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I found:
"Japanese for Dummies: Audio CD"
An x-ray of my brothers teeth from the dentist, circa 2003
A box for a ring
Which is weirdest?
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Good morning gentlemen.
In addition to sensual massages and lapdancing, Megan's Touch and I are offering Nuru Massage. We love to kiss, massage, and bodyslide each other too.
'Nuru' means slippery in Japanese, and Nuru Massage is the slipperiest, sexiest, and hottest of all massages. A slippery, warm, odourless and water soluble gel is used in a pre-heated room. This is meant to keep us as comfortable as possible throughout this wet experience.
Both before and after the massage, you'll have a shower with either Megan or myself. Mmmm.
For more information about how to contact us for an appointment, please view either Megan's website, or mine.
Fondly,
Nat
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Ladies did you know you can stds from oral sex! :oThat's a big safe sex nono!
I don't mean to hijack this thread, and for that, I apologize Empty83. I simply wanted to address this concern by RyleeLove.
Rylee, everyone practices safer sex differently, and we (at least I hope I can speak collectively here) do not tolerate judgment about these types of practices on CERB. The only safe sex is no sex at all, which isn't very fun. That being said, people (be they SPs or not) make educated decisions about their sexual health and evaluate risk based on a huge array of factors.
Is it possible to get an STI from unprotected oral sex? Yes. However, the statistics are incredibly low, and there are various things people can do to mitigate that risk.
It's definitely not a safe sex nono. It might be for you, but not for all.
In terms of the original question, I find it very sexy when a partner achieves orgasm, no matter how that happens :) Personally, I don't offer some of the acronyms listed there, but it's definitely hot to see both men and women orgasm.
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Happy Birthday! =D
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Happy Birthday :)
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I went to a social once, and there were a few people there who knew my real name. One person introduced me to someone and said "this is _____". The name they used was my real name, and I didn't know who they were introducing me to. Turns out that person was using my name as a work name. Initially I thought they were introducing me to people using my real name. I almost shat myself.
It's wasn't a big deal, and turned out to be quite innocent, but my gosh. It was a shocker moment!
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Don't tell her parents. Ever. That is her decision, and hers only. That is the only way to handle this.I completely agree. It isn't your information to tell and she would benefit more from having a supportive friend than one who expressly violates her trust.
Her parents questions aren't your issue and they should be speaking with her directly if they have concerns.
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Like Samantha, I consider myself to be a companion. At times a label is simply a matter of semantics, but I do believe this term to be a much more representative of the type of experience I offer. It is also representative of my attitude while I'm hosting.
Like Cat, I consider my clients to be guests. Colloquially I will sometimes refer to my guests as clients. I've used patron in advertising before, but I never (ever) use "John" or "Hobbyist".
"John" as a term really homogenizes all clients, and it also reinforces stereotypes about the 'typical' client we hear about in the media which we all know isn't accurate. I've never really understood the term 'hobbyist' to be honest.
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I've updated my blog a few times and forgot to post the updates here. I'm so scattered lately (school urgh)
Enjoy! Here's my blog.
Nat xox
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--swoons--
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Happy Birthday! I hope you celebrate your many accomplishments today and are surrounded by friends, family, and loved ones!
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Here's a list of some of my all-time favourite books:
"Kushiel's Dart" by Jacqueline Carey
"1984" by George Orwell
"The Kite Runner" by Khaled Hosseini
"The Lovely Bones" by Alice Sebold
"Self" by Yann Martel
"My Sister's Keeper" by Jodi Picoult
"The Clan of the Cavebear" by Jean M. Auel
"The Swimming-Pool Library" by Alan Holinghurst
"Fall on Your Knees" by Anne-Marie MacDonald
"The Hours" by Michael Cunningham
"Sexing the Cherry" by Jeannette Winterson
"The Postmidstress" by Sarah Blake
"Tales of the City" by Armistead Maupin
"Chorus of Mushrooms" by Hiromi Goto
"Valencia" by Michelle Tea
"Zami" by Audre Lorde
"On Chesil Beach" by Ian McEwan
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RG, you're amazing.
Keep the ramblings coming.
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Finally, I sometimes wonder what I would do if my daughter, who is now 13, came home someday from university and told me she had taken up escorting. I think I'd take her aside, and have a long conversation with her about why, but mostly talk about how she was conducting her business. Is she safe, does she have a good incall location, how is she screening clients, etc., etc. Most importantly, I'd want to know that she had found a supportive community of other providers, who could help her and advice her. I'd also have to figure out a way to explain how I know so much about it.Porthos
Some of my clients have children around my age. At times, the topic comes up and we discuss their futures, what they are doing, and how they are supporting themselves (financially and otherwise). When I feel particularly courageous (because it does take courage) I sometimes ask my clients if their daughters, who are around my age, were to start escorting, how they would react.
Their responses are often a very stark and honest portrayal of their thoughts on this industry, and the women and men within it. At times those reactions are hard for me to hear. Like I said, I sometimes need courage but feel it's a good opportunity to make a small shift, or to remind my clients that I'm also a daughter. In fact, I'm a daughter with incredibly supportive parents who understand and appreciate what I've decided to do to support myself throughout my education.
"I would never let my daughter do that", they sometimes say. Or "she has no reason to do that because I provide this and that for her". Sometimes it's simply an honest answer "I would find it really hard, and would want to convince her to do otherwise".
The comfort with someone else's daughter doing it, but not your own, is a testament to work that needs to be done. It's also a broader reflection upon us, at times. Hence the courage.
As RG often says, a few ramblings.
Nat xox
p.s. I'm really not ashamed at all. Society makes me feel like I should be ashamed but I'm smart enough to know that I'm not the problem.
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Sitting with a travel agent from CAA, and discussing the various tours of South America I could do in August before my conference.
I'm leaning towards a 17 day tour at the moment, followed by the conference in Buenos Aires and the post-conference training. I would be away for 28 days! OMFG!
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Facebook thinks I have a love for traveling [with Expedia] (true) and that I love cheese [Tre Stella] (also true)
Facebook (or its sponsors) also wants me to test drive an eco friendly convertible o_O (how does Facebook know I don't have a car anymore?!)
Oh, I'm also a lesbian according to Facebook (I'm with Malika on that one). >.>... <.<... no comments.
Nat xox
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This thread is adorable. Please keep the posts coming <3 I used to own a dog, and here's what I would say about him...
Name: Jackson
Breed: Sheltie
I am an SP.
I'm really hyper, and don't listen particularly well. I'll keep you very entertained with my stories and I'm always very happy. If you treat me well, I will adore you forever... Especially if you tip me with doggie treats.
I like to sleep on my back with my feet up in the air and when I dream I make lots of sounds. If you make any sudden movements I will bark at you. Once I realize it's you, I'll lick your face instead.
Hobbies include: running, jumping, playing, and chewing on things. I hope you're into that.
If you would like to book an appointment, please e-mail my owner at [email protected]. She's my booking agent because I can't type. I don't have thumbs =(
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- I brush my teeth in the shower (always).
- I always wash my hair at the very end of a shower.
- When I eat ice cream I always equalize by eating tiny bites across the surface and I don't like when people take big bites and leave huge dents (although I kind of like it because then I have to work really hard to equalize the ice cream all over again which results in me eating more of it).
- Once the ice cream starts to melt, I eat the melted bits on the side near the edge. I always eat my ice cream in this way.
- I always eat the colourful smarties first.
- I sometimes look at myself in the mirror and talk to myself.
- I clean, compulsively (is that quirky, or just anal?)
- When I cook I always follow a recipe, and never modify it. I don't like 'winging it'.
- I have dance parties in my living room, alone.
Just some quirks,
Nat xox
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I'm off to Argentina! My abstract was accepted for a conference in August. I posted about it in my blog: http://lovely-nathalie.com/blog/
Nat xox
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This is me playing with Nuru gel in my bikini! :) it's fun!
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I think we all have multi identities and many ways of being in the world. I'm an escort, but I'm also a lover, sister, friend, student, and yogini. Some things aren't relevant in certain contexts, and we all have things we would simply prefer not to discuss.
All of my friends and family know what I do; unfortunately, being able to live life openly is a privilege only few share in this industry. The only time I've ever lied is with an intimate partner who did not support me seeking my financial independence through escorting. Suffice it to say, we are no longer together.
For some people, the 'double life' is necessary for their mental, physical, and emotional health. It's not necessarily bad, and it doesn't necessarily cause dissonance. For some, it can be very healthy and I've heard many gentlemen echo (both on the board and face-to-face) that the experiences they have with service providers help create and maintain a balance in their lives...
Despite the 'double life' at times (managing/mitigating risk and making sure not to get caught), I think that's a really beautiful thing.
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My secret indulgence is hobbying ;)
Cat is out of the bag now...
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