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Brad

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  1. Late morning for me. Gives enough time to get leisurely all cleaned up and enjoy some anticipation, and then have the rest of the day afterwards to enjoy a happy memory.
  2. There's a couple threads I think that mention her, but start with this one: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=237185&highlight=morgan I can say she is legit and lovely to talk to and fun to spend time with. Pictures are accurate and if her advertisement interests you you'll very likely find you enjoy your time with her. I know on her Nova Scotia ads at least she'll usually specify you have to call to make contact (no text initially).
  3. Harley, depending on where you live there's likely somewhere local that sells them. Here's a known online store that has a variety of wigs from classic to cosplay for a range of prices: https://ardawigscanada.ca/
  4. She is legit and I'd say worth visiting. Pictures are real and no issues making arrangements. I found her friendly, sexy, and open-minded. Playtime is all in the living room but works. The building location is just fine. The apartment itself wasn't the tidiest, but Kiarah is certainly attractive enough that most of your attention is going to be on her rather than the laundry, I suppose! I found her skills were very enticing...perhaps too much for me as things ended sooner than I would have liked, and once done the remainder of any time went unused and I was on my way. Still, I'd see her again, and echo that if she interests you it's worthwhile to contact her. Edit: Second visit wasn't as positive. She remains legit but the experience she offers is no longer for me. I wish her the best in the future.
  5. There's a couple other discussions on the board with similar questions. Like many terms, the consensus seems to be that everyone really has their own definition for it (so your confusion makes sense!), but generally speaking I've always taken it to mean the person is non-judgmental and willing to hear requests and desires. Now that doesn't mean the person will necessarily perform/indulge those requests, but at the very least you shouldn't have to worry about being judged or brushed off because of them.
  6. On one side, I would agree that it can come down to simple preference, not racism. We don't consciously control or rationally choose what traits we find desirable. If people find they have a special attraction for a certain height, hair colour, build, style of look, fingernail length, or literally any other physical trait you can name, wouldn't it actually be odd if skin colour wasn't included? That said, a couple caveats or points to consider... While I don't think it's automatically racism--at least in the overt definition being used in this thread--to be attracted to certain skin colours more than others, it's worth thinking about why a person is attracted to one colour more than another. We are all of us to a degree influenced by systemic racism. We can try to be self-aware, we can try to ensure we don't act on it and educate ourselves about the experiences of those different than us, and we can certainly ensure that we treat everyone with dignity. But even if it's on an unconscious level, our society and cultural and surroundings affect us. For example, is the reason for not being attracted to someone of middle eastern descent simply a matter of random taste? Or have years of being bombarded with negative media images, alt-right memes, racist humour, and stereotypes unconsciously influenced that preference? If a person is generally speaking more often attracted to someone with lighter skin than darker skin, how much of that is because they grew up bombarded by images on tv, movies, ads, and magazines that overwhelmingly represented a certain race as the standard of beauty? People seem to agree that such media influences the weight, bust size, and age that is considered "ideal". Could it not just as easily have an influence on perception of skin colour and beauty? So no, I don't think being attracted to certain skin colours is overt racism or makes a person any more prejudice than the next. It's not something an individual can choose to "turn off" or change, and it doesn't mean they think that one skin colour makes a person inherently better than another. But I do think it's possible our preferences and attractions could be unconsciously shaped by systemic/societal racism.
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