Things that turn you off when you see an SP?

[Hornet 71]

Hi,

 

Recently had few encounters where I was turned off by the location where an SP was offering her services.

Apartment was a real mess, washroom not very clean, room was too bright as the curtains were covering the outside light only partially, not to mention a case where I had to share a towel previously used by the SP. And those were SPs that charge over $XXXhr.

Don't know about the rest of you guys, but these are big turn-offs for me.

 

Curios to hear what other turn-offs you might have experienced in the past. :) (No names of SPs please!)

 

The list might help some ladies to make us, clients, even happier. :)

 

Cheers,

Hornet

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[ottawaadventurer 5114]

Evidence of a previous session, unclean bathroom, general lack of preparation...

 

These are NOT things I have ever experienced with a CERB member. The ladies on this board are class acts in my experience.

[Hornet 71]

Evidence of a previous session, unclean bathroom, general lack of preparation...

 

These are NOT things I have ever experienced with a CERB member. The ladies on this board are class acts in my experience.

 

I guess I wasn't as lucky as you :)

 

Hornet

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[roamingguy 300291]

The lady shows up (the encounter planned a month and half ahead of time btw), she says she is having her period, so we can do everything but...

Then says "gotta pay the bills hun, gotta pay the bills" (what is everything else...think about it, a lot taken off the menu)

She says she likes having her feet kissed, so I proceed to start...well she could have washed her feet first

She asked to use the bathroom...do you think she could close the door, she left it wide open

Just some highlights from my very first encounter, from a CL "lady"

The ladies from CERB so much better and classier

RG

[Megan'sTouch 23875]

I think most of these things are common sense, but some choose not to follow it. It's not really anything we need to be "told" because we already know, some just choose not to follow it.

[Guest blo*****s]

- Taking a call during an appointment

- Complaining about their personal life throughout the appointment

- Simply being a member on here does not guarantee good service, btw

[Soleil Sublime 38108]

- Simply being a member on here does not guarantee good service, btw

 

 

Exactly. Anyone can join cerb. Not everyone has the common sense or courtesy to be professional.

[mrgreen760 37785]

Exactly. Anyone can join cerb. Not everyone has the common sense or courtesy to be professional.

 

You'd think it would go hand in hand...after all this is a service industry. It isn't always the case however.

 

Peace

MG

[roamingguy 300291]

Exactly. Anyone can join cerb. Not everyone has the common sense or courtesy to be professional.

 

But hopefully here, on CERB, compared to some other boards, members, both ladies and gentlemen are willing to share, offer advice, and hopefully learn to be more professional or in the case of the guys, be a better client

I know I learned how to be good client from some of the threads on CERB.

There is a bit of a learning curve, there are no courses offered, but if we share experiences and offer input and advice, it may help someone else out.

Hope that is coming out right

RG

[bewlayb 7480]

- Taking a call during an appointment

- Complaining about their personal life throughout the appointment

- Simply being a member on here does not guarantee good service, btw

 

I agree (especially) with your last point. It is naive of us to think otherwise and I have found this out from experience. Remember, this is a recommendation board only after all, open to anyone to join. Do your research here and you will find the ladies that recently, most consistently, or more frequently provide good service. But again... no guarantees.

[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

I agree (especially) with your last point. It is naive of us to think otherwise and I have found this out from experience. Remember, this is a recommendation board only after all, open to anyone to join. Do your research here and you will find the ladies that recently, most consistently, or more frequently provide good service. But again... no guarantees.

 

No, there are no guarantees. While I am not condoning any of these behaviours by SP's, let's keep in mind that rotten service can occur anywhere. The snooty store clerk, the clueless waitress, getting f*&cked at the fast food drive thru, the dirty bathroom at your favorite pub, the long, unexplained lineups at Service Canada...the list goes on. You do, however, have the power to minimize your exposure to unwanted incall experiences. Do your homework, read the reco's, tell the lady your misgivings, don't repeat!

[mrgreen760 37785]

No, there are no guarantees. While I am not condoning any of these behaviours by SP's, let's keep in mind that rotten service can occur anywhere. The snooty store clerk, the clueless waitress, getting f*&cked at the fast food drive thru, the dirty bathroom at your favorite pub, the long, unexplained lineups at Service Canada...the list goes on. You do, however, have the power to minimize your exposure to unwanted incall experiences. Do your homework, read the reco's, tell the lady your misgivings, don't repeat!

 

Well said Meg...well said!!

 

Peace

MG

[Hornet 71]

No, there are no guarantees. While I am not condoning any of these behaviours by SP's, let's keep in mind that rotten service can occur anywhere. The snooty store clerk, the clueless waitress, getting f*&cked at the fast food drive thru, the dirty bathroom at your favorite pub, the long, unexplained lineups at Service Canada...the list goes on. You do, however, have the power to minimize your exposure to unwanted incall experiences. Do your homework, read the reco's, tell the lady your misgivings, don't repeat!

 

I agree with what you said but, the fact that this forum doesn't allow negative comments doesn't help us clients.

Actually I find this "editing-concept" quite misleading as the negative ones get removed by the Mod very quickly.

 

I am very diligent when it comes to choosing the right SP but I didn't find the Reco's useful in two "nightmare" cases that I mentioned.

 

And yes, we can choose not to go back, but you still waisted your money by trusting Reco's showing only one side of the story.

I wish there was a board more tailored to clients' needs then to SPs'.

 

But I understand, many of SPs are the actual sponsors of this forum, so they make the rules :)

 

Well, at least we can let SP know what we, the clients, like or don't which was the purpose of this thread.

 

Hornet

Cheers,

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I think most of these things are common sense' date=' but some choose not to follow it. It's not really anything we need to be "told" because we already know, some just

choose not to follow it.[/quote']

 

Well, those that choose not to follow it, shouldn't be in this type of business and definatelly not advertising on a reputable forum.

But, "no-negative review" policy on this board allows them to sneak in.

 

But, I think that the ignorance is not the only problem here. Not everybody knows how to run a good business, especially service related.

You need a bit more then just a common sense, if you want to meet and execeed the expectations of your clients. ;)

 

Cheers,

Hornet

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[ottawaadventurer 5114]

To be clear... And if you read my post carefully, I did not say that all members of CERB are sure-things. I said, for both sentences, "in my experience". Perhaps I have been lucky. Perhaps I have relied on the reviews of members who I know are well positioned to provide reliable guidance.

 

My point was that in my experience, CERB members have all been class acts.

 

Wasn't looking to start an argument - just wanted to tip my hat to the many ladies on this board who work hard to provide a quality and reliable service.

 

I feel honored to have met the ones I have met and honored to have spoken to the ones I have spoken to.

 

And to the guys who post reco's, thanks!

[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

I agree with what you said but, the fact that this forum doesn't allow negative comments doesn't help us clients

 

I must disagree here. There is a function that allows one to rate a location. If you read the reco's most of them indicate the positives of the incall location and that is a great way to determine if the SP offer the atmosphere you are seeking! Positive comments should always outway negative!!!!! Positive is usually true while negative is subjective.

[Hornet 71]

To be clear... And if you read my post carefully, I did not say that all members of CERB are sure-things. I said, for both sentences, "in my experience". Perhaps I have been lucky. Perhaps I have relied on the reviews of members who I know are well positioned to provide reliable guidance.

 

My point was that in my experience, CERB members have all been class acts.

 

Wasn't looking to start an argument - just wanted to tip my hat to the many ladies on this board who work hard to provide a quality and reliable service.

 

I feel honored to have met the ones I have met and honored to have spoken to the ones I have spoken to.

 

And to the guys who post reco's, thanks!

 

Not sure who you were aiming at with this reply.

I just mentioned that you were one of the lucky ones. Nothing wrong with that.

And cheer up!, it's Friday :)

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I agree with what you said but, the fact that this forum doesn't allow negative comments doesn't help us clients

 

I must disagree here. There is a function that allows one to rate a location. If you read the reco's most of them indicate the positives of the incall location and that is a great way to determine if the SP offer the atmosphere you are seeking! Positive comments should always outway negative!!!!! Positive is usually true while negative is subjective.

 

No offense but you sound very subjective with your last statement: "Positive is usually true while negative is subjective" :)

What if the service is really bad? I am sure that you would agreed that that lady with smelly feet, or charging full rates when having a period is not really a characteristic of a good service. :)

 

H.

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[roamingguy 300291]

I agree with what you said but, the fact that this forum doesn't allow negative comments doesn't help us clients.

Actually I find this "editing-concept" quite misleading as the negative ones get removed by the Mod very quickly.

 

I am very diligent when it comes to choosing the right SP but I didn't find the Reco's useful in two "nightmare" cases that I mentioned.

 

And yes, we can choose not to go back, but you still waisted your money by trusting Reco's showing only one side of the story.

I wish there was a board more tailored to clients' needs then to SPs'.

 

But I understand, many of SPs are the actual sponsors of this forum, so they make the rules :)

 

Well, at least we can let SP know what we, the clients, like or don't which was the purpose of this thread.

 

Hornet

Cheers,

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No matter what board you are on, you are dealing with people that have "handles" be it the guys (like me, my real name isn't roamingguy) and the ladies, who have a stage name for lack of a better word.

Really, people are very courageous in posting criticisms when they have the benefit of anonymity. But how many boards would even function if everyone's real name and contact info were posted, probably none at all.

At least CERB doesn't allow bashing. And some of the other boards, well ones allowing criticisms, take those bashings somewhat critically too. One board, case in point, had one guy bashing a lady that he hadn't even seen, he just reported a third hand story that another guy told another guy told him (and I'm in disbelief of the "story" since I've had repeat encounters with this lady, and she is a great lady)

Another board I was on, well I posted a reco of another lady I saw. Because I wouldn't post details of our encounter (what goes on behind closed doors stays behind closed doors) I ended up receiving a few ignorant and nasty pm's.

But if you think you can create a better board, by all means go ahead, nothing is stopping you from starting one. But it seems when it comes to boards, they are either guys vs ladies or CERB which is more that we are opposite sides of the same coin and engaged in a mutually beneficial activity. And really, that first encounter with a lady I liken to a blind date, and there are no guarrantees no matter what

And as a sidenote, while anyone can get on CERB, remember, not only does this apply to ladies, it applies to guys as well.

Some longwinded ramblings

RG

[Capital Hunter 18263]

I will never have a problem with location as it is always my own. And yes I design the light, music, setting, and everything else to my liking and is always clean and has never had a case of turn down for a second visit when I asked.

 

To respond to the OP though

 

1 - Bad hygiene (breath, body smell....) - Rare but happens

2 - Aggressiveness/passiveness - Very rare but has happened

3 - Answering calls during the session (only happened once)

4 - being late by more than half hour.

[Hornet 71]

No matter what board you are on, you are dealing with people that have "handles" be it the guys (like me, my real name isn't roamingguy) and the ladies, who have a stage name for lack of a better word.

Really, people are very courageous in posting criticisms when they have the benefit of anonymity. But how many boards would even function if everyone's real name and contact info were posted, probably none at all.

At least CERB doesn't allow bashing. And some of the other boards, well ones allowing criticisms, take those bashings somewhat critically too. One board, case in point, had one guy bashing a lady that he hadn't even seen, he just reported a third hand story that another guy told another guy told him (and I'm in disbelief of the "story" since I've had repeat encounters with this lady, and she is a great lady)

 

Another board I was on, well I posted a reco of another lady I saw. Because I wouldn't post details of our encounter (what goes on behind closed doors stays behind closed doors) I ended up receiving a few ignorant and nasty pm's.

But if you think you can create a better board, by all means go ahead, nothing is stopping you from starting one. But it seems when it comes to boards, they are either guys vs ladies or CERB which is more that we are opposite sides of the same coin and engaged in a mutually beneficial activity. And really, that first encounter with a lady I liken to a blind date, and there are no guarrantees no matter what

And as a sidenote, while anyone can get on CERB, remember, not only does this apply to ladies, it applies to guys as well.

Some longwinded ramblings

RG

 

There are many examples of sucesfull reviews/boards where positive and negative comments are allowed.

If 90% of reviews are positive, probably the 10% are very subjective or just bashing.

But, that's another story. Not the focus of this thread. :)

I just wanted to mention that the Reco's didn't help me in this case, which does't mean that the board is not useful :)

At least the pics and schedules are handy :)

 

H.

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[Guest E*******h S******s]

I agree with what you said but, the fact that this forum doesn't allow negative comments doesn't help us clients.

Actually I find this "editing-concept" quite misleading as the negative ones get removed by the Mod very quickly.

 

I am very diligent when it comes to choosing the right SP but I didn't find the Reco's useful in two "nightmare" cases that I mentioned.

 

And yes, we can choose not to go back, but you still waisted your money by trusting Reco's showing only one side of the story.

I wish there was a board more tailored to clients' needs then to SPs'.

 

But I understand, many of SPs are the actual sponsors of this forum, so they make the rules :)

 

Well, at least we can let SP know what we, the clients, like or don't which was the purpose of this thread.

 

Hornet

Cheers,

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Additional Comments:

 

 

Well, those that choose not to follow it, shouldn't be in this type of business and definatelly not advertising on a reputable forum.

But, "no-negative review" policy on this board allows them to sneak in.

 

But, I think that the ignorance is not the only problem here. Not everybody knows how to run a good business, especially service related.

You need a bit more then just a common sense, if you want to meet and execeed the expectations of your clients. ;)

 

Cheers,

Hornet

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With all due respect, when you joined this board it very clearly stated that "If you don't have any nice to say then don't say anything at all." There are many, many boards across Canada where the client can say whatever ugly thing he wants. Things are run differently here. If you do your homework, go by the recommendations of members who have been here longer than a week, read the SP's advertising and postings than you have drastically mitigated your risk.

 

You speak of a couple of nightmarish experiences. Were there indications that things wouldn't "meet or exceed your expectations" when you walked through the door? I would think that if you went to a location and it was unclean and/or smelled bad, or if the SP didn't look like her pics or had a smoke hanging out of her mouth, you would say "Thanks but no thanks." If you decide to go through the appointment anyway, I find it difficult to understand how it all becomes the escort's fault that you "wasted your money". If I walked into a restaurant and it wasn't clean and smelled bad, I'd be walking out again pretty quickly.

 

Honestly, if an escort consistently runs her business in an unprofessional manner, she won't be in business long. Just my .02.

[Hornet 71]

With all due respect, when you joined this board it very clearly stated that "If you don't have any nice to say then don't say anything at all." There are many, many boards across Canada where the client can say whatever ugly thing he wants. Things are run differently here. If you do your homework, go by the recommendations of members who have been here longer than a week, read the SP's advertising and postings than you have drastically mitigated your risk.

 

You speak of a couple of nightmarish experiences. Were there indications that things wouldn't "meet or exceed your expectations" when you walked through the door? I would think that if you went to a location and it was unclean and/or smelled bad, or if the SP didn't look like her pics or had a smoke hanging out of her mouth, you would say "Thanks but no thanks." If you decide to go

through the appointment anyway, I find it difficult to understand how it all becomes the escort's fault that you "wasted your money". If I walked into a restaurant and it wasn't clean and smelled bad, I'd be walking out again pretty quickly.

 

Honestly, if an escort runs her business in an unprofessional manner, she won't be in business long. Just my .02.

 

Well, some of us gents don't want to offend the ladies, especially knowing that not everybody knows how to run a sustainable business. :)

In this case I decided to stay but never come back. I might be wrong but I think many of gents here would do the same.

Or maybe I am just too nice :)

 

H.

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[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

In this case I decided to stay but never come back. I might be wrong but I think many of gents here would do the same. Or I am just too nice :)

 

H.

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You did the right thing. Nothing gets the message across more than never re-booking!

[Guest E*******h S******s]

Well, some of us gents don't want to offend the ladies, especially knowing that not everybody knows how to run a sustainable business. :)

In this case I decided to stay but never come back. I might be wrong but I think many of gents here would do the same. Or I am just too nice :)

 

H.

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I'm sorry, but I don't understand that reasoning. You will make use of her body even though you have indications that it won't go well and not say anything so as not to cause offense, but after the fact you feel it is ok to rake her through the coals for the edification of the masses? That doesn't sound very nice to me.

[Hornet 71]

I'm sorry, but I don't understand that reasoning. You will make use of her body even though you have indications that it won't go well and not say anything so as not to cause offense, but after the fact you feel it is ok to rake her through the coals for the edification of the masses? That doesn't sound very nice to me.

 

I never said I will reveal her identity. I'll keep it to myself.

As I said, I'm a nice guy. :)

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[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

Sometimes you must remind people (in general not only in this biz) what is lacking in their service. How else will they realize what is wrong? I will never hesitate to tell my local bar owner that the environment is being neglected, what is different here? If you found something offensive when visiting an SP, a polite email detailing your dislikes would be appropriate. If she is a good soul she will take it in stride and endeavour to change what is not acceptable. If not confronted, she may continue on thinking nothing is wrong. We learn only thru our mistakes but we do not always realize we are making a mistake unless told PERSONALLY!