WhereIRoam

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Last Sunday I made a mistake. I chose to inform members of something about an SP, thinking it was the "right thing" to do. I was wrong! I could have gone about it another way. I had befriended this SP, there is nothing wrong with that. After speaking with this SP after the damage was done, I came to realize she didn't even know a mistake had been made. Her Lyla account is suspended for 1 year. I can't take back what I did, I wish I could. I feel so guilty for this, I feel as though I stabbed her in the back. She is a kind human being, a sweetheart in fact and a really great provider. I'm sure she will be back and to her, "I am truly sorry! I wish you the best!" ***I want my account suspended for one year.*** P.S. I want to thank everyone who has helped me out and been kind to me since I joined Lyla. I wish you all the best as well.

GoinDown, I'm really not trying to start anything but you have to be able to see the humor with regards to your second post, "...seeing one's own words in print... quickest to 1000 posts etc. lol." It's your fifth post on this thread. I just find that funny.

Losing being able to see a great provider.

Indeed! Here's a tip. I use Google Chrome all the time on my PC, when browsing. It's set up so that anytime when I right click on a pic. I can then left click on the bottom option (search Google with this image). Results show in 2-3 seconds. You can search the pics of an average BP ad in less than 2 minutes.

95% sure it's fake. Only pic 2 and 5 didn't have hit on pinterest, overseas or some other possible stolen pic area. But even pic 5 looks a little too "Glam" IMO. So 99% convinced it's fake.

Agree, I am well aware what most votes will be. Just curious on the percentages, if it could surprise me...You never know, some could feel it's wrong but still partake. Similar to how I feel texting while driving is wrong but that doesn't mean I never do it. ;)

Keep in mind these polls are kept with confidentiality, no one will ever know who answered what. I'm just curious what the final result could/will be. I'm not necessarily looking for added posts here but feel free if you choose to.

If you feel guilty about being on here. Does that mean you feel this industry is wrong...that it shouldn't exist...it should be kept criminal as it is between two fully consensual adults? Maybe that's another thread of it's own.

Read me last line on the OP. Right below the doted line across the screen. ***Not in regards to this industry.***

When one is informed or gains knowledge that poses an "issue" to another person or a group of others and feels/knows action should be taken, even when the "right way" to go about it is chosen, a feeling of guilt can still very often present itself to that person. The sense of doing and following through with doing what is right for a greater number or a cause can or does have consequences for a person or smaller group involved within the issue at hand. (ie: A mother knows her son committed murder and reports him to the police. The "right thing" was done but her action has a consequence and can or will most often leave her with a sense of guilt.) Not always or even often a win/win situation when dealing with certain topics.

Definition of guilt: 1-NA 2- a: the state of one who has committed an offense especially consciously b: NA 3-a feeling of deserving blame for offenses Guilt is a cognitive or an emotional experience that occurs when a person believes or realizes --accurately or not-- that he or she has compromised his or her own standards of conduct or has violated a universal moral standard and bears significant responsibility for that violation. It's appropriate to feel guilty when you've done something wrong. Feeling the emotion of guilt for an action deserving of remorse is normal; to not feel guilty, in these cases, may be a sign of psychopathy. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- *Not intended towards 100% fully consensual affairs within this industry.*

Alanna was easy to book with. Didn't have to wait when I arrived. :) Pretty face, nice smile and an overall good looking woman. Great personality, was really friendly and made me feel comfortable. Had a good session. She was a fun to be around. Enjoyed ourselves throughout. Spoke a little afterwards. She's a french SP from the Montreal area and has visited a couple times over the last few weeks. Pics are hers but she's a little heavier yet still very much attractive. She was an all safe experience. ;) Repeat: Maybe Recommend: yes

LMAO! This Sexy Blonde is in Ottawa tonight as well!?! http://ottawa.backpage.ca/FemaleEscorts/blonde-dream-girl-new-%E1%97%AFet-and-tig%E1%95%BCt-slim-curvy-and-perfect-unforgettable-xo-647-491-0969/66831073 Twins Maybe... just kidding!

I think seeing BBFS is enough for a punter with any brains to know to stay away. Really, if we need to flag it for a punter to know not to go see that SP just means they're not a smart punter in the first place. Right?

What do you mean by flag?

This is my vote. Kate in Kanata: http://ottawa.backpage.ca/FemaleEscorts/new-number-ultimate-addiction-will-b-l-o-w-your-mind-sexy-wild-kate/41452452

No worries: It shows you care and that you do research. We all learn. No shame in that!

FYI Melanie: All of those sites that you see that state an escort are working with the police are fake. Law Enforcement would never let the public know that a specific escort is working with them. They are made up dating sites. People are hired to look for escorts and post such web sites, they usually link to the dating site they are being paid by. Try one and see... Different phone numbers... Many travelling escorts use phone apps to have a local number to were they are to keep costs down with their cell phones. Anyone can do it. Just info you should know. Not saying the ad is real or fake but those two things I just mentioned do not prove she is fake. Also, about pics being found elsewhere, doesn't mean fake either. Quite a few escorts travel to work. Most hits that are obvious fakes are if hits show up with Instagram, Porn sites, Overseas... stuff like that.

Fake pics... https://instaliga.com/ru/avital_akko?page=1419093877050410848_34130587&loadCount=1 https://www.google.ca/search?q=Avital+Akko&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwjD-47dyv_SAhVH8GMKHaSGCogQ_AUIBigB&biw=1680&bih=886

Sorry, no act is mentioned or at least shouldn't be according to Lyla guidelines. Body rubs and slides as well as kissing are not sexual acts.

Happy 11th anniversary with Lyla. <------(Obi One Kenobi) I'm still a week shy of two months. <-----(still wet behind the ears)

Mikeyboy... Happy Birthday! Enjoy it...

I wait 1 to 1.5 hours. Let's face it, most common visits are a half or full hour. Waiting 15 or 20 minutes is not long enough and waiting more than 2 hours is too long. IMO.

I know I may get bashed my Club Lovers but the scene is slowly dying out. If you look back at just over the last 20 years, it has been on a decline. Yes, the panties rule would not be a good thing at all for the dancers industry, but I don't think they should come off at all. Let's face it, clubs are not the most sanitary places. I think a thong or g-string is still very nice to look at and leaves a little to the imagination. It is called a strip club but that doesn't mean you have to strip naked. Love camel-toe! Just my opinion.