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  1. DyatlovPass

    Sara kijiji and leolist

    She used to be in Montreal for a long time, as Sophie. She's British. She worked in various places in the area: Vaudreuil Dorion, and St Lazare all the way back in 2009. Everything you need to know is out there.
  2. DyatlovPass

    Guide to TOFTT

    Oh I have read the board rules alright and read the board enough to know that those rules are dumb as f***. It's not by any means a well functioning board, because the rules are designed to suppress participation and the sharing of info. How does "absence of recommendation = provider bad" makes any sense? Absence of lightning doesn't tell me it's sunny. You're delusional with your "members can read between the lines". If they could, this board would be actual useful content instead of being 75% "hey did you see X" and 20% you giving your opinion on everything. But hey rules are rules, and I abide by them. Nobody's forcing me to be here, that's true. I think it's deplorable that this is the only board in the area.
  3. DyatlovPass

    Guide to TOFTT

    By "word of mouth", I mean exactly that: reviews by clients and information shared between clients. I think it's a bit disrespectful, frankly, to place on providers the burden of doing their promotion - they're not selling donuts, they're selling something that can ruin their reputation, get them a criminal record and get them hurt or killed. Perhaps if we had a well functioning, honest board, the word of mouth would be easier. Instead, we have a half-dead crappy board where people can't report bad reviewers and where 75% of the content is people pointlessly asking "have you seen X" with a leolist link that's gonna be broken in 4 days.
  4. DyatlovPass

    Guide to TOFTT

    Often times, they have to prefer secrecy because of the social stigma and the laws. Same for us, too in a sense. At the end of the day, as long as those stigmas exist, we won't fix the problem. I agree with you that social media and boards might soon be the best way, with the crackdown on Backpage and co. and the factors you mentioned. But then what if boards are pressured the way BP or CL were, deplatformed, or if Facebook is finally reined it by lawmakers? You know, I think I disagreed initially because my definition might be different from yours. I don't see clients reviewing SPs as doing their promotion. I see it first and foremost as clients protecting themselves, as consumers. Other side of the coin: ladies that are quite apt at advertising, but are misrepresenting themselves and Bait & Switching. To that, I prefer a SP whose internet game is lacking, but let the word of mouth work in her favor.
  5. DyatlovPass

    Guide to TOFTT

    What? When a woman signs up to do sex work, she don't necessarily sign up to manage social networks on top of that and engage with johns online. Reviewing SPs (positively or negatively) is the johns' responsability, period. That job looks already hard and dangerous enough as it is, and can ruin a sex worker's private and professional life, and social reputation. Staying off the internet as much as they want is their prerogative. Who gets to decide how much "in the dark" or "off the grid" she wants to be? Her, I reckon.
  6. There are two Sara(h)s. It's getting confusing and I added to the confusion with my previous reply, my apologies. Sara in Bedford uses two Montreal area phone numbers. She's posting as Sara on the L site, and under Melanie or Mb on Kijiji. Sarah K is in Sackville and works with Robyn. Local phone number ending in 1195.
  7. I think it's the phrasing here, he seemed to say unprotected was low. I doubt that was his intention. Anyhow, it was not to attack the guy at all. On the contrary. Protected, the risk is as low as it can get. It's virtual impossible to catch something (except herpes) with a condom, as long as they don't break. Unprotected oral: risk is nil for HIV, low for anything else although it can happen. Unprotected sex: even if chances are you'll be fine, I wouldn't risk it, stakes are too high. I think that's a good rule of thumb.
  8. I would not say the risk of unprotected heterosexual intercourse is "low", not at all. That's how most STIs are transmitted (since anal is less prevalent).
  9. DyatlovPass

    Sara kijiji and leolist

    Apart for the pic on LL where a blonde woman is massaging a man lying on his back, yes it appears to be the same person. Talked to her once, British accent. Seemed very pleasant, couldn't tell what kind of service was offered based on her previous Kijiji ads. Now I have a good idea.
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    Asian massage on kijiji

    This thread is the Groundhog Day of threads 🙃
  11. DyatlovPass

    Jay 28 on LL

    I am tempted too.
  12. Anybody else saw her before she left? She don't appear to be around anymore. According to her insta, she seems to be back in NB because "as much as I love Halifax it wasn’t in my plan for this time in my life".
  13. DyatlovPass

    younger sp

    Apologies, the phrasing confused me. I thought you meant all sex workers, not the ones in the 18-19 age group specifically. I read it completely wrong - or too fast, or both - and was really surprised to read that from you. Thanks for clarifying.
  14. DyatlovPass

    younger sp

    That's quite the claim, to say that 100% of sex workers are or have been trafficked and/or started as minors. Would like a second opinion from other sex workers, please.