Visiting your home

[Chanel Reign 28097]

Actually if you have seen someone more than once, I find this very sweet and a chivalrous thing to do, if the Lady wishes it.

[Capital Hunter 18263]

To the OP. If you are really worried about your neighbors, then changing your place of residence is another option. Not sure if you rent or own but in either case it is an option. I moved to a new address a few months ago (not because I was worried about my neighbors but to a better place to live) and my new neighbors have not seen me with any girl (so far) and as my old neighbors, I told one or two that they are my visiting friends from Montreal (as I said you have nothing to worry about how they are dressed. Unlike incalls, for outcalls they dressed like girl next door) and I am sure that is what they all think.

 

If however any of the new or old neighbors (or whoever) file a legal complain about me (very hypothetical) I will for sure instruct my lawyer to pursue and find out who they are and sue them in court for the action (smear campaign, character assasination, false accusation, you name it) as I know what I do is very legal and I believe nosy people and those oppose freedom of choice of lifestyle should be punished.

[roamingguy 300291]

Well I don't have calls to my home (I prefer outcalls to my hotel) but for me at least, one thing being missed out on, is that building excitement waiting for the soft knock on the door...for me it's all part of the experience. But that's me, don't know if that is everyone

RG

[Andee 220524]

Yes I understand that Megan and my guess is that Angela's comments were general comments regarding the lot in this industry greeting SPs in a hotels at the elevator doors (even though she quoted me and questioned the legality of my actions I don't think she specifically was addressing me). Just to clarify, all I say is hi and ask them if they have had a nice day so far and for first timers, if they found my place easy and yes sometimes we talk about the weather too :-). And 10 -15 seconds later we are inside my private residence (where I live, not a hotel).

 

Yes, my comments were meant in general. If I didn't know you and you did came to meet me outside your dwelling, yes it would cause me some irritation because I would not know if you would "discuss business". Not all guys are you.

 

As for knocking on the door, if you know the lady is coming, you can always stand behind the door and open it to let her in when you see her walk up.

 

As for the car thing, I know an SP who was walked back to her car and the guy took down her license plate number and somehow was able to obtain information about her (such as her real name and address), so like Megan was saying, we have seen a lot in this business.

 

The behaviour that you describe, unfortunately is not the norm.

If all guys were as nice as you, there wouldn't be a problem.

 

I didn't mean to offend you. I was only asking because you are such a "stickler" for making sure everything is on the up and up.

 

Back to the thread.

[Capital Hunter 18263]

Thank you very much Angela for the kind comments. I am not offended. I had to respond and clarify that I don't do anything to break the law. So reason for my response. Examples of bad behaviour that you have described are absolutely horible and it is regretful that they have actually happened to ladies. It is likely that we don't have anyone on cerb like that.

 

On the greeting issue, Please note that if it ever happens to you and an idiot client meets you in public place and talks business it is him who is breaking the law not you (you should just not respond). So no reason to panic or be irritated. In SCs it happens to me too (i guess seeing me taking numeous ladies to CR....) that a lady dancer asks me for outside activity or illegal activity in the CR (like HJ,BJ things that I never even do with escorts LOL) but I remain cool as I know I am not the one who is breaking the law.I just say no thanks and remind her that such a public solicitation is against the law.

 

On the car plate issue, still it is same with incalls, I think. I guess a devious client can get name and address of the lady if he knows where she lives or what hotel room she has rented except that obtaining info based on car plate number is a lot more difficult (unless the client has connections to LE who is ready to break the law and release confidential info, then I think name and address based on car plate number is totally confidential....)

 

PS - Just to clarify that I don't walk with ladies to their cars but rather to my car, and only when I give them a ride (otherwise I say bye at the elevator) . After having an intimate date with a lovely lady I can't just say okay I am done with you and now you walk back to your place and that is the reason for giving them a ride back, if they come without a ride (which I always advise against that) and if they accept.

[Megan'sTouch 23875]

Unlikely we would have anyone on CERB like that? I'm sorry SA, but that's extremely naive. CERB is open for anyone to join and there are numerous disrespectful and even dangerous clients that are on CERB.

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[Capital Hunter 18263]

You should report them to mod if you know of them. I don't know any.....but cerb is meant to be a safe place for ladies to make a livining and meet safe clients and my statement as naive as it looked like was based on that.

[Cleo Catra 178382]

To be honest, it would put me off to be greeted at the elevator. If I was buzzed in and the door opened as I approached, fine. But sometimes I'm fixing my makeup in the elevator, or something else I wouldn't want to gent to see. Same concept applies when people come to me- if someone bypasses buzzing and comes right to my door, those last few seconds of preparation have been taken from me and it throws me off a bit.

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[Capital Hunter 18263]

You know, it never crossed my mind that greeting my guests at the elevator would be such an issue whatsoever...., until now. I always thought it is a friendly gesture to make them feel welcomed and feel at home and at ease. I am going to think twice for first time visitors from now on or make sure that they are fully aware of the greeting beforehand. So fixing your make up in the elevator huh... That is cute. There are so many mirrors in the lobby of where I live that ladies can do that before taking the elevator.

 

On giving a ride back...., well I think about that too but I think that if they accept my gesture then it will be okay with them lol. That is another advantage of cerb debating issues. It makes you think of the unthinkable (that friendly gestures like greeting a lady or offering a ride back may be an unwelcomed gesture or offensive!!!!!!!!!!!!!!).

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

I no longer do outcalls to residences but when I did in the past, I would drive myself and dress discreetly. I would ask the client where they would want me to park.