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  1. TorontoMelanieJolliet

    Daty, DFK, CIM

    Basically, no matter what your business model, it's just rude. As a woman, it's just rude. And "lots of DfK" is just weird and not exactly manly. That's just how it comes across. Some men got it and some men don't. If someone were to ask about kissing that would be way different than "lots of DFK". I mean really... what does "lots of" mean anyways? The OP wants his checklist met. He is seeking a certain type of girl and business model. Also bbj with cim is usually considered in a pornstar-like session. And he just added it to his list. He made no distinction that is might be part of different experience. So all that, from a total stranger, is demanding and disrespectful (cuz she may offer those things but he has put her on the defensive by being demanding and not allowing her to basically defend herself, yes it's that kinda feeling those demands put on a girl, it's THAT bad) and puts someone in the position to be angry, offended and totally want to not meet that person, ever. She may offer those things anyways.. but you still have to ask nicely. More flies with honey than vinegar. Dude is probably used to communicating with "handlers" or "trained" girls who don't exactly view "tricks" in a much better light either. So they are made to get together for these things. Thing is a guy like this will upset a girl who is not his match, want to fight about it when instead he should have just moved on. Deleting and blocking can be done, but just wait for the app number to come through so he can finish it by pretending he is someone else... you all don't understand. But OP, after reading through these responses, should now see that is method of demanding things is not welcomed by everybody and should seek out certain girls who will accept this. But I still have a feeling he doesn't really care about what is said here. I believe he was on a mission ๐Ÿ˜• You walk into McDonald's. McDonald's does things to make the customer experience comfortable. They take pride in offering these little things. But you want to make sure you get those little things. So you make a list and make the demand. Each demand gets the employee a little more miffed as each demand was available to you already, you would have seen, if you just enjoyed the experience. But you demanded it, and employee has to try to convince you that it is already going to be a part of your experience. It's more work, it creates a chasm between you and the employee and your whole experience today at McDonald's. And you have insulted the practices that are in place, to make your experience the best. And that's on you, not McDonalds.
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    Daty, DFK, CIM

    But some people don't care about passion and only want the checklist. Humanising also is not important. For some the whole experience is one where they get to pretend that SW has a number of clients and does their bidding all day long. They think that when they see a SW they are doing her a favour (by actually paying, what they want of course) so she does what he wants out of obligation. That is why there are different business models. Since most of the girls who contribute here do NOT enjoy or offer on that business level, this post is really shocking. But on other sites it is normal. These type of customers are normal on those sites. Seems some people want to change the direction of this site, so they can participate more or influence, as influencing (from clients) became less of a thing since FOSTA/SESTA (which POTUS signed to appease his base). People want to take the power back. It is reflective of the times. Just look south for the mood... and follow it here. It spills over...
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    Turn ons for both us providers and Hobbiest

    One turn on for me: Using markers to draw Toad from Mario Kart ๐Ÿ˜‚ as long as he doesn't call me horseface... ๐Ÿคญ... that would be a turn-off
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    HAMILTON, Ontario

    I think some training is in order. ๐Ÿ When answering inquiries make the distinction between being an escort ๐Ÿ‘„๐ŸŒ๐Ÿ† and being a massage attendant ๐Ÿคฒโ˜ฏ๏ธโ˜ฎ๏ธ. One simple thing to know/impart is that escort will charge more for their services while massage attendants will not charge as much (one reason being that the health risk is less). But people have to remember that each still has expenses as well as needing to make enough to cover bills/rent etc. If they start asking for escort services acknowledge that. If they are looking for massage services acknowledge that too. Training involves teaching people the names for things so they can learn to make the distinction. And remember: the law allows service providers to do their business. The law only is concerned about the buyers and that is only if they are looking to buy from girls/boys/etc who are being exploited โŒ. No need to allow people to be so comfortable that locker room talk is welcome ๐Ÿค. Still need to use intelligent conversation to promote understanding. Discretion is useful and sensible but clarification can be a benefit. And it keeps you safe. ๐Ÿ™
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    This Can't be Real

    Really? Not even hers but anybodies. But if you read to next page it's actually a fetish and she is not the only one. And continue reading page after that to find out what some have feared... except it is sold for aphrodisiacs ๐Ÿคญ woman makes shrine of used condoms
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    Poll: What is this thing they call Emotional Labour?

    I am impressed by your thoughtful response and understanding. kudos! (that is not emotional labour, but an honest observance) โ˜บ๏ธ
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    A Mystery - Number search

    This is not a tech question but it kinda is. Sometimes, when I'm getting lots of nonsense texts i will start searching numbers before I answer. I found this, something I have never seen before, associated with a number. A different search informed that the number was a landline so i searched further and found this really weird thing. In Google search too. I am confounded ๐Ÿ˜• Can someone guess what might be going on with this discovery?
  8. How much of it is expected in this field? How much is delivered? Do you understand the true value of emotional labour? How important is it to you? Should you pay extra for it? Can you expect it when the rate seems to include an attitude/atmosphere that is always friendly and strives to be fulfilling every time? (example: with a rate that barely seems to cover expenses, one would assume that emotional labour is NOT part of the package) Clear Definition of emotional labor (according to this author)
  9. Often imitated, never duplicated :classic_cool:๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ†

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  10. Sassy. :classic_rolleyes: Twitter enthusiast. ๐Ÿค Authentic. โ™€๏ธ Practicing to be vegan.๐Ÿฅ• Reader. ๐Ÿ“š Excellent dinner date. ๐Ÿ†Kind. ๐Ÿงžโ€โ™€๏ธ Ice cream and cookie eater. ๐Ÿช๐Ÿฆ Smart. ๐Ÿฆ‰ Fun. :classic_love:


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    โ€œYou pops you are doneโ€ policy

    ... or have a good work ethic and are serious about their biz and the quality. Face it...some ppl can't help but do a good job. They don't always do things based on a goal to be recognized but more because of pride in themselves
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    Thoughts Regarding Herpes/Hsv?

    I questioned my doctor about that shedding thing (for herpes) and she said that it is so rare it practically non-existent. When a person shows up to me with something, anything on their lip, then those will not be in contact with me at all. That has lead to offense being taken (it's just a cut). Even if it's a cut that is not something that should be making contact with me either. Of course things have to be checked by girl too. And if you have met someone who was unaware of facts about (any) STI, that is a very scary scenario. But if you encounter that ignorance then by all means use that opportunity to EDUCATE! If not sure, guide them to Google, give them names of STI's to look up. #themoreyouknow
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    โ€œYou pops you are doneโ€ policy

    actually I don't judge chemistry or attraction. It is a atmosphere. Like when I worked in the clubs. Days were slower, ppl more solemn, it was quieter, and things could be slower. Nights, busy nights were faster, ppl more excitable, it was noisy. Sometimes days felt like more work, and sometimes nights felt like more work. But a little joke, a smile, something that reveals you as a human and not some cog in a machine, it changes everything. That's not chemistry, it's social adeptness
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    โ€œYou pops you are doneโ€ policy

    When you ask ahead of time, to someone whom you have never met, it is just demanding and makes you appear that you are only concerned with the number of activities that play out, or that you have this big concern about money. You all don't realize that lots of factors can come into play when you show up and actually meet the person. Like I have noticed with myself that a big smile, or a cute face has a big effect on my perspective about things. It can change everything that I thought about the visit, in a moment. And usually towards the good part of the scale.
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    โ€œYou pops you are doneโ€ policy

    I say if you want to go again, be prepared to do most of the work ๐Ÿคญ (seriously though, talk about it at the beginning of the visit so your host can make a plan)