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Thank you so much and I planned on showing you a little love tomorrow @NotchJohnson @Greenteal I appreciated the love you have sent back my way! 💚J'adore💚

Words are not enough to appreciate your admiration @SeekingMistress! That will be rewarded 💋💋💋

Today I would like to nominate @Greenteal a happy Valentine for having lips as honest as my own 😽

May I sandwich myself between @lydiahardwood and @Sharpe for my first choice?

Leolist has definitely become a bit of a shitshow. Never been a fan of combing through those places for work. Caveat emptor however still very much applicable. Especially in an element like that. There are ways both sides are responsible for protecting themselves. It's not just on one or the other. This is an interesting thread and I'm happy it's a thing. I do feel there could be a lot more discussion on this board in these respects. Was happy to see someone else mention the same. I think what is really important to keep in mind however that looks are completely subjective. What is gorgeous to one maybe a complete turn-off to another and I think we need to be careful with the guys who complain to other providers about these things. We should also be careful that their expectations are not getting the best of them. My mind can't help but to see a possible in for someone to take advantage. Much can be said for screening and deposits. If this information is so important for providers, why have I seen little to no education or awareness for fellow SW's? From what I've noticed there isn't much of that out there at all. Thankfully I am capable of establishing my own process. As much as they can help tighten security, I do feel we should also be careful that they are not being used to discriminate against others as well. If brainstorming together to develop a system to help protect those being scammed is possible you can definitely count me in on that process!

Everytime you start a thread I question my sexuality HARD 💋

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Ugh that place. The place that doesn't deserve your traffic and anyone who pays it attention doesn't deserve yours. Only trolls and idiots would take that source seriously. Five years ago I ended up on it twice, by people incredibly close. That betrayal took a while to manage. Sadly without a lawyer not much can be done. Even the DMCA notices are usually ignored unless coming from an attorney. Good news however is that it will fade from the SEO after some time as you cant find my name in the search anymore. I have been curious however how the FOSTA-SESTA laws apply to the dick responsible for this horrible place. I doubt any good employer scours the dirty to assess prospects and if they are that's likely a team you do not want to work for anyway. Sending strength as I know how much this hurts.

I am a fan of dry as they can lead to opportunity and safety 💋 The automated systems very well could become better with time, but that also very much depends on who is responsible for their tweaking. It is however very hard to compete with free. No matter what kind of SCR grips the wheel. I am a bit of a dreamer still 😉

Imagine if the mughals did pull out and a Canadian startup launched its own social media platform. Would it be bound to the laws and rules that have been placed in the US? Perhaps it might be time for a startup to assume that type of responsibility within our own Nation? It could open up the opportunity to allow marketing/advertising for not just this type of platform, but cannabis as well to become a little more acceptable or tolerant? I adore your links on Section 230 and would greatly encourage you to share more!

Was incredibly thrilled to see Phaedrus' words for the next interview shared! Thank you for sharing with us ❤ Your avatar is one of the most familiar on this site for me, and I am flattered to have you follow me both here and on Twitter. This topic I can not be a fan of enough. Super happy that it was chosen to be discussed. What's happening with communication on the internet right now kind of reminds me of the fight against censorship in music back in the 80s/90s. Controversy has always been something I loved as I feel it pushes us to question ourselves, the way we think and why we feel the need to control others in their expressions. Something I feel I I've been victim of and judged for, well, since the 90's! I am the definition of a loud, wild and liberal personality. The fly by the seat of my pants/DIY personality has definitely helped me learn quite a bit these last few decades. If I had listened to how they wanted me to be, I don't think I would know half of what I do now. Even to this day I still have those I have chosen to share the side of me with try to throw a construct at me to have me question the choices I make. I do my due diligence and know how to take care of myself. I don't need my friends to remind me of what to worry about and how to protect myself. I just need them to accept me as I am. There are a lot of conservative fearful people out there who try to control. Instead it would be nice if we could just focus on our own selves and fears instead. The focus just shouldn't be on them however as there is a lot of control that happens within the scene well. A good reason why I usually keep to myself. A comment that really struck me was when Shape mentioned "Somehow the goal of helping gets twisted into judging and condemning". This reminds me of why I enjoy working as a dom. It's good to test and assess those who claim they want to help as most of the time there is very likely other motive. Those who can genuinely help often continue to do their own thing, until such help is sourced or requested. I do agree however that there could be more done to separate the kind of work we do from one another. This thought is interesting and wonder if brainstorming ideas and applying them may help others fear it less? There is some content I may not be interested in creating or providing myself however I don't feel it's fair to judge those who do choose to partake in it. Provided it's consensual and enjoyed. Even us kinksters have limits. Some things I am not interested in seeing at all. Hats off to those who may. There is just as much work to be done on the other side of the pendulum. Just as much as we are judged for expressing ourselves, we can also tit-for-tat and judge others for being so controlling. Young people are curious. Sheltering them too much will only pique their need to explore more. It did mine 😼 The quote I enjoyed most in all of Phaedrus' amazing perspective "Even if you approve of someone you don't like being shut down today, what happens when the censors decide they don't like you tomorrow? You'd be amazed how likely that is, given that most of us hold views about something that are at odds with what's approved of by mainstream society. The only way you can guarantee your safety is if you're the one making the decisions, but there's only room for one at the top". looking forward to more of your amazing work next month @lydiahardwood 💋

I adore this 💋

Oh! I didn't realize you guys had taken that down but either way I think I want to wait and see how the vaccination rolls out a little more before I plan any travels. I do everything possible to try to keep myself and everyone around me safe that way. I am dying to see the Cabot Trail in Fall however and surely hope I can make it happen this year. Wanted to explore Newfoundland a little as well but feel I might put that off for a few more years.

As soon as things are safer to travel again you can count on me coming back out to stomp around the East Coast a little more. For now I respect and admire the bubble erected but would adore connecting with you! Secretly hoping we'll be studying remotely again next year as it will help make travelling to play a little easier for me. Regardless I will find a way to manage it and cannot wait to explore again (pun intended) 💋

I would like to backup @Exotic Touch Danielle's nomination for @Sharpe He was all over the Lyla cheer promotion last month and I really appreciated seeing that kind of support. The other gentlemen I noticed that from have also been nominated already. I didn't have the opportunity to meet him when I was on the East Coast but from his communication would assume it would be an absolute pleasure 💋

Followed! I was wondering what happened to you beautiful you seemed a little quiet lately 💋

Tight had me giggling too 😹

You hit the nail on the head! My first thought after reading your post was exactly that. You do not pay this man to do chores around the house. What is his wife doing to help? You are a kind boss. The second I felt the need to switch my deadlines around for an employee would be the second I would question if retaining them was necessary. I was going to offer the suggestion of asking him to perform work while monitored through Zoom but it seems you've already thought of that. I adore posts like this and certainly hope anyone who provided feedback didn't mind my eavesdropping! If a sister wife is needed... haha 💋

I enjoyed this eloquent interview incredibly! I will most definitely be looking into more on SWAN. If you ever make it as far as Ontario I would adore using my hands and head in any way possible to help. Thank you Andi and Lydia for this amazing interview. Including this was a brilliant idea 💋

Thank you @NotchJohnson and @Sharpe 💋 I definitely adore words but not as much as I have adored watching you both express gratitude for so many different people in the community. I'm flattered to be a part of that. Please never stop being amazing. Wishing such kindness is rewarded by Santa. Perhaps he will leave a sexy elf under the tree for you both. If he does call me!

I'm a little late for my last addition to this lovely contest. I want to give love to all of those who have supported me on my adventure here at Lyla. To the ones who reached out to me when things got a little hairy on my arrival, thank you for making this place more comfortable. To those kind enough to leave me recommendations, your support is priceless. To those I had the pleasure of connecting with on my travels out east, I enjoyed meeting everyone of you. Especially the one who made his way back to see my playground as well. There is definitely a lot of magic out on the East Coast. To consistent Sunday mornings with coffee in my hand, you are glorious and I will always appreciate you. To the adorably shy guy with the rosie cheeks, I'm looking forward to making them a lovely shade of red next time. To the ones that wrap me In fur and make me feel glorious, thank you. To who spoiled me with lunch, and more so amazing conversation after multiple visits, I cant appreciate you enough. To those who have put my energy to the test, or have explored things a little more interesting with me, I don't think I need to say how much I loved it. Providing others with my energy, that's the thing that helps this heart beat so strongly. I look forward to contributing much more to this community. When it's safe to do so, of course. Wishing everyone in the community whether I have met you, conversed with you, or not, a Merry Christmas, or whichever holiday you may celebrate 💋 P.s. I must admit I did lie to you all in the beginning. I must tag once more, and provide another great big thank you to the lovely mind and set of hands that have been giving most excellent work for us all here at Lyla in the last little while. @lydiahardwood you are that great big shining angel on the top of our tree ❤

Today my love will be sent to a few other ladies who have reached it to me before and I adore and appreciate their positivity and advice. I'm going to mention 2 today because tomorrow I'd like to save my last post for the hobbyists who have supported me. Today I'd love to send some positivity to @katie and @Sasha May Fields for being (from what I have noticed) some of the Lylas sweetest hearts ❤️ Katie's attitude is incomparable. The energy that I got from her messages is something I would definitely help to soak a little up in person sometime. Sasha has been kind enough reach out and answer a few questions I have had in the past. I appreciate your feedback as communication I'm a bit of a nerd for. Even though there are minimal spots for minimal mentions please know that I adore everyone and anyone on this board. Especially those kind and helpful whichever side they're on 💋

Thank you! @Deanna Delight is such a darling ❤️ I had the pleasure of connecting with them a little more as well recently. I wish travelling was a little easier at the moment I'd love to go out and have a drink! Another thing to fix in the near future... Today I would love to send some positivity over to @Andee who has also not been shy to share tips and tricks she may has. I cannot get enough of those sexy boots in that photo 💋

A few months back I had reached out curious about becoming part of a local community. That sadly didn't connect for me, however it did give me an opportunity to connect a little bit with someone amazing. Someone who felt like a kindred spirit. On day 4 I would like to send some positivity to @JessyCeleste for reaching out and reminding me, even when rejected by some, there are many still out there. Support can come from many different angles. Sometimes when you least expect it, but usually when you need it most. Thank you for being such a sweetheart Jessy 💋😹💋

Kindness is just a sexy as bravery 💋 This is why for day 3 I also have to give much love to @Katherine of Halifax A few months after joining this community I decided I was going to finally spoil myself with a trip out east. I had popped up a post asking for any guidance or tips as I plan my adventure out. Katherine was the only lady on the East Coast that responded to me and gave me some excellent advice. In fact she went above and beyond and even offered me a place to come have a drink. I can't respect, adore, or appreciate that enough. Sadly not having a credit card at the time prevented me from getting a rental, which would allow me the freedom to go see her. To this day not being able to connect with her makes me weep and I'd like to show her some appreciation now. I have since fix the issue of the credit card and when returning may be safe I would love an opportunity to rectify this issue. Is it also safe to assume she's been in this game a while? That alone deserves absolute respect 💋