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Unless I'm missing something, this is why I would not consider it confirmed. Don't know what the *****s mean, so that's why I'm not sure if I'm missing something.
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Sorry this happened. From what I see, he did not confirm, so it's not a no show. It's someone who seems to enjoy dangling a possible appointment in front of you, but as he didn't confirm, he's not a cancellation. I see you use exclusively text. I use a 2 step process. They must call to verify their intention. I need to hear them say to me, "yes, I would like to see you at 9". This puts it back on them. I don't chase them, just tell them the process, if they follow, then I move forward. If they don't follow, I move on and book someone else. However, I think it's also important to point out, I never get into an argument with these idiots either. Your tone when you stated he owes you $60 was angry, and a thinly veiled treat to out him. It doesn't get you anywhere, and puts you at a disadvantage. I NEVER tell them I will blacklist them. The word is too close to blackmail and that's all they see. Their safety is now in danger they feel as you are going to do something bad if they don't payyou the "extortion" fee. That's how they see it. It's not reality, but that's all they see and will proceed this way. So, yes, make sure you are using proper screening, verify confirmations to prevent tire kickers, and idiots. Some will still slip through, but it will greatly reduce the volume of time wasters. If you want clarification on screening methods that work, feel free to ask. Xo
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I love them both, but recognise who's actually in control here.
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Fake photo!! Fake fake fake
Meaghan McLeod replied to farrell36's topic in Ottawa Discussion - Escorts
http://www.tineye.com Or Google image search is another option. Doesn't catch everyone but it's a start. -
Getting back to the topic. Reasons why I screen. On a daily basis, I receive random inquiries from those that have no intention of booking. They are bored, want to fulfill a fantasy but don't intend to actually pay, or just like wasting my time. I adore new inquiries that are serious. However, if they have sent a couple dozen email and don't actually book, I consider them time wasters. I also receive inquiries from some who only want to collect my address. They pretend to be serious, then after getting the address, they vanish. So, now comes the scary part. There is someone out there that knows where I live, but I have no idea who they are. So when a strange new vehicle drives by my place at 2am, I don't know if it's the guy earlier who got my address and then didn't show up. The pic collectors. They use different means to contact me, claiming they want to see me, but want to make sure my pics are real. They want a face picture but balk when I ask to see theirs first. So, you really want me to send you a picture of my face, so you can go show your buddies? Post me on the dirty? Find my social media account to let my friends know? So you can stalk me and I have no idea who you are? Hotel/residence calls. I've had guys hiding in closets, multiple guys at the location, hidden cameras, guys in the other room who think hell you're here, if I give you an extra 20 will you do us both? Or, my favorite. The address doesn't exist, they are not in the hotel room and down the hall and just want to see a whore knocking on someone else's door. They get great kicks out of this. They don't want to give the actual address and will meet me at the highway exit and I can hop into their vehicle and he can drive me there. Their explanation is that's it's too hard to find. Yea right, I'm really going to go somewhere and not have an actual location. By the time the cops find my body, the scavengers have picked my bones clean, and there no way to determine who I went to see. I need a number I can call you at in the event something changes. Emergency, illness etc. I've only had to cancel twice and I made it up to him, but I need a working number to contact you. Or I need to call you to say "you're at the wrong address". I've blocked them because they want unsafe services. Even one who took his condom off and tried to pin me down. He had sore balls I'm sure, but had the audacity to try to see me again from a private number. I recognized his voice so was able to avoid a murder. Cause in reality, as an Irish Aries, I have a shovel AND a bag of lime. It ain't happening. These are just some of the reason I screen. I don't really care if you like it or not. I've had a steady presence online for 9 years. If I was the type that wants to do you harm, it would be reported by now. So, again, if you don't like the screening methods, move along. I don't really care about your reasons. I have my reason and quite frankly I don't owe anyone an explanation. Don't tell me how to run my business. I do quite well thank you.
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I always find it amusing when slobyists come on boards and say things like "wait, but, but, but, you need to listen to why I disagree with the way you want to run your business. I've been seeing providers for 25 years and I know everything about the industry". Until the slobyists put their picture online, post an ad and start taking calls, they have no idea how it is to be on this side of the business. Stop lobbying for providers to do things your way. If she wants to screen fully, it's her choice. If you don't like that method, move on. If you find her reasons rubbish, move on. Quit complaining about YOUR RISKS. I get it, you mistrust providers. I've been raped, assaulted, robbed, mistreated, my safety treatened. Even knowing their real name, where they worked, where they lived, it hadn't protected me. I was alone with a man who choose to disregard me and my right to be safe. Never once have I used the information inappropriately. Quit whining over why YOU feel we should not follow a system that at least gives us some options in the event things go south. I even had someone who refused to give me his name and insisted his online board presence was sufficient. I didn't care less, told him my rules. He begged me for months yet refused to give even the slightest bit of information. I'm not a heavy screener and will work with the client to find something that works for both of us. However, the moment someone tries to get me to bend the rules for them, the result was ALWAYS the same. I was raped I was assaulted I was robbed My safety was compromised All because the guy said his safety and security was more valuable then mine. This didn't happen just once. It's a real issue for providers. I despise it when slobyists try to tell me or my sisters how to run our business. You don't like it, get the fuck off my runway. There's a dozen other guys who treat me with respect, love and adoration. They follow my rules and would never jeopardize their opportunity to see me. Peace and love.
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Welcome and enjoy!
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[ My zipper keeps falling down...
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I am staying in Moncton for a bit, so available for outcall. 11am- 10pm. Please email at [email protected] for fastest response. 200 hr/140 hh Hope to see you soon.
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New girl seeking advise
Meaghan McLeod replied to KatieKross's topic in New to this? Things you should know...
Katie, once you have made 5 posts over 5 days, you will go out of moderation. Welcome! -
Methods of Contact
Meaghan McLeod replied to Frank NB's topic in Escort Discussion for New Brunswick
Are you referring to backpage? If so, they now require we link a social media account to our ad. Doesn't mean we would like contact through that means. Just that we are now required to link an account - even if it is fake or stolen from someone else. -
Happy birthday old dog. I've missed you. If you ever see this, throw us a bone and come back more please?
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Happy birthday. Hope it's an amazing day.
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Happy new year to you too. I want to wish all the Herring Chokers a great new year.
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Clarification. As an independent provider, I am allowed to advertise my services. Clients are not allowed to purchase sexual services, which is why I do not advertise sexual services. Third party advertisers (backpage, handlers, spas, agencies etc) are not allowed to advertise sexual services of another person.
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I wish you the best of luck. A relative had numerous bi pass operations and takes blood thinners. He is approaching 90 years old and still kicking. The blood thinners are an issue and he can't stop taking them. He quit smoking and reduced his alcohol intake. Another had valve replacement but was never a smoker or drinker. She died of cancer at 82. As an ex smoker and drinker, I suggest you get healthy no matter which way you go. Follow the directions of your surgeon. Take this as a wake up call and do anything you can to get healthy. So many people don't get the opportunity you have. They just die of a massive heart attack. Others wait too late after the damage is too severe. Personally, I would do anything to avoid the meds for life. However, I avoid almost all meds so I'm biased that way. Have you considered combining holistic therapy and traditional? Again, I wish you the best in your recovery.
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Yes, it's a scam site. Let me guess, they have escorts that are NOT busted if you want to join/pay their site.
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Slightly crazy suggestion?
Meaghan McLeod replied to davebhome's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
As a provider in a small town, I see the ads you are referring to. BP and craigslist are the main advertisers used here. Most hobbyists are not aware of the review boards. A lot of providers as well don't know. So it can be a crap shoot when a new ad pops up. Looks great, nothing showing up to dispute she's a fake so let's go and check her out right? However, I know guys who have been robbed, asaulted and blackmailed. All in the hope this "unknown" is the real deal. There is a very strong gang operating and trafficking underage and coerced women in the maritimes. Putting a newspaper in the selfie will not address this. If you are comfortable taking your chances, by all means, keep doing it your way. However, just fully understand the risks you are taking. Good luck. -
Baking supplies. Been busy baking all the cookies I remember from childhood. I'm going to be as big as a house if I don't watch it.
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Happy Holidays, Everyone!
Meaghan McLeod replied to drlove's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
I hope everyone has a safe, loving and pleasurable holiday.