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Congrats, Berlin! Keep up the input!

I'm of the opinion that if the OP actually has a sex addiction, then this is probably not the site to frequent. I think most people are here to explore ways to enhance their sexual activity- not explore ways to suppress it. On this site, I feel like a kid in a candy store and I am here because I enjoy the interaction. If I'm addicted to chocolate, I wouldn't take a tour of a Ganong factory. I actually do mean this post to be respectful.

Awesome thought. I'm in!

After being fired from a school board job she held for nearly a decade, a Quebec office assistant who moonlighted as a porn actress has wholly embraced the industry that got her into hot water in the first place. The woman â?? who prefers to go by her porn moniker Samantha Ardente â?? set tongues wagging in the spring when her off-hour escapades came to light after a student recognized her in an adult film. Months after she sparked widely varying opinions on her activities, Ardente started a production house for adult films and starred in the company's debut flick. "I feel positive about everything that happened," Ardente said through a translator. "It was a life experience but I came out a bigger and better person." Founding her own adult film company was a step Ardente took only after gaining the approval of her 12-year-old daughter, who had previously been unaware her mother did porn on the side. "I didn't have the time to tell my family what happened, they got to know it through the media," she said, adding that it was hard to deal with the impact her uninvited fame had on her loved ones. "The name of my family was involved in a scandal." Ardente was suspended from her job at a Quebec City-area high school in March after a student spotted her in a porn video on the Internet. While she didn't deal with students in her job, the spicy contents of her videos turned her into quite the celebrity among them. School board officials fired Ardente after they were unable to reach agreement on her transfer to another job. They acknowledged Ardente hadn't done anything illegal but said her cinematic activities don't correspond with the values being taught at the school. Ardente had initially offered to put an end to her pornography career but said the board also wanted to impose working conditions that she felt would be too restrictive. After filing a grievance she eventually reached an out-of-court settlement with her employer. After a rollercoaster ride encompassing both negative and positive reactions to her previously hidden life, Ardente said her supporters inspired her to push ahead with the very actions that touched off the controversy in the first place. "I just continued with my life," she said. Ardente said the production company she launched in August currently only makes tasteful "soft core" movies with couples. In her own film, she stars alongside her boyfriend and business associate Derek Tyler, but says she also has other projects with prominent porn stars in the works. Ardente is already featured in a calendar that can be found in select Quebec stores and has plans to launch a lingerie line in the future. "My life has changed in the sense that people who didn't know me before recognize me in the street as Samantha," she said. "They say that they're happy to see I kept my head up and that I kept going forward instead of looking back."

So many goddesses lately.....so little time. Congrats, Malika.....well deserved.

Warm, sunny day and a motorcycle ride to nowhere.......includes lunch and talk time.

An employee of mine was induced into labor 2 weeks early due to some complications. The baby boy (two weeks old now) was rushed through to the IWK last night due to an infection that has invaded his body. He is now on life support, but stable. Never a good time for a child to hurt, but especially this time of year.

Recover quickly and easily, Eric. Glad you're still with us, bud.

Way to go, Meg. Congrats and thanks!

Congrats, Emma!

Congrats, ma'am! This shows what people think of you.....bravo!!

Smile, wink, slide me a drink, and I tend to relax and let the conversation flow. Of course it can be awkward at first, but hopefully my boyish grin and irresistible charm (:icon_rolleyes: lol)can release a pheromone or two in the room and it's like two old friends getting together. I'll take credit for only 50% of the chemistry in these situations. There are some awesome ladies out there who would be nice to Attila the Hun...that's just how they are. It takes two to tango and I've been very fortunate to have had exceptional dance partners.

If it weren't for the ladies here, it'd be a lonely old sausage party......blech. CERB is unique because of the interaction between the genders. Demeaning the females will only serve to diminish this site. However, it does work both ways and the ladies also have to be careful not to take offense when it is not known whether, in fact, offense was intended. The Golden Rule is a good guide.

Thanks, Tina, and right back atcha!

Dat's my girl (in my dreams, lol)!!! Congrats and thank you, Samantha.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Q4jFyAGHzU&feature=related My apologies if this is already posted.

Almost 2000 posts.......a lot of selfless time spent here. Congrats and enjoy retirement, bud. Internet burnout is a very real malady and it's hard to kick the habit. Check out the world....there's another mountain out there for you.

When I come across them, I do read them. Just as some SP's want to know more detail about potential clients, some hobbiests also want a glimpse of something unique about an SP that would entice them to set up an appointment. It makes the first meet and greet more comfortable and friendly to me. That's another thing about a forum- it allows interaction (albeit anonymous) between the groups that shows something about personalities.

That gave me goosebumps. Thanks for posting. The Christmas spirit is alive and well!

Personally, I would respect her wishes and not go into detail. I also would not supply details via pm. If I enjoyed myself and thought she did, too, I would (if she was okay with it) post a generic reco with a positive spin on it. If I didn't appreciate the results of the appointment, I would remain silent. Sp's and hobbiests are both groups of human beings with real feelings and the Golden Rule should absolutely be adhered to. This thread ties into one or two recent ones that almost went south, so it's good to discuss it.

One of my best buds is a vet. He badly smashed his body on a night jump when his chute failed to deploy. He not only lives in pain every single day, but is also fighting for proper compensation from the federal government. On top of all of that, his wife is in remission from her 4th bout of cancer. He just headed to Cape Breton to bury his cousin......a suicide. My friend has played a tough hand of cards all his life, but hasn't given up, no matter how dark things look. I keep in close contact with him all the time just to keep his mind on positive thoughts as much as possible. When people are down, they need friends and co-workers to support them. Good for you, spud271.......keep up the good fight.

She did well in debating someone who is so against what she advocates.

To each his own, but I agree with you, Cristy. I'm no longer in my early 20's, so teenagers are safe around me. She's a lovely looking girl and I really hope she gets advice and guidance from others in the business who might show her the tools she needs to make wiser decisions.

Even better......running out of hot water just after you've barely gotten started. Holy shrinkage, Batman.

Make up your minds to head to Halifax, gentlemen. We have many beautiful local ladies plus a number of visiting ladies that grace our presence on a regular basis. If you would wish one of them to visit the valley, it could likely be arranged, but would be costlier for you than it would be for you to visit the capital.