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8 hours ago, Orpheo12 said:

I am sad to hear of your isolation, and hope you will continue to believe in your worth as a human being with a good heart. As for your comments about fading perfection, I hope you will continue to see yourself as imperfectly glorious. Age does not blemish a beautiful soul. I hope you find true friends and professional service-providers in time. Be well.

Thank you Orpheo💗

I know good people exist.

As a matter of fact,  we have more good people than the bad ones.

This forum, is one of the perfect places to find one (s), considering we are here bonded between providers and hobbysts and we are, hand in hand to make a better environment for all of us.

 

@StephanieMystique i will reach out to you next time, I'm in Halifax 

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I had attempted in the past to buy 2 new properties that would provide a better environment for my animals with little success.

One property in PEI that i just bought last year, was sold even before i moved there since i couldn't find a good contractor who helped me renovate the place, they were all booked.

The last, recent attempt failed as well.

 

The house, my current house seems to want me to live here. 

So here I am, knowing that im pretty spiritual, also try my very best to make the spirit of my house happy.  I promise her to make her more pretty in the future.  Her = my current house 

 

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16 hours ago, StephanieMystique said:



The stigma against what we do for work it very challenging. As a newer person to places, I find it takes about 5 years to create a new city or town home. The east coast has its charm of everyone being friendly on the surface but it's very challenging to create solid friendships and people you can depend on. Add in what we do, it makes life very isolating. I personally don't let out what I do for work unless 100% necessary and sadly there are many you still can't trust with the information. I've lost places to live, a career and friends over it.  This job, as much as we love it and it has it perks, has some darker demons like discrimination and isolation we have to deal with daily. 

Hopefully one day we can be fully accepted as the beautiful job we provide. Until then, I am available for a cup of tea and my door is open if you need an ear to listen. 

I can't agree more with Stephanie.

She has shared her own experience and i definitely can relate to those problems.

So, please, instead of hating each other, we have to, hand in hand, build a stronger community within the community,

Last but not the least, i again apologize if i hurt few of member's feeling here.  I am also human being and i am far from being perfect.

I do lose my temper too from time to time

 

Allie

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Hi everyone,

I just want to thank everyone who has reached out to me by phone call, PM, or email.

I know good people exist.  And you guys prove me right.

I learn overtime, instead of keeping the problems all to myself, i have to ask for help to the right people.

With this regards, to the right channel.   I am happy that i did it.

So now, i have a list of good ladies and gents that i can contact for my future reference.

With my 2 hands, i can solve some problems, but with the help of lots of hands, i can solve much more problems.

We are much stronger as a community

Have a great evening:)

Allie

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One thing that is extremely important that i have not found is someone who is willing to take care of my house and animals.  Someone who is honest, experienced with animals.  A handy man is a huge plus since i live by myself in the countryside (this is one of the reasons why i have german shepherds to protect me)

 

One provider who is always professional and kind has given me the name of a lawyer, but unfortunately she is not dealing with immigration issue. So if you know  a great immigration lawyer who is pro escorting in NB please let me know.

thanks again

Allie

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I have not met either you, Allie, nor Stephanie, in person but anyone with any emotional intelligence can see that you are both kind and beautiful people. I love this impromptu blog you have here Allie. Even though I am saddened by your current situation, you are such a wonderful reminder to us hobbyists that there is always a human face behind the fantasy. I feel so privileged to have the opportunity to spend brief moments with people like you, who share space, time and intimacy with me. Women are amazing gifts to this world, as we all are in our own way, but coming from a heterosexual male perspective, I can think of very few things I love more - the inner and outer beauty of a woman. Thank you for yet another profound and sweet reminder of why I love hobbying ❤

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6 minutes ago, fun4rob said:

I have not met either you, Allie, nor Stephanie, in person but anyone with any emotional intelligence can see that you are both kind and beautiful people. I love this impromptu blog you have here Allie. Even though I am saddened by your current situation, you are such a wonderful reminder to us hobbyists that there is always a human face behind the fantasy. I feel so privileged to have the opportunity to spend brief moments with people like you, who share space, time and intimacy with me. Women are amazing gifts to this world, as we all are in our own way, but coming from a heterosexual male perspective, I can think of very few things I love more - the inner and outer beauty of a woman. Thank you for yet another profound and sweet reminder of why I love hobbying ❤

Thank you and trust me, we are on the same boat.

There are "bad" clients who are not worthy, and unfortunately, knowing the nature of this business, they seem to be a lot.

However, i am pretty observant and intuitive, i only need few good clients who can restore my faith and keep me going with this profession.

Allie

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Unfortunately sometimes it’s best to not work where you live. I’m in a city of 190k bordering on other cities in the GTA.

 

You have nothing to be ashamed of but unfortunately folks in a small town of 3000 are not likely to be welcoming to a sex worker even though we all know people have consensual  sex all over the country. 

But somehow when it’s a monetized transaction the parties involved are often labelled as morally corrupt or criminals. 
 

Remember there is a whole community of like minded individuals who support and honour your choice to live like on your terms! 

 

 

 


 

 

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Yes, i am aware of that dear.

The fact is: i am already here, so i have to face the challenge and conquer it.

Im glad to reach out and thanks for your response 🙂

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You may not like what I'm going to say, but...you created your situation, and you can de-create it just as easily. I love my dogs, but holy cow, seven big dogs with all their costs: vet, food, health insurance, etc. That's a lot of money going out. And then taking chances on living with a total stranger to help you take care of them? Honestly, that's a horror movie waiting to happen.

 

Sell your house in the village.

Give away all but your favorite one or two dogs.

Butcher your chickens and sell 'em or put 'em in the freezer.

Move to a much larger and diverse place.

 

That's your answer right there.

 

 

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I move to a countryside with the intention of having more a normal life, surrounded by nature.

I live in 2.5 acres so i can build a privacy fence for the dogs to roam and that will solve half of the problem.

The other major problems are finding the right person and creating a strong niche within the community of people who like and respect me, and im working hard to find the good ones.  Few candidates have shown some interest and im grateful for that.  But this time, I will be making sure i choose the right person/ people.

One good thing with all these problems is, I'm getting stronger mentally.

My house is number 7.  The vibration of 7 is  completeness, independence and serenity. I'm working on the completeness aspect right now, hopefully this aspect will complete by the end of November this year.

Allie 

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7 hours ago, fatboyNOTslim said:

Oooookay. Good luck then. I'm not going to say you need it, but....

 

Thank you and don't feel bad about your previous comment, even my sister suggested almost the same,

Give away some of my dogs and cats and sell my bantams.  Bantam is tiny and cute, so they are $50 each...too expensive to be slaughtered lol.  

But, i can't.  We have bonded pretty well.  And they tolerate and even love each other.

Every time i see Toby, My cat, raises his tail, roll and rub his body against me and my dogs, greeting us, make my heart melt and warm.   We are family!  

Even my chicken greet me too...believe it or not.

Yes, they are expensive to have and yes, they are making a mess daily and create a chaos.  But hey, so do human children.  I'm their mom.....I'm a bit stressed but i'm also very happy with their presence:)

 

 

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4 minutes ago, Allie Zeon said:

 

Thank you and don't feel bad about your previous comment, even my sister suggested almost the same,

Give away some of my dogs and cats and sell my bantams.  Bantam is tiny and cute, so they are $50 each...too expensive to be slaughtered lol.  

But, i can't.  We have bonded pretty well.  And they tolerate and even love each other.

Every time i see Toby, My cat, raises his tail, roll and rub his body against me and my dogs, greeting us, make my heart melt and warm.   We are family!  

Even my chicken greet me too...believe it or not.

Yes, they are expensive to have and yes, they are making a mess daily and create a chaos.  But hey, so do human children.  I'm their mom.....I'm a bit stressed but i'm also very happy with their presence:)

 

 

Other things, they make me healthy too.  Moping the floor and walk them daily...now you know one of my secret of toned body lol.

Venus, the female cat is very elusive and special.  She is diluted callico and known to give luck in Japanese culture.

I hope so:)

 

Happy Sunday

 

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5 hours ago, Allie Zeon said:

Other things, they make me healthy too.  Moping the floor and walk them daily...now you know one of my secret of toned body lol.

Venus, the female cat is very elusive and special.  She is diluted callico and known to give luck in Japanese culture.

I hope so:)

 

Happy Sunday

 

Hi Allie,

U are inspiration to many and I truly hope everything works out for U.

I've read your comments and U are truly genuine and honest lady.

Truly wish I lived near U and help U with your task.

Hugs

David

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7 hours ago, David#269 said:

Hi Allie,

U are inspiration to many and I truly hope everything works out for U.

I've read your comments and U are truly genuine and honest lady.

Truly wish I lived near U and help U with your task.

Hugs

David

Thank you so much 💖

Good news,

I've just arrived at home with someone special who's willing to help me with the house and animals.  I know his parents so he is not a complete stranger.

Hopefully we can get along well.

One problem solved....at least for now.  Phew...im tired and relieved.

I drove long to pick him up in rural Nova Scotia.  I got even lost but finally we are together at my home now.

 

Good night.

Allie 

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Second update,

He apologized and came back this morning 

The new guy used to be a criminal and has an anxiety issue due to abuse from other inmates when he was in jail.

His family has pretty much abandoned him and he used to live in a garage prior me taking him home.

I told him that im going to help me if he helps me too and not getting lazy, sleeping and eating.

After being on the street for a night hopefully he realizes that nothing is for granted.

Im not going to help if he is not going to improve himself.

Im kind but not too kind.  I don't support laziness.

Hopefully he gets it.

He is helping me mopping the floor now.

# life as a single fighter 💪

Allie 

 

 

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On 10/29/2022 at 9:51 PM, Allie Zeon said:

Hi everyone,

I hope i can discuss and share my life living as an escort in my village of 3000 people and I hope some of you can help me solve the problem.

First of all, i never live in a village before so the idea to move to a beautiful, serene, near the ocean with some acreages sounded like a dream 2 1/2 years ago when i move full time to the province.

People seem to be very friendly and are truly welcoming in general.

I will have the same opinion about living here if I live and work like "normal" people.

Unfortunately, as we all know here, I am an escort with my photos and videos all over the internet and it's way too late to blur them by now.

People have treated me differently the moment they realize i am an escort.

I have a hard time finding friends, i have a hard time to find plumber, painter, carpenter, contractor or even someone who are willing to help me walking my dogs or mowing my lawn.  Everyone keeps the distance since they want they good reputation intact.  They refuse to work for me even though im willing to pay them their fee.

This issue has been going on for 2 years, just few months after they realize the Asian lady who just moved in the neighborhood from Toronto is actually Allie Zeon 😞

 

I was stressed at the beginning but now, i truly want to prove to all of them that even though i am an escort, I am actually a normal, good person just as good and "normal" as them. The only difference is i work as an escort.

I personally don't have any problem working in this profession since I truly believe that we, as escorts, contribute to the well being of men who deserve human touch, companionship and sex that they might be lacking at home...so what's to be embarrassed about?

Anyway, long story short, i've decided to move forward and create my little community of people who appreciate me as a person and as an escort and hopefully we can build a relationship to raise people's awareness that escorts are not necessarily a criminal and/or drug addict.

 

Therefore, if you are a handy man, contractor, dog walker/ pet sitter who are willing to help me, my house and my animals please get back to me by PM.

I need your help to erase the negative stigma of an escort.

If you happen to lose your job and need a place and food.  I can accommodate you with that as well.  But you truly have to appreciate me fully and love animals.  I have dogs, cats and chickens.  I love them, they are my children.

 

Enough rambling.

Happy Halloween 🎃

 

Allie 

Good afternoon Allie.. shame to those person , l try to meet with you ,about a year ago in Ottawa but l had to cancel ( urgent Meeting) but when l look at your ad l saw someone really beautiful(really )but not only that , smart and  easy going just to by the way you make your ad (presentation)  l have hard time understand people who judge others and they don’t really know the person.Hopefully you will succeed to convince your community xx

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 I'm sorry, but this is not going to end well. If I had hair to rip out, I would. Do you have a death wish? I am simply speechless and dumbfounded.

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I think i can handle this.  Too long to explain in here.

So far, the house loves the person.  She is much cleaner and shiny now.

Oh...he is afraid of my German shepherds and I'm the alpha of all of them.  

Let's sum it up as that 🙂

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