even something as simple as telling a close friend can upset the apple cart. As long as no one knows, and nothing gets brought home, it never happened. And, having quenched that thirst, you become a better partner, more able to take care of her needs, wants and desires, because you've had the help of a professional to take care of yours. A win/win situation.

You tip $80 for a 45min FS session? They must love you there....

Mp's (like EB/TO) usually offer a clean environment, well appointed rooms with hot tubs, and a selection of attendants to choose from. An independent SP who offers MA services usually doesn't have a massage table or a jaccuzzi, and there is usually just one attendant to choose from. Sometimes, I go to a restaurant and try something new. Some restaurants I don't even look at the menu (Bring me the Friday special, please). It all depends on what I'm in the mood for. Another factor if that few SP's differentiate rates based on services rendered. An hour is an hour, regardless if you're MSOG'ing your brains out or having a relaxing massage (in actuality, the SP's probably have to work harder during a massage session a lot of the time...). So, your cost per hour is generaly higher with an Indie. And no Jaccuzzi. If I knew an indie that had a jaccuzzi (that was clean) and a massage table and offered a relaxing rub and tug for $125/hr, I'd probably frequent her facility regularly...

Wow, now that's flexible...

Another idea, especially if you offer shorter session rates, would be to ask, "I don't seem to be making you happy, are you really enjoying this? Would you prefer to just pay for the half hour today, and maybe try again another day?"

By searching this site, you can see reviews of the ladies you are interested in. This board will only give you recommendations on who to see, not who not to see. So use it appropriately. If you don't see a recommendation for an SP, that means no one here has anything nice to say, or possibly they haven't taken the time to say positive things about her yet, which can sometimes happen. No one's going to tell you not to see someone on this board, just not the way it is set up. But the real good ones have multiple threads praising them. They are very easy to identify. So don't be afraid to use the "search" feature, that's what it is for. As for ladies that you have mentioned, I've seen Soleil and Holland and will repeat with both. That's always the highest recommendation, the "will repeat" stamp of approval...

"Clicking" is very important for the experience. The times I haven't "clicked" have mainly been due to the anticipation not meshing with the reality. Descriptions and pictures (with blurred/missing faces) can be interpreted differently, and when arriving at the location and meeting the SP, expectations can be hard to meet. Not always the ladies fault, sometimes I've read between the lines or assumed things that were essential to my encounter which are not on the table. That kills the whole session, regardless of the mechanics of the sex and eventual ejaculation(s). It can be something as simple as a persons voice, or perfume/incense, incall setup (messy, pets, other unexpected situations) or even the tone of the initial greeting. And, of course, hygiene. Smoke, bad breath, or other apparent hygiene issues kill the mood instantly for me. At that point, it is hard to back out of the appointment without the obvious bait and switch complaint, or an "I'm allergic to cats" concern. The original poster wonders what to do in this instance. All you can do is do your professional best. Maybe, by the end of the session, you can turn it around. Ask questions, try some of your best moves, do "the optometrist" (is it better like this, or better like this). Maybe you can find the 'on' switch. But, regardless, you've been paid for your time, try to make it as enjoyable for the client as possible. If you give 100%, you can never fault yourself. But if you give up and humdrum back at the client and rush him out, you haven't done your job.

Ummm... buy some breath mints. Now you'll have the exact change and fresh breath.

So, you really have no confidence that you can find a date (let alone a new GF) in the next six months? Or is it that you just want to see what dating an SP in public would be like (without having to pay). Wow, either way, thats sad... sorry.

I am assuming you are looking to fist an SP, as opposed to being fisted. You need to be specific in your requests, as you are much less likely to find an sp that does the former than the later... this is a case of it being easier to give than to receive....

"Tipping" in this context is a misnomer. The "Tip" is the ladys pay for the session. I'm not exactly sure what the arrangement at each establishment is, I've heard everything from them getting a shift pay around minimum wage to actually having to pay the house for each session they have. No matter what, there is no way the house can pay them decently out of the room fee and still keep the doors open, so if you do not "tip", you are really disrespecting the lady. Remember, these ladies don't see 10 sessions a day, (well, most of them), so each tip covers more than the time they spend with you. So, for them to work having to put up with any guy that walks through the door, and do it with a smile, they deserve every penny of the "Tip" they receive. Sure, I know you're a hot, toned Brad Pitt clone, and the ladies should be happy you let them touch your body, but seriously... you want a massage without release or tip, go to an RMT.

Bling, if you don't want sexual release, why the heck would you go to EB? The "massage technicians" usually don't have any formal massage training. If you want a massage, go to a masseuse...

Depends on the lady, and the reason for her retirement. Treasured SP's (such as yourself) are lovingly welcomed back with open arms by a grateful community. If you are even considering returning to the hobby, please know that you have numerous fans that would welcome you back instantly, you'll be booked to whatever level you'd like very fast...

Ummm.. any of the well recommended ladies would be more than able to take care of your needs. Most are very caring, attentive lovers, and include the things you are looking for in their regular services. Now, if you're looking for a discount because there is no penis/vagina insertion, that's a different story. I've seen a few ads that specify a different rate for non full service visits, but not many. And I'm not sure you want to limit the session, just in case she's able to charm the snake...

Unfortunately, Winnipeg isn't big enough to have attracted a good agency like Toronto or Montreal have. But then again, with resources like this, and other escort review boards, and canadian escort websites, you really don't need to pay agency fees and upcharges to get a reliable, quality experience here. Agencies can be convienent, and once you build a repore with one, can be very fulfilling. But you need the big bankroll to use them properly. Not a lot of big bankrolls in the 'peg to support a quality agency, and I understand that the ones that are here are fed mainly by the transient business traveller.

Most ladies airbrush tattoos so that they are not as identifiable. It keeps from embarassing situations when someone outside the industry see the pics...

Remember, this is a recommendation board, not a review board. So only positive comments can be posted here. I'm not saying that is the reason for the silence, just stating a fact.

The Winnipeg stings had nothing to do with federal law, its a local by-law infringement issue. If you advertise as an escort, you need an escort license (very expensive here for an indy, less so for an agency girl). So, the ladies are now service providers, and no longer chargable under the by-law. Haven't heard of any sting activity lately. Prostitution is legan, but living off the avails, keeping of a common bawdy house and solicitation in a public place are not. Pimps, incalls, streetwalkers are all illegal, so there are still a lot of ways to "trap" a working girl...

Wondering why Ji wasn't instantly nominated... Each lady has a talent where she shines most, and there are sooo many memorable ladies out there. But for a memorable experience, from shower to kiss goodnight, the energizer bunny Ji certainly is unforgetable.

Either my eyes or my brain is going... first glance, I read "persuit of other goats..." That's just wrong... its too early to be up. Rubin

damn, I have ex gf's that I'd love to have a pay-for-fuck buddies. Talk about a true GFE... and like Wild said, they can't "have a headache", don't expect flowers and expensive presents, can't hit you with the common-law "I want half", you don't have to put up with in-laws or annoying friends, all you get is the good stuff, and at a fraction of the actual cost. Sounds great to me... Now that I think of it, I did have one GF go pro afterwards, she wasn't really a GF, but more of a "when its convenient fuckbuddy". Never got with her after she went pro, spent time with her, but never did the deed again. Was kinda weird, it almost felt like she thought I owed her for past encounters. Rubin

The place he's talking about is across the street from EB/TO, and has been around forever. Various ladies have worked there, offering various types of services, and there have been / are some gems there. It all depends on your tastes. The longstanding "book" on the place is if you don't expect a lavish decor and bikini supermodels, and are on a budget, this place is better than a SW in a back alley. There were guys on another website that swore by it, and others that were shocked at the facilities. It all comes down to your frame of reference and your comfort level. If you pass on someone using a cheap hotel as an incall, you might not want to try this place. If you want to shower before and after, again, maybe not the best call. They cater to a certain clientelle, EB/TO doesn't lose any sleep or business to them, even though they are spitting distance from them. Two completely different business models. Rubin

Sign on door says "Head, Hand and Foot Massage"... First MP where I've seen they actually advertise what they do...

No, that is Alisha. He's talking about Alicia.