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Unlike sex with women  who are not specially talented, in the intercourse I have with an SP I generally like to dive in quickly and go for the full length of time. I'm worried the provider might not tell me I'm messing up (hurting) her V, I also care quite a bit about her comfort since I enjoy mutual pleasure (giving and receiving). Would you expect that a provider to be able to comfortably handle a client for basically an H straight? I'm pretty sure most of the non-professional women I've been with could not do this without really suffering, in fact I know some couldn't because I've unintentionally hurt women in the past by going a little too long and they've had to stop me (usually a hand on my tummy and pushing away). I've always just assumed SPs are pros at taking it enjoyably for long lengths of time and never actually been stopped before. Is this fact or fiction?

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     SP's are not genetically modified for sex.  There are REAL women(other than transgenders to be kept for another topic) and shouldn't be treated differently because they do this for a living. If you're concerned about their well-being/safety, you should address it the same you would do with a regular sexual partner.

     I'm pretty sure a few ladies will have a field day with this.

  

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The point being is, hypothetically I'm not sure the SP would necessarily be up front about her discomfort for a variety of context specific reasons even if you asked her to. If so I would have expected to have been stopped by now since I always get to go much longer with an SP. Clearly that's been incentivized informally through the nature of the arrangement. But still I guess I'm curious if that is in fact the case, do women with high sexual prowess tend to enjoy long intercourse sessions with a client or would they prefer something closer to the average (owing to their not being genetically modified :classic_wacko:)?

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When you say "1 hour long intercourse", does that include foreplay? If that only includes penetrative sex for the whole hour, unless you are going nice and slow, I can promise you that most women (paid or not) wouldn't enjoy that. There are always exception though. Like I have mentioned before on Lyla, when in doubt with your SP, simply leave a generous tip 🙂 

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1 hour ago, Genevieve Marceau said:

Like I have mentioned before on Lyla, when in doubt with your SP, simply leave a generous tip 🙂 

     In my opinion, this kind of comment can be misinterpreted as "Do what you want as long you throw enough money at me".

     When I want something out of the ordinary or potentially uncomfortable for a lady, I prefer discussing ground rules and extra compensation. Tipping after the fact, no matter how generous, can open the door to a lot of abuse.

    I get what you're saying. But not everyone will.

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The reason this comes up is I've never in my life been very fast to finish but lately it's gotten were I'm not even able to at all so I was randomly looking into that and came across research about painful intercourse (and it isn't guys experiencing this). What I learned is that most vaginas are actually not suited to long sessions (even with lots of lube and gentle motion!:classic_huh:), but more interestingly is that the time window of her enjoyment, or even tolerance really, is actually much shorter than I had ever assumed. I've been getting PMs here saying the number is about 10 minutes but could be slightly longer with sufficient arousal.

I get the erotic value of deliberate pain in the right setting but I don't see anything exciting in unintentional pain or discomfort. If I think I'm going to be doing anything downtown longer than 10 minutes that should qualify as a topic of discussion ahead of time.

I'm feeling pretty awful at the thought and my past behaviour and it's turned into something of a sexual identity crisis. Ignorance isn't a personality trait I like to admit to but that seems to have been exactly the case, all I can do is try to be better going forward.

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I'll chime in a bit.  What about the ladies that offer MSOG, would that count as going towards 1 hour of penetrative sex with a short break in between?  In my younger days I had dated a woman and for the first of July we drove to a motel a few hours away from home.  As soon as we entered the room she wanted to go at it and often.  We did it 5 times from 2pm to 10pm roughly, the first time I lasted about 10minutes and then little longer the all the following shots.  Needless to say we were both exhausted afterward that we did even go out to see the fireworks.  As i said we were young and she was self lubricating it was at the end that I felt it and so did she.

My point is I think it all depends on both partners, if you are well endowed and she is tight, I assume she might not be able to take it too long.  Here is a question for you, why not have some foreplay before or during the intercourse?

I might be comparing myself to others but I enjoy having foreplay at anytime during sex.

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IMHO there is nothing more attractive than an insatiable woman! You are a lucky guy to have had such an experience.

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I'll speak for myself here in saying that I can be somewhat insatiable provided there is foreplay, and he's actually paying attention to my enjoyment. I do not like to be pounded like a sewing machine, and I get bored and tire of that quickly.  I also tend to be able to go multiple rounds of there is communication and adjustments as necessary. I personally love a good long session, especially if I'm on top (because I can set the deepness and pace to my liking). I would not ever allow someone to hurt me, paid or not, but I find small adjustments in speed, position, or adding lube can remedy any discomfort quite sufficiently. I have yet to find someone who can outlast me, but a girl can dream.

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Service Providers are still Human,and still a Woman.. With feelings in her "VG". Saying she is a Pro.. Idk.. I've never looked at it that way. All I know is, if I don't like something... Weather it's Uncomfortable or I just don't like it... That person will know right away.. No Matter What! "I Am The One In Control" ... I say No.. It's No... I Say Stop.. It's Stop.. No Exceptions! VG's are Made of Steel.. or Mine is Not. No Matter how much $$ it is.  

PS: Foreplay Is Very Much Needed and Can Be The Hoghlight of the Time 😉

   Just my opinion 😘

  xoxo's 💋

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SP time and what happens during that time is definitely not a standard, but i don't think any sp that has never interacted with the client before expects to be engaged in a 1hour sexathon, and their booking frequency and rates reflect this whether they are a time provider or a menu provider.  That said, one provider that i met actually advertised, "bust as much as you can" in the time - which I took to mean she could handle it.  But I've only seen that advertised by one lady who was established, registered, and definitely meant it.

 

Good news is that age will likely change this issue 🙂 so it won't be for ever.

Try multiple ladies at the same time, might be fun and reduce your anxiety.  

If you haven't tried, tell the lady you take a long time ahead of time.  The best ladies try to ensure you enjoy your time, so if you say you're a hard and long performer she may surprise you with tricks that would send most of us off in minutes. (I did this once, literally minutes)

If things are not building as well as you like, consider an alternative finish - after foreplay, penetration, for a while, you might find that alternative firm stimulations with sufficient lubrication provides a much more intense release than you would have thought.

 

Think about when you masturbate, then consider manual release with someone else.  If it felt the same we'd never stop masturbating!!

 

PS if you can masturbate in just a few minutes, perhaps refrain from masturbation for several days before you engage a lady. Might help

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My solution has typically been to have more than one partner present. Nobody gets over-extended and there is always an extra helping hand or two.

That, and not to simply be content with the finish. If time runs out, if she taps out, if it just isn't working ... pay, tip, thank, and leave. It didn't take me long to figure that one out. Sometimes you just don't have all day to have sex. If the actual SEX part isn't fun, you're doing something wrong. Sure, the finish is great. It shouldn't be the only thing.

The time requirement is one of the reasons I don't have sex anymore, especially for money. If we're going for the finish, either I'm paying an awful lot (for time or personnel), or they're doing a lot of extra work. Or there's guilt.

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Oh, for me the sex is always fun.. lol. Nothing better than getting tangled up in someone. I just wish I knew better to tell if and when she is getting over-extended with it. An unfortunate side-effect of the nature of the arrangement I guess.

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Recently, I did find this really helpful and thought to share: https://skipthegames.com/articles/escort-resources/the-escorts-guide-to-the-well-endowed-client

Especially part 3 which reads:
"Typically, clients with large penises aren’t into masochistic sex and are uninterested in hurting you or causing you physical injury simply for their pleasure. However, if they aren’t cautious, it’s very possible that you will experience pain. If your client doesn’t seem to comprehend that his size is an issue, gently explain it to him as you share a few details about the female anatomy."

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Just because you pay for an hour does not mean you should expect to pound a lady for an hour.

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8 hours ago, Mature Angela said:

Just because you pay for an hour does not mean you should expect to pound a lady for an hour.

Oh my.  That struck me rather funny.  :classic_laugh:

I do recognize that this may be a serious problem for some and it may not always be funny.  Just that "pound a Lady for an hour".  OK, carry on.

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       From the start this thread has been in bad taste and tone-deaf.

   Companionship time is not hard to understand. Anything more detailed or graphic should be respectfully discussed in private. If someone prefers the company of a more athletic lady, just ask! It's not that hard to find and doesn't require any justifications.

      Not everything requires to be spelled out.

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Remember Greenteal, Not Everyone Understands "Companionship". I Love Companionship..Without "Companionship", "Your Being Pounded For An  Hour"! Naaah, I'll Take Companionship,Over That... Any Day!                           PS: Agree... Greentel, Pounding Away Talk .. Talk It All  .. Bad Taste                    xoxo😘

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11 minutes ago, katie said:

Remember Greenteal, Not Everyone Understands "Companionship". I Love Companionship..Without "Companionship", "Your Being Pounded For An  Hour"! Naaah, I'll Take Companionship,Over That... Any Day!                           PS: Agree... Greentel, Pounding Away Talk .. Talk It All  .. Bad Taste                    xoxo😘

    In my book it's not about what you do, but more about with who you do it.

I see so many threads of men looking for a single thing without any care of who they do it with. And when they do, it's in a very shallow way.

A good example is the insane amount of threads about men looking for "Greek". Most are so desperate, they don't care who they do it with. Makes me wonder why they don't simply go to the local bathhouse or gay personals to get it for free.

Things are so much better when you actually feel good with someone instead of pounding a random hole.

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13 minutes ago, Greenteal said:

    In my book it's not about what you do, but more about with who you do it.

I see so many threads of men looking for a single thing without any care of who they do it with. And when they do, it's in a very shallow way.

A good example is the insane amount of threads about men looking for "Greek". Most are so desperate, they don't care who they do it with. Makes me wonder why they don't simply go to the local bathhouse or gay personals to get it for free.

Things are so much better when you actually feel good with someone instead of pounding a random hole.

Omg.... You took the Words right out of my Mouth! Lmao.. 😉 It is "Who You Choose". Great Example Too... It Does Seem "Greek" is being Sought out more,by Hobbyist. At the same time, You have the Ladies that Do Enjoy it but then you have the Ladies/Girls offering it.. just to make extra $$$.. Weather they enjoy it or not. Some Males See " Greek" Advertised ... Comes out the phone and Dials. It's doesn't matter who or what is offering it... It's Greek. I'm Asked if I offer "Greek" Often..Too Often.. My Response is "Sorry I don't BUT, I Do Offer Prostate Massage" .. I Guess they aren't up for that as They Say, No, or Hang Up On Me... Hahaha. Anyways, yes, there are some who do enjoy it.. Choosing Who and How you Do it.. is another story.            Just my opinion 😘

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