A penny for your thoughts.

[Guest]

Seeing that cerb has a section on massage, stripping and service providing. I wanted to know your thoughts on each. What does each mean to you? To me they all provide a service in the sex industry, Although they are all different. How do you guys feel about girls doing it all? For us curious girls who love entertaining. What is your favorite service? Would you have expectations of getting extras from a dancer or mp knowing she is also a service provider. I think that this could be an interesting topic. Also to the girls who do, do it all. What are your experiences in each and how are they different from each other?

[Amanda Bella 421]

Given i have taken heavy load of massotherapy courses

from very respected schools of alternative medicine.

Providing a massage threatment to me it is rather lots of work

for i know many massage mannouvres.

 

On the other hand, i have been hired by gents

who asked me for massage and then is happy just to

show off to me that he has professional massage tecnique skills.

And he ends up wanting to give me a massage, which was a relaxing surprise to me.

 

Having said that if i guy wants a real massage from me with a happy ending

and then after all i have donne he wants more. I honestly would say this.

''My hands are so tired right now that i would like to just relax''

But usually they are so sleepy and relax that they just snore, which makes me

feel proud of my work.

[Peachka 4334]

Mia Bella & Jazy would provide an accurate providers prospective.

 

IMO, the more services a provider can offer-the better for her & her clients! A 'Triple Crown' (dancing/massage/SP) provider is a desired option.

[Capital Hunter 18263]

Actually in my view they are all service providers (escorts, dancers, masseuses) and I regard them all as entertainers, so in my view they all provide service in the entertainment industry.

 

when they visit me they are my guests and my date and I reward them for their time and companionship and kindness and pleasure they provide me with gift (donation).

 

I don't feel any different about service providers than any other girl or lady that I may meet in a dance bar, in a social gathering or in a mall or at work. I regard them as someone's daughter or sister and treat them with utmost respect and as nice and kindly as I can unless (in very rare cases) they demostrate otherwise (applies to anyone I meet in my life. I am fully respectful and kind to them unless they give me a reason not to, like being rude or worse stabbing me in the back and then I break friendship).

 

My favorite service is contact dancing or escort services and both should involve lots of passion, hugging and kissing. Regrefully massage is not my favorite service.

 

I have invited many dancers home for private dancing, however, I never asked for extras (more than they usually provide in SC for me).

 

Yes it is an interesting thread and I look forward to reading responses.

 

PS - this post expresses my personal views and may not be shared by the many but they are mine:). I, however, had to respond to the question in the thread as honestly as I could.

[roamingguy 300291]

I used to see dancers, and I'm dating myself here, but in the late 1970's early 1980's. At the time, ok, sit at the table drinking a beer (jeez I am dating myself since I don't drink anymore). Saw dancers at the Manor in Kingston (now gone) in my high school days (omg, I was underage too) and just prior to going overseas with the Forces, went to the Barefax a couple of times in Ottawa. It was a way to kill an afternoon, but I don't think I would find it all that enjoyable (for me) now

Massage, never had one. But I am going to get one. Just need to schedule a time/date for myself (due to travel), and treat myself to an erotic massage

I have seen a few sp's. I find the pleasure of the company of a woman enjoyable. A couple hours together, and I have discovered, to my surprise, it is more than physical gratification. In bed, or a jacuzzi, talking, getting to know each other a bit, there is a connection made, almost like friends with benifits, judgement free and no strings.

All that having been said, I would say imho, that I can't do a hierarchy of services, dancers, massage providers, service providers each provide a different service, and each fills a certain niche

Some ramblings

RG

[MiaBella 10988]

It's true, no matter what you provide, you are filling a niche. I guess, from my own experiences it has definitely given me an upper hand. A gentleman could come see me simply for my escorting service, but can explore something he hasn't before, such as a massage. This way, I can introduce him to the experience, and from there he can continue to explore that world or, decide it's not for him.

I often have sessions that can include all three, lap dance and strip tease, a massage, and of course, the full service.

 

If you don't have it, you don't have it and that's NOT a big deal. I wouldn't suggest a lady with two left feet to advertise she gives dances. It probably wouldn't benefit her. I would suggest she instead IMPROVE on the skills she already has. It's not for everyone, and I think it is something that you do because you love it. Not because you want more clients or a better reputation for "having skills".

Just my 2 cents.

[Tiffany Amber 7031]

I started out in the industry as a dancer, mostly out of town, then became and SP and also worked in MP's on and off for a couple of years. So I have a wide varity of Gents that visit, some times just for massage and happy ending, some just for FS and some like to have both. I truly enjoy that I can offer it all!

 

I also find some gents are more comfortable coming to a private studio for massage rather than going to a public MP. They feel more at ease, and I find its more intimate. And some of the gents that only visited MA's, now the have experienced an SP. Some do prefer to stick with the massage and some now want the whole expereince!

 

 

My opinion!

[whiteman 14028]

I'd say, like somebody else said here, that the more services you provide, the better. I don't think one needs to pigeon-hole oneself into an artificial standard set of services and nothing more, if asking for one type of service or another. For example my first experience with a massage was with an SP, ages ago: the massage was the prelude. And if you go to an MP, getting a bit more than a massage is always a pleasant surprise. There often isn't much of a difference in cost between MP and SP these days.

[Cowboy kenny 50799]

I remember the Manor it was upstairs from another bar if I'm not mistaken ? Back when I used to work at Ottawa's finer Gentlemen's clubs we used to often share feature entertainers with the Manor. I remember *vaguely scouting talent from the farm team to bring up town.

 

Having sampled both Mia Bella and Peachy's fine talent and skills, I can assure any one conisdering a visit will have trouble walking afterwards as you will be left weak in the knees and else where too!

 

There's nothing I love more than to be teased, brought to the edge and then set to cool and then back to the edge again. That being said it's always nice to have a lap dance or massage lead to a full out wakawaka session of love making, but some times I'm happy to be entertained with a very sensual dance or massage.

[Juice 2105]

I don't know much about MPs, but one thing I really like is that some SPs are also working in SCs. That gives you a chance to meet them first. But I really wish it were easier to identify which of the strippers are also SPs!! It's very awkward to ask upfront and you can't very well take every girl in the club for several dances as this would be costly.

 

My advice to SPs is go ahead and hint strongly your possibilities when you meet patrons. Like MiaBella! I met her a while ago in a SC and she quickly got to the point. She was a really nice girl to talk with - told me lots about herself and even offered advice how to deal with the SP scene.

 

PS. The Manor in Kingston (peeler joint downstairs, "Heavenly Rooms" upstairs) shut some 20 yrs ago. Man there were some rough characters going in and out of there, thanks for jogging my memory you guys. I wonder if we could open some place like that in Ottawa, minus the rough characters? :bjs:

[Hornee69 4851]

Wow, the Lakeview Manor. I believe St Lawrence College used to hold afternoon classes there, they had to of, I know I was there every afternoon. Thank God for student loans!

[Guest]

In my experiences I enjoy both sp and mping. Although sping comes to me more naturally than mping. I guess I have always made it a game for myself. How many times can I make so and so cum and after having some pretty intense sexual experiences. I would have never thought I would mp. Even though I have had some great experiences with mping to. It has taught me to tap into a different kind of sensuality. It has taught me the art of teasing and how to build someone up. It has also taught me how to slow down. So I can see why you guys enjoy going to a lady who understands how to do both. As for stripping it has always been a big fantasy of mine. But alas I think it will have to stay that way. As I am not a dancer and never will be. Thanks for participating in my talk about sexual services. XoXo Peachy/Val.

[Winnipegcub 21293]

Peachy, thanks for presenting a very erotic thread. I spent many years going to SCs and then just over a year ago graduated to SPs. I've had amazing times with the ladies I've met and have only been to 1 SC since. As far as massage goes I've only had the traditional kind in a resort but do love being touched.

 

I honestly never thought about the excitement of combining them all together but after reading your post and pondering the responses I am definately intrigued. Might be something to try in 2011 and if you need a dance partner to practice...I'll bring my two left feet to the party.

WC