muncher459

K is for kissing....passionate deep kisses

I appreciate you experience....mine is miniscule to yours,and no you probably aren't a tire kicker, neither am I.... I saw my first internet SP in June of this year....I had to fill out a form...thought nothing of it....advertsing has changed, method of contact has changed, the ladies have changed, and so have the clients...things change...its the way the world works..... thirty years ago SPs weren't trying to deal with anonymous men hidden behind computer screens..there was more face to face contact, decisions were easier to make, the world was a simpler, more honorable place than it is now....As far as I am concerned, anything I can do to make an SP feel better about meeting me the better...even old dogs need to learn new tricks if they are going to keep up with pack. BTW, I will be 60 next month....and have never thought I was too old to change the way I interact with the world

Most of the forms I have seen have an area where you can add a message and give more detailed information as you see fit...no different than sending an email, but the lady is guaranteed to get the information she requires. And yes, if you aren't serious enough to fill out the form....than how serious are you about really seeing the lady.

Doesn't seem unreasonable to me, this is the type of information that I think should be included in any request for a session. It is common to see this type of form if you are contacting a SP through her website, I actually find a form simpler to fill out than writing an email.

Well, it was definitely a question that caught everyone's attention. Probably an honest question if it had been worded a bit more tactfully. Obviously there is a difference between an experienced SP and a fresh new face. Thank goodness there is a variety of ladies to choose from. Anyway, the OP is probably expressing a view that is dependent on his own age, as one moves along in life the age lines start to blur, and the world becomes a much wider, open place.....until you finally reach a point where age just doesn't matter, and most of the SP's are all at least 10 years younger than yourself (me) ....so young versus old doesn't mean a thing....and less experienced versus more experienced is more appropriate...you make the choice that is right for you at any given time.

so does this mean there aren't.....or is there one else on here from Regina?

Are you talking about Olivia Lace from Saskatoon?....what you describe sounds like her. Check Saskatoon bp, she does have website, not sure if she is on this board, but I have seen her on others.

Can't really put it into words....you might call it chemistry.But I do know from experience, even if the first visit was great.... the second or subsequent vivits will probably be better. The reason is trust, it is amazing what a difference that makes. It is amazing but, things get turned up a notch as the trust factor increases. I think it is just instinct, that sense that this is a good fit, that brings you back for more.

Lost....I have never been lost, a few times I have been in a different location then I meant to be....but never lost. Actually the last time I was lost was the last time I had a playdate. Had been given perfect instruction on how to proceed through the lobby doors, going directly to the right room. I did get lost trying to leave...lol. But I blame that on the utterly mind blowing activities of the previous two hours.

Looking for recommendations on the local Regina providers. I know there are some.....I am too new to know who is available in town. Have been having a good run with traveling ladies, but sometimes, being able to arrange something on a day or less notice would be good also.

Sorry to hear your first experience out was not very positive. For starters, next time out, don't bother with a "few" before hand, if you are nervous, let the lady know, I am sure she has had a few nervous clients before, and as far as everything else....YMMV is always a factor. My best advice is to book with a reliable, well reviewed provider, they travel frequently and might be better suited to help you through your opening night jitters

Wow, just wanted to thank all the ladies for their insight to this issue, I have just started out on my journey in this lifestyle and sometimes wish that I had started sooner......but now I see I still have lots of time to enjoy the company of many lovely ladies. I think I need to start planing something special for my 60th birthday....:hump:

Having a good laugh makes you feel better......having a good orgasm definitely makes you feel better......so imagine what an evening combining both can do for you. Well, that's what an evening with Samantha is like. I had the pleasure to have a repeat visit with Ms. Sparkle on her recent visit to Regina, she truly has a sparkly personality. My first visit was just good fun sex.....kissing, hugging, laughing, and......you can figure out the rest. As soon as I saw the announcement of her latest tour, I emailed and asked for a second visit, because it was so far in advance and things can change, our "date" was scheduled very loosely, two days before her arrival, I checked in and we arranged a firm day and time. That evening when I arrived I was warmly greeted, at that point I explained that I was feeling a bit anxious about our second date and I had experienced a stressful week. No problem, off we went to the shower, it was a perfect way to start the evening.....showers are so much more fun with someone else, soapy, slippery skin, sliding smoothly, is very sensual.....somewhere in between all those S's, my eyes opened wide and I uttered...wow, short women can't do that....it's true. After drying ourselves off we got comfortable on the bed, music playing on her laptop....It was there, but I have no recollection of what was playing. From that point on I lost all thought of anxiety and stress.......this visit was different than the last...I assume because of my telling Samantha of the way I was feeling...She took the lead, not that she took control, but lead and pulled me along with her.....she lead me through an experience that I can only say was intense. Our cool down period included the usual chatting, laughing and thought provoking discussion. Even though there is quite a large age gap between us, there is never any hint of that gap in our conversations, just a frank, down to earth woman, who loves life and loves to share her joy with others. One other thing that I also appreciate greatly, is that she gives the best directions on how to get through the lobby to her room, they are perfect ....you walk through the doors, never a need for a moments hesitation to figure things out.....just walk in like you own the place and walk to her door.

I may be a little late into the fray, but do agree with Cristy that sometimes the negative comments that do occur have not been presented in a very nice way. Constructive criticism and frankness, have given way to people bashing others if their expectations are not met, and sometimes this is simply chemistry.But on the other hand I agree that it would be hard to approach a SP about something you found grossly lacking....best to just move on, it would be nice if we could just simple have a conversation about it, but we all have issues that color the way we hear or say things. But sometimes, things do come through if you read between the lines....especially if you have had the same experience, I have seen such comments about SPs that I have had the same experience with....at that point I simply contact the poster privately and compare notes....eventually the type of issue we have experienced, although at the time really isn't a big enough deal to complain about, will surface on its own someplace and lots of people will come forward to confirm, but it is probably not right to bring something up if you might be the only one with that issue I find this board to be both friendly and informative in a very positive environment, other boards suit my advertising needs, and are entertaining in the fact that there are some very "sexist " attitudes out there that you wouldn't expect in a forum dedicated to this type of lifestyle. And I do hate the mean spirited posts that I see else where

well yes, it is that one word that can just be so appropriate in such a multitude of situations, works much better verbally because its true meaning can vary so greatly depending on on the tone and emotion put into it, in written communication is also effective but some of its true meaning sometimes do not come across One of my favorite words.

teasing and pleasing

When I first saw this thread,I thought it was a bit silly......pet people can be a bit strange.......ok my, my name is muncher and I have pets, 4 dogs and two cats. In mt defense I got "custody of the critters" when my wifr and I separated this spring. At times I find them annoying and feel tied down because no matter what I need to be there to take care of them. But you know....there is an upside to this as well....my welcome homes are incredibly high energy....there are good company for the most part(bad habits are part of the deal...they put up with mine with no problem)...I never go to sleep or wake up in an empty bed, and the responsibility of caring for them is probably a very good thing in my life right now. I have considered reduce my crew size, but I always don't follow through because, all in all, they are good company, and I don't to start making that kind of decision right now

This is the first time I have seen this issue raised here (I have only been a member for about 3 months), but it is a problem in western Canada that has is constantly been discussed on other boards. A lot of providers now just list no BBFS on their restrictions, anyone asking gets blacklisted Clients are asking because they know it is on the table with some ladies,whether it be bp or cl, it is a service that is out there on the market. The "just checking " excuse gets used a lot from what I have read, and when a SP gets upset by the question, is used to weasel out the back door,when you know you have crossed the line a lot of providers will blacklist you anyway. It is a hot issue, needs to have a a zero tolerance from the providers, which in turn makes for a safer and happier atmosphere for everyone

I have had lower back problems due to degenerative disk disease, I find that the best thing I can do is RMT combined physiotherapy if necessary (they use something like a TENS machine). All thought some people swear by chiropractors, I find them too rough for my condition(actually went twice before I decided that this was not for me).

Happiness, comes from within, if someone is seeking happiness thru external stimulus, chances are nothing will ever live up to their expectations, from this comes a dissatisfaction with life. Alternately to be truly happy you must be able to be happy with just the way things are today. This doesn't mean that you stop trying to improve the quality of your life. You just enjoy what there is to enjoy today. I have suffered depression all my life, and yes some days my energy levels and mood are down, but there is always something that can give peace and happiness. I eventually have come to realize that everything we need to survive , all the answers we seek are right there inside of us if we stop and take the time to listen to our own intuition and not search out happiness with the herd. Just my thoughs on the matter and good luck to all in finding balance. oh...one more thing, it probably won't happen quickly or easily.

Yes , if by seeing a SP, you are hurting an innocent third party, you might have reason to have doubt and question what you are doing. On the other hand if it is not causing harm to anyone , and as stated it is a mutually agreeable situation, then sit back and enjoy the moment. What ever the reason you have included this lifestyle into life at the moment, and it could be purely situational, or fulfilling fantasies or what ever, as long as everyone, including yourself , has entered into it freely and happily, then no problem. Another thing you may want to consider if you are haveing doubts is to ask yourself, is what you are doing just a diversion that keeps your mind off some other issue that you should be dealing with. Any way just my thoughts on the situation.

check out the advertisers thread, locals and providers traveling thru have schedules listed there

Sorry to hear of you situation, just going thru it myself, for what ever reason one chooses this solution it is still a difficult decision to make. What my wife I have done was to sit down put together a proposal of how we wanted property to be split up, (no children, so a much simpler situation)and how to deal with pensions....and really this stuff is governed by law. She then took it to a lawyer, he advised her, they made some minor changes that did not change the spirit of the proposal. I then took it my lawyer ....she did question if this was what I really wanted, but accepted it. and now it it being formally sent to do what ever legal hocus pocus needs to be done to make it a legal separation. One thing you must remember is that what ever lawyer you choose, make it clear that they are working for you and to give you advice and prepare the documents to be sent to the court. That being said, weight their advice carefully-because sometime we do give up too much to the other because of emotional baggage. But do not let them start an adversarial war. Oh...one more thing, be nice and co-operative with your partner and don't openly start screwing around until after you have a legal separation.....pissed off partners don't make life easy when it comes time to negotiate deals. Just my personal perspective, and like ever other piece of advice use at your own caution