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Jude is a good choice near Montreal Rd at the Queensway. GHT

No one likes to admit they could use coaching, ones ego would take a hit. However I'm sure you can learn some things if you get over it. I've also thought of playing games. Like - I'll be the obedient sex slave and you be the master. Some ladies I know would be right into it. Haven't done it yet since I would need to be prepared to be taken outside my comfort zone. GHT

Well said. These adventures are a shared experience. I don't think you can have an outstanding time without both parties being at their best. GHT

Its always a thrill. Sort of like opening presents on Christmas morning.

Good points. Just to clarify, I don't go into sessions trying to be the best lover in the world, thats just setting an unrealistic expectation and would cause disappointment. I'm relaxed and definitely not critical of myself. I make the best of any situation and have come out of 95% of sessions a very happy camper. Like I said, things are good. I'm coming at this from an educational point of view. Its in my geeky nature to ask questions and learn what I can. GHT

I started out hobbying last year with 2 objectives in mind. #1 Find the sexual adventure and intimacy missing in my life. #2 Learn to be a better lover (ie please all women to the max). Objective #1 is fulfilled in my mind. I've met lots of lovely ladies and had great and even completely mesmerizing experiences. Its been just what the doctor ordered. Regarding objective #2, I'd say I've learned quite a bit, however I can't help but think I can do better, and hence this post. In an effort to please the ladies I do what you would expect. I show up for the date hygienic and looking my best. Then some nice chat to hopefully put us both of us at ease. In the heat of the action I try to be very attentive. I watch for facial expressions, body language and listen for verbal queues. I make stuff happen, I don't just lie there. I know I've done a good job if the lady is smiling and resembles quivering jello at the end of the session. However that's not always the case. Here's why: Sometimes if you ask what the lady likes, she says "what ever you like, I'm here to please you". Sometimes the lady isn't into it as much as you would hope. Some ladies are hard to read. Sometimes we don't communicate well. Sometimes ladies give you non-genuine feedback. Sometimes what works for one lady may not work for another. I've never received negative feedback (not surprising, its probably bad for business). It seems the best relationships are the ones with the fewest issues. So I'm asking myself, how do I become an even better lover. My current thinking is to simply do what I've been doing , however concentrate my efforts on the very select few ladies that I really get along with. Try to see these favorites more regularly at the expense of seeing as many new ladies. Continue to build the relationship and really work to please these particular women. Hopefully this will translate into some skills and knowhow. I know its going translate into lots of fun LOL. So what do you think? Do you guys share this quest to please women? If so, what do you do to maximize your learning? SPs, I'm sure you have valuable input on this subject. I hope to hear from you as well. Have a Great Day, GHT

Very likely. I find the reviews to be more reliable. I've seen ladies that don't quite measure up to their professional pics. I've also seen ones where they were complete knockouts even though their pics were awful. Pics just don't tell the whole story. I believe a ladies beauty is a combination of attitude and picture looks. In any case, you don't really what they are like until you meet them in person. GHT

I had the pleasure of seeing Gina for the 3rd time during her recent visit to Ottawa. I have to say that all of our encounters have been top notch. There is passion, sensuality, amazing sex and interesting conversation, Oh ya and her are looks super hot, better than her pics. Can't ask for more. Yes Gina loves to play, loves sex and seems to be a real student of the arts. I know I've only scratched the surface of her carnal knowledge/skills. All these things make her one of my favorite ladies. Thanks Gina , I look forward to your next visit to Ottawa. GHT

Thanks Mod, I cleared all the browsing data as you suggested, no effect. Its weird, if I login with an incognito window it accepts and gives me the "Thanks for logging in" ,then after 5 seconds I get punted directly to the: "Hey there! It appears that you've exceeded the maximum number of posts ... sign up for a free account etc" page. This is definitely a new behavior since yesterday and nothing has changed on my end in terms of SW/HW. Am I the only one?

I've had problems today. Using google chrome incognito windows does not keep me logged in for some reason. I can't see any threads. Just the regular chrome windows work fine. Any suggestions Mod? Thanks.

I'd like to compete in the sex marathon. Start at 9AM, visit one SP after another until I get to 26 or run out of gas more likely. Looking for sponsors.

Sounds like a great product. I'll have to do some shopping. Thanks for the recommendations Sara & Emma. GHT

Yup, that was my Emma experience LOL. Fond memories. GHT

What a great idea Emma. I was thinking of getting a sex toy of the vibrating kind for my SO ... and indirectly for me I guess. Could any of the fine CERB ladies recommend some good products. Neither one of us has any experience with such things. Thanks, GHT

I just don't get it either. If I go to the trouble of setting up a date, I make sure I make that date hell or high water. If something unforeseen did happen I would be sure to phone. It's just common decency. I guess its not as common as I would hope. GHT

I've really liked that show the few times I've watched it.Its entertaining and Billy Piper is hot. I have to be careful at home though. If I made a point of watching it regularly my SO might get the wrong idea HAHA.

I find the difference between good sex and great sex is the level of passion. And for me kissing is the #1 thing making for a passionate, steamy encounter. So while I can definitely have fun with a lady with a no kissing policy, that lady will never be a favorite. GHT

I had a great time with this gorgeous woman. From the moment I walked in till I left, Cindy was smiling and laughing. The conversation was easy, I felt very at ease and I never got tired of staring into her beautiful eyes. Other things that make Cindy special: - she is of the best kissers I've come across. Very passionate indeed. - she has excellent BJ technique with lots of attention to the boys. It's all oral with minimal use of hands, just the way I like it. - fucking her hard just wasn't hard enough, she asked for it harder. She asked for other things too, I was happy to oblige. - she's loaded with great attitude. Thanks Cindy, you put a big smile on my face that lasted for days. Guys, I highly recommended her. BTW - There was no JD involved with my date. I think with Cindy's increasing popularity is making for too much drinking on the job HAHA. She's cutting back I'm sure.

I would try MFM under the right circumstances. Haven't been there yet though. There is still lot's to learn for an old pup like me. GHT

I find chat a little bit scary. Sometime I pop in just to see who there. Sometimes I stick around for a while if I'm comfortable chatting with the people in the room. I'm not going into chat looking to make a date althought I get the feeling that is what some ladies expect or hoping for. To sum up , if I am in chat I'm just killing time getting to know some of the cerb personalities better and hopefully having a few laughs. GHT

I can certainly appreciate fake boobs, however I much prefer natural ones. I love them big and small. Size is just not an issue with me. I figure having big boobs are likely an business asset in the strip club world because its a spectator sport. The more spectacular the better :boobies: LOL. However it might be a disadvantage is the SP world if most of the client population think the same way I do. Good luck with your choice Miel, GHT

Early on I had called a relatively new SP, there was no answer and I hung up. Later I was out shopping and got a text back "Hey Baby, Sorry I missed your call" or something to that effect. No harm done. However if my SO had seen it, I'd be in real shit. That was enough right there to make me get a hobby phone. I got a phone and a $100 pay as you go card at the drug store which should be enough for the year. I receive no bills and I don't have to worry about clearing the call logs. Conveniently the SP phone numbers are saved. For security, the phone is set to lock every time its turned off which is most of the time. I never bring it into the house, however if someone did find it, I would simply claim it was someone elses. That is pretty much as safe as I can play it. GHT

Personally I think its a lot easier to play in your own back yard. I don't worry about being seen at an SPs incall location half way across town. No one I know is going to be hanging out there. Going to a dinner date in Ottawa, now thats a different story. Don't do that. I think you should change your rule to "Don't get caught". Think about what it takes and implement an action plan. GHT

I'm with eddie_b on this one. Being with one SP is mesmerizing enough. Especially for a 1st timer. I've been at it for a while and have yet to have a duo experience. Maybe it will happen this upcoming year. Ideally I would be able to line up 2 of my favorites and they would play real nice. GHT